Episodes

  • The Success Trap: Why You Self-Sabotage Right After Things Start Going Well
    Mar 4 2026

    S2 EP9: Blossoming + Voice - Mind Week

    Success isn’t what stops most people.

    It’s what happens right after success.

    Why do we sabotage ourselves right after things start going well?

    You land a win…and suddenly doubt creeps in.

    Someone compliments your work…and you minimize it.

    Life expands…and your mind quietly pulls you back into familiar patterns.


    This is The Success Trap- the moment when expansion triggers self-sabotage.


    In this episode of the Coming Home to You Sparkcast, Margarita Rose explores the concept Gay Hendricks calls The Upper Limit Problem from his book The Big Leap- the subconscious thermostat that determines how much joy, visibility, love, and success we allow ourselves to experience before we shrink.


    You’ll discover: • Why your mind contracts when life starts going well • How deflecting compliments and judging others can signal an upper limit • The hidden pattern behind success → self-sabotage • A simple awareness practice to expand your capacity for visibility and voice


    Because blossoming isn’t about becoming louder.

    It’s about increasing your capacity to feel good while being seen.

    And awareness…is where that expansion begins.

    #sparkcast #blossomingandvoice #cominghometoyou #margaritarose #selfsabotage #gayhendricks #upperlimit #zoneofcompetence

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    44 mins
  • People Pleasing Isn't Love, It's Fear. Why Being Nice Is Slowly Costing You Your Identity - Let Them Judge
    Feb 25 2026

    S2 EP8: Trinity of Truth Sovereignty as Love and Integrity


    Most women don’t lose themselves all at once. They lose themselves one “should” at a time. One people-pleasing yes. One swallowed truth. One self-abandonment disguised as love.


    In this Trinity of Truth conversation, we named it. The cost of being liked. The price of staying quiet. The exhaustion of performing goodness. The slow erosion of identity when you live by “should” instead of sovereignty. And here’s what we remembered: You can pause. You can reframe. You can choose one small step back toward yourself.


    Sovereignty isn’t a personality shift. It’s a devotional practice. It’s choosing not to abandon yourself in the tiny moments. It’s letting it be messy. It’s failing forward instead of performing perfection. What they say about you has nothing to say about you. Let them judge.


    Projection is just unhealed perception looking for a mirror. If choosing yourself makes someone uncomfortable, that discomfort belongs to them, not you. You don’t have to explain your alignment. You don’t have to defend your growth. You don’t have to shrink so others can stay comfortable.


    You are allowed to outgrow the version of you that survived. This episode is for the woman who is tired of living by “should.” For the one who feels the quiet ache of self-abandonment. For the one who is ready to come home, even if it’s messy.


    Small step today: Where did you say yes when your body meant no? Pause there. Breathe there. Choose differently next time. That’s sovereignty. That’s love with a backbone.


    Listen to the full conversation in the latest Sparkcast. And if this resonated, share it with a woman who is done performing and ready to practice devotion to herself.


    Join the Inner Sisterhood Circle: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soulsparkfamilia Lacey Cook www.wemovewithintention.com Celeste Izelaar: Elsinora Kisyova:

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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • Blame is Comfortable. Sovereignty is NOT. You are not Stuck. You are Avoiding.
    Feb 20 2026

    S2 EP7: Sovereignty as Love in the Soul


    Why do we blame other people for the life we’re still choosing?


    This episode is not gentle. It’s honest. We talk about projection, moral superiority, and the uncomfortable truth that sovereignty requires ownership, not perfection.


    If you’ve ever said:

    “They don’t support me.”

    “They don’t change.”

    “They don’t see me.”

    …while quietly knowing you haven’t changed your response either... this conversation is for you.


    Blame keeps you righteous. But responsibility makes you powerful.

    Sovereignty as love at the soul level isn’t control. It’s integrity.It’s going to bed knowing: “I showed up clean.” or "I chose differently today "Not flawless. Clean and Sovereign.


    Tonight, we step off the dance floor of projection and into radical responsibility. And yes... it might sting. But that sting? Well, that’s freedom knocking at your front door.


    So bring your Cafecito and be ready for raw honesty.


    #sparkcast #cominghometoyou #theembodiedleader #soulsparkyourlife #sovereigntyaslove #youarenotstuckyouareavoiding #podcast #empoweredlatina #womenwhorisetogether #chooseyourselffirst #margaritarose

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    20 mins
  • When Staying Calm Becomes Self-Abandonment. Your Body had to get Loud, to be Seen
    Feb 11 2026

    S2 EP6: Sovereignty as Love in the Body


    Choosing yourself will upset people who benefited from you not doing that. And your body has always known. In today’s Sparkcast, we move from the mind into the body, where sovereignty becomes real. Not as a concept, but as sensation and consent. And nervous system truth.

    This episode is for you if:

    • your body tightens before your mind understands why

    • you feel exhausted after explaining yourself

    • you’ve confused staying calm with staying safe

    • or you’ve learned to escalate just to be seen

    Your body isn’t broken. It’s been responding accurately.

    🎧 Sovereignty as Love: The Body is live now. Listen with your body, not just your mind.

    #sparkcast #cominghometoyou #sovereigntyaslove #podcast #margaritarose #soulsparkyourlife #empoweredlatina #sovereignty

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    40 mins
  • Peacekeeping is not the same thing as being loving, and confusing the two is costing you your power!
    Feb 4 2026

    S2 EP5: Sovereignty as Love in the Mind


    Here's the truth nobody wants to admit: explaining yourself is often a trauma response.

