When most people think of traditional gender roles, they think of common tasks that are considered masculine like mowing the lawn, fixing the car, or being the sole income earner for the household, while feminine roles include being a stay at home mom, meal planning & preparation, and doing the laundry. These beliefs can often be ingrained in us from our upbringing. But what happens when you are in a relationship and those beliefs don’t match? We talk about the idea of traditional gender roles, why some of those structures are outdated, and how we operate as a mostly non-traditional couple.

Are you and your partner traditional, non-traditional, or a combination of both?  

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Occasional arguments are normal in a relationship, so it’s not necessarily a sign that your relationship is headed for a breakup. It’s how it’s handled that can cause effective communication or ineffective communication. It’s important to actively listen to understand the concerns or issues your partner is addressing. It’s ok to ask for clarification on something you don’t understand. Don’t assume you know what the other person is thinking. Be open to different perspectives and take responsibility for your own actions. There is nothing wrong with apologizing when you know you are wrong. Schedule a time to talk out your issues if that’s what it takes to find a resolution. Whatever you do, fight fair.

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Learning about the similarities and differences between you and your partner is an essential part of getting to know each other on a deeper level. Being able to share hobbies is a great way to strengthen your bond. After all, your partner should be your best friend. But what if you're not compatible in many areas? Is the relationship doomed or can you work through it? What happens when the novelty of the differences wears off and the incompatibilities becomes reasons to argue? Listen as we discuss these issues and how we had a few incompatibility issues of our own.

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Have you ever ended a relationship because somehow you weren't compatible with that person? Did you miss red flags because you waited too late to ask important questions? This week's conversation is about asking questions when dating.You have to know who you are spending your time with. When you start dating someone, it's important to find out if you're both on the same page before you take that next step.

What are some questions you would ask before you take things to the next level?

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This week we continue the conversation about the influence of family and friends. We also discuss introducing a partner to family and how miscommunication can create unnecessary issues within the relationship.

Tell us how you navigated introducing a partner to your family.

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Welcome to Can We Talk for a Second? This week we talk about the influence of family and friends. Sometimes outside influences can create doubt in a relationship. Every couple has ups and downs. But, the journey of a relationship can be made more difficult when you take other people along for the ride. It becomes harder to deal with when it’s people you care about, such as family and close friends.

How important are the opinions of your loved ones vs the love you have for your partner?

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Welcome to Can We Talk for a Second? This trailer serves as an introduction to the unfiltered conversations between Manny & Keya. Get to know us as we embark on this therapeutic journey about love, relationships, and the good and bad that comes with it.