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BDE: Books, Dating and Everything

BDE: Books, Dating and Everything

By: Rachel Hills and Jessica Sanchez
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BDE: Books, Dating and Everything is your new go-to brunch table. Hosted by two best friends who are equally obsessed with spicy romance novels, messy dating stories, and emotionally unavailable fictional men, this podcast is part book club, part dating diary, and 100% real talk. Each week, we dish on the books we’re reading, the dates we’re regretting, and the life lessons we’re learning—served with a side of hot takes, humor, and occasional tears. Think: your favorite group chat, but in podcast form. New episodes drop every week. Bring your mimosa.Rachel Hills and Jessica Sanchez
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  • Episode 11: First Shaves, Awkward Kisses and Wardrobe Malfunctions, StoryTime With Rachel and Jess
    Nov 12 2025

    Story Time Chaos: First Shaves, Awkward Kisses, and Wardrobe Malfunctions


    Join Rachel and Jessica on this hilarious and relatable episode of BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything) as they dive into some light-hearted story time. Listen as they share uproarious tales from their past, including their first experiences with shaving, memorable kisses, period mishaps, run-ins with the law, embarrassing wardrobe malfunctions, and even a few vomit stories in public. It's a fun, laughter-filled episode that you won't want to miss, perfect for anyone who loves real talk and a good ugly cry laugh.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:48 Story Time with Rachel and Jess

    01:58 Hilarious First Shaving Experiences

    08:13 First Period Stories: Embarrassment and Trauma

    16:46 Musical Memories: From Christian Tunes to TLC

    26:08 First Kisses: Awkward and Unforgettable

    28:50 First Date Memories

    32:46 Wardrobe Malfunctions

    33:06 Embarrassing Gym Incident

    39:52 Throwing Up Stories

    46:49 Pulled Over by the Police

    55:09 Conclusion and Farewell

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    56 mins
  • Episode 10: Exploring Red Pill Content and Understanding the Male Loneliness Epidemic
    Nov 5 2025

    In this episode of BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything), Rachel and Jessica dive into the complex and alarming world of the 'Red Pill' and 'Manosphere' ideologies proliferating online. They discuss the male loneliness epidemic, toxic masculinity, and the dangerous narratives that blame women for men's issues. The conversation moves through personal experiences, expert insights, and reflections on how to raise emotionally healthy boys in today's world. They also highlight the qualities that women find truly attractive in men, citing popular social media influencers and their impact on modern dating culture. Join Rachel and Jessica for a deep, eye-opening discussion on relationships, gender dynamics, and emotional intelligence.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:49 Unpacking the Red Pill and Manosphere

    02:17 The Male Loneliness Epidemic

    03:04 Incel Culture and Misconceptions

    06:14 What Women Really Want

    11:49 The Importance of Self-Reflection

    19:13 Confidence vs. Cockiness

    26:42 Desirable Traits in Men

    30:13 Examples of Alpha Behavior

    30:17 Admiring Andrew Ski: A Gem of a Human Being

    34:47 The Appeal of Good Trouble: Intensity and Advocacy

    37:20 Cheez Chuck: Political Passion and Advocacy

    44:49 Raising Boys: Confidence and Compassion

    47:40 Parenting with Compassion: Leading by Example

    53:37 Teaching Kids to Trust Themselves

    57:12 Concluding Thoughts: Teaching the Next Generation

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    59 mins
  • Epiosde 9: Swiping left and Laughing right, helping Jess navigate through tinder
    Oct 29 2025

    In this episode, Jessica talks about her decision to join Tinder after spending two years exclusively on Hinge. They explore the differences between the two apps, share humorous anecdotes, and examine profiles together while navigating the confusing aspects of Tinder. Rachel also shares her personal dating experiences and advice, including questions she asked herself before committing to her now-husband. Towards the end, they briefly touch upon their current book obsession, 'Bitter Burn,' and its impact on them. The episode wraps up with laughter and a promise for updates on Jessica’s dating journey.

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    1 hr and 8 mins
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