    Choosing yourself will upset people who benefited from you not doing that. Let that land. Sovereignty isn’t loud. It doesn’t argue and it doesn’t explain itself. It’s the quiet decision to stop outsourcing your authority and start trusting what you already know. If you’ve felt resistance lately, internally or externally, it might not be because you’re doing something wrong. It might be because you’re finally doing something true. If this resonates, this conversation is for you.


    🎧 Mind Week: Sovereignty as Love is live.


    #sparkcast #cominghometoyou #sovereigntyaslove #soulsparkyourlife #embodiedleadership #podcast #empoweredlatina #margaritarose #sovereignty

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    35 mins
  • This is Why You Burnout - Nobody Owes You Anything (And That’s Your Power)
    Jan 28 2026

    S2 EP4: Trinity of Truth-Vision + Intention | Vision, Devotion & Letting Go of Control

    This episode isn’t about setting goals. It’s about telling the truth. In this Trinity of Truth conversation, we gather in sisterhood to explore vision and intention, not as strategies or mindsets, but as lived, embodied experiences.


    Together with Gwen Geerink, Danielle Longano, and Claudia Molnar, we speak honestly about:

    • the difference between discipline and devotion

    • how the body reveals when we’re out of alignment

    • why vision doesn’t respond to pressure

    • what happens when we stop pretending we don’t know

    • and how leadership becomes real when performance falls away


    This is not a panel. It’s not teaching. It’s not fixing. It’s a witnessing space, where truth is felt, not forced.

    If you’ve been pushing toward a vision that feels heavy…

    If you keep circling the same goals year after year…

    If you sense there’s something deeper asking to be honored…

    This conversation will meet you there. Vision isn’t something you build. It’s something you live.


    🎧 Listen now to the January Trinity of Truth episode of the Coming Home to You Sparkcast: The Embodied Leader - Vision + Intention


    #Sparkcast #visionandintention #trinityoftruth #margaritarose #soulsparkyourlife #burnoutrecovery #visionary

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    1 hr
  • This Is Why Your Goals Keep Resetting Every Year. Stop Pretending You Don't Know
    Jan 21 2026

    S2-EP3: Vision + Intention in the Soul


    This episode isn’t about doing more. It’s about telling the truth.

    In today’s Sparkcast, we move into the SOUL layer of vision and intention, the place where your vision stops being an idea and starts becoming a living relationship. I talk openly about:

    • the difference between discipline and devotion

    • why “being” matters more than forcing action

    • how your body tells you when you’re out of alignment

    • what happens when you keep abandoning yourself in the name of progress

    • and the quiet cost of saying yes to what isn’t part of your vision


    This episode was born from a real moment of realization: that embodied leadership isn’t about getting it right, it’s about being honest enough to stop pretending you don’t know. We explore:

    • vision vs. dreams

    • intention as your come-from

    • how soul nourishment keeps your vision alive

    • why consistency doesn’t mean pressure

    • and how devotion is what sustains long-term creation


    You’ll be guided through a simple, grounding soul practice, and invited into a creative expression ritual you can deepen inside our private sisterhood, because you don’t have to do this alone.


    If you’ve been questioning: “Why do I keep circling the same goals?” “Why does my vision feel heavy instead of alive?” “How do I stay aligned without burning out?”


    This conversation is for you. This is not about becoming someone new. It’s about coming home, and choosing to live from there


    .#SparkCast #ComingHomeToYou #theembodiedleader #margaritarose #womenwhorisetogether #empoweredlatina #soulsparkyourlife

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    29 mins
  • Your Over-Effort Is Not Leadership. How to Embody Your Vision Without Burnout.
    Jan 14 2026

    S2-EP2: Vision + Intention in the Body


    "Vision doesn’t stick unless your body feels safe holding it" ~Margarita Rose


    If your mind feels ready for change but your body feels slow, tired, or hesitant…This episode is for you.


    January tells us to move. Winter tells us to listen. And most of us were never taught how to let the body lead. Here’s the truth I wish I had known sooner: If your body doesn’t feel safe holding your vision, it will always return to what’s familiar...no matter how clear your intentions are. That’s not self-sabotage. That’s intelligence.


    In this week’s episode of Coming Home to You Sparkcast: The Embodied Leader, we move into the BODY. Not to push. Not to fix. But to regulate, listen, and remember. Inside this episode, we explore:

    • why winter is not the season to force momentum

    • how breath calms the nervous system so vision can land

    • a simple Energy Medicine practice (temporal tapping / triple warmer) to release limiting beliefs

    • how to anchor a new intention without burning yourself out

    • why routine and ritual matter more than motivation

    • how to Keep It Simple, Sacred, and actually follow through


    This isn’t about doing more. It’s about letting your body come with you. Because embodied leadership doesn’t start in the mind. It starts when the body feels safe enough to move.

    🎧 Episode 2 is now live. Listen with your body. Move gently. And remember, slow doesn’t mean stuck. It means you’re listening.


    Welcome home Sisters.


    #sparkcast #cominghometoyou #theembodiedleader #sisterhood #communityimpact #womenwhorisetogether #empoweredlatina #margaritarose #soulsparksanctuary #soulsparkyourlife

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    27 mins