Episodes

  • Episode 11: First Shaves, Awkward Kisses and Wardrobe Malfunctions, StoryTime With Rachel and Jess
    Nov 12 2025

    Story Time Chaos: First Shaves, Awkward Kisses, and Wardrobe Malfunctions


    Join Rachel and Jessica on this hilarious and relatable episode of BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything) as they dive into some light-hearted story time. Listen as they share uproarious tales from their past, including their first experiences with shaving, memorable kisses, period mishaps, run-ins with the law, embarrassing wardrobe malfunctions, and even a few vomit stories in public. It's a fun, laughter-filled episode that you won't want to miss, perfect for anyone who loves real talk and a good ugly cry laugh.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:48 Story Time with Rachel and Jess

    01:58 Hilarious First Shaving Experiences

    08:13 First Period Stories: Embarrassment and Trauma

    16:46 Musical Memories: From Christian Tunes to TLC

    26:08 First Kisses: Awkward and Unforgettable

    28:50 First Date Memories

    32:46 Wardrobe Malfunctions

    33:06 Embarrassing Gym Incident

    39:52 Throwing Up Stories

    46:49 Pulled Over by the Police

    55:09 Conclusion and Farewell

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    56 mins
  • Episode 10: Exploring Red Pill Content and Understanding the Male Loneliness Epidemic
    Nov 5 2025

    In this episode of BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything), Rachel and Jessica dive into the complex and alarming world of the 'Red Pill' and 'Manosphere' ideologies proliferating online. They discuss the male loneliness epidemic, toxic masculinity, and the dangerous narratives that blame women for men's issues. The conversation moves through personal experiences, expert insights, and reflections on how to raise emotionally healthy boys in today's world. They also highlight the qualities that women find truly attractive in men, citing popular social media influencers and their impact on modern dating culture. Join Rachel and Jessica for a deep, eye-opening discussion on relationships, gender dynamics, and emotional intelligence.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:49 Unpacking the Red Pill and Manosphere

    02:17 The Male Loneliness Epidemic

    03:04 Incel Culture and Misconceptions

    06:14 What Women Really Want

    11:49 The Importance of Self-Reflection

    19:13 Confidence vs. Cockiness

    26:42 Desirable Traits in Men

    30:13 Examples of Alpha Behavior

    30:17 Admiring Andrew Ski: A Gem of a Human Being

    34:47 The Appeal of Good Trouble: Intensity and Advocacy

    37:20 Cheez Chuck: Political Passion and Advocacy

    44:49 Raising Boys: Confidence and Compassion

    47:40 Parenting with Compassion: Leading by Example

    53:37 Teaching Kids to Trust Themselves

    57:12 Concluding Thoughts: Teaching the Next Generation

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    59 mins
  • Epiosde 9: Swiping left and Laughing right, helping Jess navigate through tinder
    Oct 29 2025

    In this episode, Jessica talks about her decision to join Tinder after spending two years exclusively on Hinge. They explore the differences between the two apps, share humorous anecdotes, and examine profiles together while navigating the confusing aspects of Tinder. Rachel also shares her personal dating experiences and advice, including questions she asked herself before committing to her now-husband. Towards the end, they briefly touch upon their current book obsession, 'Bitter Burn,' and its impact on them. The episode wraps up with laughter and a promise for updates on Jessica’s dating journey.

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Episode 8: Taylor Swift, domestic violence and dress to burn🔥
    Oct 22 2025

    Rachel and Jessica introduce their podcast BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything). They discuss their love for Taylor Swift, how they became fans, and the profound emotional connections fans have to her music. The conversation shifts to Taylor Swift-themed events and a powerful collective experience where women shared personal traumas by writing names on a white dress, symbolizing release and healing from abusive relationships. They reflect on domestic violence, the importance of seeking support, and moving from a victim mindset to empowerment. The podcast ends with Rachel and Jessica sharing their current book reads and contemplating the best symbolic act to release the negative energy tied to the dress.

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    41 mins
  • Episode 7: The good girl effect, meeting Sara Cate IRL, grief and found family
    Oct 15 2025

    In this episode Rachel and Jess passionately review Sarah Kate's latest book, 'The Good Girl Effect,' sharing their love for the author's writing style and the deep connection they feel with her characters. The hosts recount their serendipitous encounter with Sarah Kate during a fun-filled day in Sacramento, discussing their experience of meeting her and the humorous, awkward moments that ensued. They explore the themes of grief, love, and healing in 'The Good Girl Effect,' highlighting the emotional depth and spicy elements of the book, particularly focusing on the practice of Shibari and the significance of aftercare in BDSM. The hosts express excitement for upcoming book releases and hint at future discussions on dating and more book reviews.

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    46 mins
  • Episode 6: Am I the asshole? Story time with Rachel and Jess
    Oct 8 2025

    Books, Dating and Everything: Am I the asshole? Story time with Rachel and Jess


    Rachel and Jessica kick off their podcast 'BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything' with humorous introductions and a lively discussion about an unexpected beach conflict during a family outing. This episode also explores the toil women endure to prepare for dates and a hilariously painful first sugaring experience. The hosts delve into the ethics and personal comfort of audiobooks with personalized romantic narrations, and review spicy reads like Sierra Simone's 'Salt Kiss' and 'Honeycutt.' They tease a future episode dedicated to Sarah Kate’s latest book and reflect on their experience meeting the author.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:48 Toe Sponges and Free Toes: A Hilarious Start

    01:47 Am I the Asshole? River Storytime

    09:04 The Waxing Chronicles: A Painful Truth

    14:17 The Painful Beauty Ritual

    15:58 The Struggles of Dating Preparation

    17:16 The Cost of Dating

    18:16 Exploring Quinn: Personalized Audiobooks

    19:01 Debating the Appropriateness of Quinn

    23:34 Book Recommendations and Reviews

    27:58 Wrapping Up and Farewell


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    28 mins
  • Episode 5: We are talking all things audiobooks
    Oct 1 2025

    In this episode Rachel and Jessica are talking all things audiobooks! They explore whether listening to audiobooks is the same as reading. They share personal anecdotes, their favorite narrators like Jacob Morgan and Teddy Hamilton, and opinions on various audiobook formats, including duet styles and dramatized versions. The discussion also touches on the practicality and enjoyment of audiobooks in busy lives. Additionally, Jessica shares a recent dating experience, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and mutual interest. The hosts encourage listeners to try audiobooks and engage with their community on social media.

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    31 mins
  • Episode 4: A journey through the kinks
    Sep 24 2025

    In this episode Hosts Rachel and Jessica discuss They talk about their journey through Sara Cate 'The Salacious Players Club' series, which explores various kinks and relationship dynamics. Each book in the series introduces a different kink: age gaps, dom-sub relationships, voyeurism, throuples, and more. They share personal anecdotes and insights into how these themes opened their minds to new aspects of sexuality and communication within relationships. They emphasize the importance of safety, mutual respect, and enthusiastic consent in exploring sexual desires.

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    34 mins