S2 EP9: Blossoming + Voice - Mind Week

Success isn’t what stops most people.

It’s what happens right after success.

Why do we sabotage ourselves right after things start going well?

You land a win…and suddenly doubt creeps in.

Someone compliments your work…and you minimize it.

Life expands…and your mind quietly pulls you back into familiar patterns.

This is The Success Trap- the moment when expansion triggers self-sabotage.

In this episode of the Coming Home to You Sparkcast, Margarita Rose explores the concept Gay Hendricks calls The Upper Limit Problem from his book The Big Leap- the subconscious thermostat that determines how much joy, visibility, love, and success we allow ourselves to experience before we shrink.

You’ll discover: • Why your mind contracts when life starts going well • How deflecting compliments and judging others can signal an upper limit • The hidden pattern behind success → self-sabotage • A simple awareness practice to expand your capacity for visibility and voice

Because blossoming isn’t about becoming louder.

It’s about increasing your capacity to feel good while being seen.

And awareness…is where that expansion begins.

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S2 EP8: Trinity of Truth Sovereignty as Love and Integrity

Most women don’t lose themselves all at once. They lose themselves one “should” at a time. One people-pleasing yes. One swallowed truth. One self-abandonment disguised as love.

In this Trinity of Truth conversation, we named it. The cost of being liked. The price of staying quiet. The exhaustion of performing goodness. The slow erosion of identity when you live by “should” instead of sovereignty. And here’s what we remembered: You can pause. You can reframe. You can choose one small step back toward yourself.

Sovereignty isn’t a personality shift. It’s a devotional practice. It’s choosing not to abandon yourself in the tiny moments. It’s letting it be messy. It’s failing forward instead of performing perfection. What they say about you has nothing to say about you. Let them judge.

Projection is just unhealed perception looking for a mirror. If choosing yourself makes someone uncomfortable, that discomfort belongs to them, not you. You don’t have to explain your alignment. You don’t have to defend your growth. You don’t have to shrink so others can stay comfortable.

You are allowed to outgrow the version of you that survived. This episode is for the woman who is tired of living by “should.” For the one who feels the quiet ache of self-abandonment. For the one who is ready to come home, even if it’s messy.

Small step today: Where did you say yes when your body meant no? Pause there. Breathe there. Choose differently next time. That’s sovereignty. That’s love with a backbone.

Listen to the full conversation in the latest Sparkcast. And if this resonated, share it with a woman who is done performing and ready to practice devotion to herself.

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S2 EP7: Sovereignty as Love in the Soul

Why do we blame other people for the life we’re still choosing?

This episode is not gentle. It’s honest. We talk about projection, moral superiority, and the uncomfortable truth that sovereignty requires ownership, not perfection.

If you’ve ever said:

“They don’t support me.”

“They don’t change.”

“They don’t see me.”

…while quietly knowing you haven’t changed your response either... this conversation is for you.

Blame keeps you righteous. But responsibility makes you powerful.

Sovereignty as love at the soul level isn’t control. It’s integrity.It’s going to bed knowing: “I showed up clean.” or "I chose differently today "Not flawless. Clean and Sovereign.

Tonight, we step off the dance floor of projection and into radical responsibility. And yes... it might sting. But that sting? Well, that’s freedom knocking at your front door.

So bring your Cafecito and be ready for raw honesty.

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