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But How's The Sex

But How's The Sex

By: Elissa Sussman
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 The only podcast where a romance writer and guest debate the sex lives of fictional characters. Hosted by bestselling author, Elissa Sussman.Best Boy Basil 2025 Art Social Sciences
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  • Haley Renken and HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS, or why Ben can find your clit, but not your heart

    Haley Renken and HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS, or why Ben can find your clit, but not your heart
    Nov 21 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Haley Renken, as we debate the sex lives of characters from HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS (2003)

    Find Haley online:
    Instagram
    TikTok


    Find me:
    Website
    Instagram
    TikTok
    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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    32 mins
  • Elizabeth Hughes and Star Wars, or why we should all be looking for our own Obi-Wan Kenobi

    Elizabeth Hughes and Star Wars, or why we should all be looking for our own Obi-Wan Kenobi
    Nov 14 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Elizabeth Hughes as we debate the sex lives of characters from the Star Wars Universe.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language

    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    STAR WARS in general, but specifically:
    A New Hope (1977)
    The Empire Strikes Back (1980)
    Return of the Jedi (1983)
    The Phantom Menace (1999)
    Attack of the Clones (2002)
    Revenge of the Sith (2005)

    Elizabeth's Recommendations:
    Fanfic:
    Four Days to Bespin by Leela Starsky
    metanoia by beskars
    Novels:
    Lost Stars by Claudia Gray
    Leia: Princess of Alderaan by Claudia Gray
    Eyes Like Stars by Ashley Poston (preorder)


    Find me:
    Website
    Instagram
    TikTok
    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
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    31 mins
  • Leigh Bardugo, and fantasy villains of the 80's, or why the bad guy always gets the best lines

    Leigh Bardugo, and fantasy villains of the 80's, or why the bad guy always gets the best lines
    Oct 31 2025

    Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Leigh Bardugo as we debate the sex lives of 80's fantasy villains.

    Warning: This episode contains extremely adult language
    Spoiler Alerts for the following:
    LABYRINTH (1986)
    LEGEND (1985)
    LADYHAWKE (1985)
    INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE Novel (1976)
    THE VAMPIRE LESTAT Novel (1985)


    Find Leigh online:
    Website
    Instagram

    Sign up for her newsletter here!
    Buy her books here!

    Find me:
    Website
    Instagram
    TikTok
    Buy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!
    Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!
    Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!

    Special thanks:
    Theme - Alex Heller
    Logo - Lauren Airriess
    Tech Support - John Petaja

    Got a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?
    Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!
    More information on the podcast can be found here.

    And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners.

    But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
    Show More Show Less
    33 mins
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