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On today's show, professional speaker, author, and someone I call a friend, Tommy Maloney, and I unpack the seven essential things children of divorce truly need. We discuss the importance of parents who listen more and speak less, giving kids the space to express themselves without pressure. We highlight the value of regular access to grandparents, those steady anchors who provide comfort, continuity, and family connection.

We also emphasize how powerful it can be when parents take a parenting class, gaining tools to overcome the obstacles associated with co-parenting. We discuss the need for firm boundaries and limitations, especially during times when kids crave stability the most.

Tommy and I also explore how crucial it is to speak respectfully about the other parent, protecting a child’s emotional well-being. We touch on consistent rules about access to inappropriate material, making sure kids aren’t exposed to things they’re not ready for. And finally, we discuss the importance of parents having their own emotional support, because children need caregivers who are grounded, regulated, and capable of showing up with compassion.

These seven needs don’t require perfection, just intention, understanding, and love.

ABOUT THE GUEST: Tommy Maloney has spent years in the corporate world as a Training Consultant and Content Creator. He has partnered with brands such as The Home Depot, Bass Pro Shops, PNC Bank, United Airlines, State Farm, Savers/Value Village, and BJ’s Wholesale Club to create impactful learning experiences. This background has enabled him to connect with people from various backgrounds and distill complex ideas into actionable steps, skills he applies daily with his coaching clients. You can learn more about him at http://tommymaloney.com.

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ABOUT THIS EPISODE

Every parent knows the pain of stepping on a Lego at two in the morning — that tiny plastic reminder that life with kids is equal parts love and chaos. In this episode, I share one of my favorite stories (and lessons) about turning those frustrating “pick up your toys!” moments into something surprisingly calm — even kind of fun.

We’ll talk about what really works when your kids don’t do what they said they’d do, how to guide them without losing your cool, and why sometimes the quietest response can make the biggest impact.

It’s part story, part lesson, and totally real — because every parent’s been there. Grab your coffee, take a deep breath, and let’s laugh (and learn) our way through one of parenting’s greatest daily battles: getting kids to follow through… without the yelling.

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Discover how one father’s journey to find better parenting tools led him to a transformative experience with the Redirecting Children’s Behavior (RCB) program. In this heartfelt episode of The Bill Corbett Podcast: Creating Cooperative Kids, Bill shares how learning to pause before parenting reshaped not only his approach as a dad but also his connection with his children.

Bill explores what makes RCB so different from traditional discipline methods — emphasizing empathy, communication, and calm reflection over punishment. He discusses how taking a “parent timeout” can model emotional regulation, helping kids develop the same skill. Listeners will gain insight into how mindful parenting can strengthen family relationships and reduce stress at home.

If you’re seeking practical tools to raise cooperative, confident, and emotionally aware children, this episode offers real-world wisdom rooted in compassion and experience.