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On today's show, professional speaker, author, and someone I call a friend, Tommy Maloney, and I unpack the seven essential things children of divorce truly need. We discuss the importance of parents who listen more and speak less, giving kids the space to express themselves without pressure. We highlight the value of regular access to grandparents, those steady anchors who provide comfort, continuity, and family connection.

We also emphasize how powerful it can be when parents take a parenting class, gaining tools to overcome the obstacles associated with co-parenting. We discuss the need for firm boundaries and limitations, especially during times when kids crave stability the most.

Tommy and I also explore how crucial it is to speak respectfully about the other parent, protecting a child’s emotional well-being. We touch on consistent rules about access to inappropriate material, making sure kids aren’t exposed to things they’re not ready for. And finally, we discuss the importance of parents having their own emotional support, because children need caregivers who are grounded, regulated, and capable of showing up with compassion.

These seven needs don’t require perfection, just intention, understanding, and love.

ABOUT THE GUEST: Tommy Maloney has spent years in the corporate world as a Training Consultant and Content Creator. He has partnered with brands such as The Home Depot, Bass Pro Shops, PNC Bank, United Airlines, State Farm, Savers/Value Village, and BJ’s Wholesale Club to create impactful learning experiences. This background has enabled him to connect with people from various backgrounds and distill complex ideas into actionable steps, skills he applies daily with his coaching clients. You can learn more about him at http://tommymaloney.com.