Episodes

  • Maurene Goo and the AVENGERS or why Loki is the ideal one-night stand
    Aug 20 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Maurene Goo, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the AVENGERS franchise.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    Iron Man (2008)
    Iron Man 2 (2010)
    Thor (2011)
    Captain America: The First Avenger (2011)
    The Avengers (2012)
    Iron Man 3 (2013)
    Thor: The Dark World (2013)
    Captain America: The Winter Soldier (2014)
    Avengers: Age of Ultron (2015)
    Captain America: Civil War (2016)
    Thor: Ragnarok (2017)
    Avengers: Infinity War (2018)
    Avengers: Endgame (2019)


    Find Maurene online:
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    Preorder ONE AND ONLY here!
    Buy THROWBACK here!
    Buy her other books here!

    Find me:
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    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

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    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

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    32 mins
  • Falon Ballard and PIRATES OF THE CARIBBEAN, or why Elizabeth Swan needs a sex toy
    Aug 13 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Falon Ballard, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the Pirates of the Caribbean franchise.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    Pirates of the Caribbean (2003)
    Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest (2006)
    Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End (2007)


    Find Falon online:
    Website
    Instagram
    Preorder SOMETHING WICKED here!
    Buy CHANGE OF HEART here!
    Buy her other books here!

    Find me:
    Website
    Instagram
    TikTok
    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

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    29 mins
  • Kate Stayman-London and The West Wing, or why Dr Barlett is totally a top
    Aug 6 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Stayman-London, as we debate the sex lives of characters on The West Wing.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    The West Wing (1999)


    Find Kate online:
    Website
    Instagram
    TikTok
    Buy ONE TO WATCH here!
    Buy FANG FICTION here!

    Find me:
    Website
    Instagram
    TikTok
    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

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    33 mins
  • Teaser: Kate Stayman-London and The West Wing
    Jul 30 2025

    Next week on But How's the Sex, Kate Stayman-London and I are talking about West Wing characters, specifically:

    Josh Lyman
    Sam Seaborne
    Toby Ziegler
    CJ Craig
    Dr. and Mr. Bartlett

    Full episode available on August 6th

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    1 min
  • Zan Romanoff and dirtbags, or why Travis Birkenstock is a national treasure
    Jul 23 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Zan Romanoff, as we debate the sex lives of fictional dirtbags.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    Clueless (1995)
    Reality Bites (1994)
    Friday Night Lights - TV Show (2006)
    The L Word - TV Show (2004)

    On The Bleachers Podcast with Zan and Sarah
    Buy SQUARE WAVES
    Buy BIG FAN

    SELAH: Neighborhood Homeless Coalition

    Find Zan online:
    Website
    Instagram
    Blue Sky
    Tumblr
    Buy her latest here!

    Find me:
    Website
    Instagram
    TikTok
    Buy my latest here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

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    31 mins
  • Teaser: Zan Romanoff and Dirtbags
    Jul 16 2025

    Next week on But How's the Sex, Zan Romanoff are talking dirtbags, specifically:

    Travis Birkenstock from Clueless
    Troy Dyer from Reality Bites
    Tim Riggins from Friday Night Lights
    Shane McCutcheon from The L Word

    Full episode available on July 23rd

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    1 min
  • Kate Spencer and FRIENDS, or why Monica is the best in bed
    Jul 9 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Spencer, as we debate the sex lives of the fictional Friends (and Janice too!)

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
    Spoiler Alert: Friends (1994)

    Find Kate on the internet:
    Website
    Instagram
    FaceBook
    TikTok
    Buy her books here!

    Find me!
    Website
    Instagram
    TikTok
    Buy my latest here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)

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    26 mins
  • But How's The Sex: The Teaser
    Jul 1 2025

    But How's the Sex launches on July 9th, 2025!

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    1 min