Dr. Carlton returns from Austin Kink Weekend with a suitcase full of harnesses, BBQ, and legendary leather tales that serve up queer history with a side of you did what ? He shares moments of deep inspiration from icons in the leather community, reminding us all that kink is not just sexy—it’s sacred.

Meanwhile, Dangilo and Dr. Carlton tackle a serious and heartfelt letter from a listener who’s feeling scared, uncertain, and in need of support. The guys slow things down to share wisdom, offer comfort, and remind the Booty Gang that you're never alone on your journey of life.

Of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without things spiraling delightfully sideways:

🩺 A listener confesses to a doctor-patient fantasy that deserves its own malpractice waiver

🍆 We hear what it’s like to be a Big Dick Bottom™ (it’s a niche, and we love it)

💉 Someone gets loaded—and not the way you think—in a confessional that requires holy water and a towel

🧠 The guys debate the eternal dilemma: Can a bad personality ruin hotness? And on the flip side—can charm turn a 6 into a solid 9?

The episode wraps with their warm, fuzzy (and slightly sticky) Love Language of the Week, reminding you to stay kind, stay curious, and maybe double-check who you’re sending that confessional to.

Hit play, lube up your ears, and prepare to laugh, cry, and question everything—Butt Honestly, it's the ride you didn't know you needed.

This week on Butt Honestly, hold on to your wagons—and maybe tighten your jockstraps—because we’ve got a double dose of NYC fabulousness! The dynamic, comedic duo behind the hit podcast Pioneers & Trailblazers, Peru Flores and Nick Rosenthal, for an episode that’s equal parts camp, chaos, and unfiltered confessions.

Dr. Carlton and Dangilo dive right in with these Big Apple icons, covering everything from what it means to step into your Daddy era with pride (spoiler: it involves confidence, consent, and moisturizer), to exploring a listener’s surprisingly spicy dilemma that may—or may not—involve a family member and a hot tub. 👀

Expect: 💥 Unapologetic talk about evolving queer identities

👑 Peru and Nick’s takes on being pioneers, trailblazers, and unapologetically themselves

📬 A listener letter that’ll make you question whether you’re the Daddy… or still calling one

😳 A READY SET CONFESS that toes the line between taboo and therapy

And of course, the fellas wrap it all up with their signature Love Language of the Week—because even when the tea is scalding, we like to leave you with a warm fuzzy (and maybe slightly sticky) feeling.

Come for the laughs, stay for the emotional whiplash. Press play and enjoy the ride—Daddy's got this.

This week on Butt Honestly, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo roll out the red (and probably leather) carpet for a real-life superhero—San Diego’s own Paulo Batista He’s a former leather titleholder, an activist, a board member of Sparta Pride and Trans Family Support Services, a sometimes runway model (hello, fierce!), and now an active-duty transgender service member. Basically, if Paulo had any more titles, we’d need a longer episode description.

The guys get into it—really into it—chatting with Paulo about what it means to serve authentically in today’s military and the very real threat of a renewed trans military ban. But this isn’t just politics and policy—it’s personal, passionate, and powerful AF.

They also talk about:

• Pablo’s work with Sparta Pride and how the org supports trans folks in the armed forces
• How he keeps his mental health strong when the world feels a little too on fire (spoiler: it doesn’t involve doomscrolling)
• His leather journey—from titleholder to mentor to full-blown icon status

And because this is Butt Honestly, you know we couldn’t wrap things up without: ✨ A couple rounds of Hit It or Quit It

💗 And, of course, their Love Languages of the Week, because we’re here to uplift your heart while gently stretching your limits.

Whether you're into leather, activism, or just love a damn good conversation with a side of sass, this episode delivers. Suit up, strap in, and press play. 🎙️🍑