In this deeply thought-provoking episode of the All Consuming Grace Podcast, Paul and Rebecca Turner take a courageous look at one of the most misunderstood topics in the Christian life—forgiveness. Continuing their Weaponized Grace series, they challenge the popular idea of “just forgiving because Christ forgave,” and instead explore what it truly means to forgive as Christ forgave—with wisdom, truth, and discernment.

Their discussion is prompted in part by the powerful example of Erica Kirk, who publicly forgave the suspected murderer of her late husband, Charlie Kirk, during his memorial service. Paul and Rebecca reflect on that moment, along with their own experiences of walking through seasons where well-meaning believers urged them to forgive quickly—while they longed to do it biblically and with integrity.

Prepare to be challenged and encouraged as they unpack what real, Christlike forgiveness looks like. This episode will help you rethink how grace and truth work together in the healing process—and how this understanding can transform your marriage, parenting, friendships, and every close relationship.

If you’ve ever struggled with the question, “What does true forgiveness look like?”—this conversation is for you.

In this crucial episode of the All Consuming Grace Podcast, Paul and Rebecca Turner tackle one of the hardest—but most necessary—topics in their Weaponized Grace series: confronting abuse and abusers. Too often, those suffering under manipulation or control are told to simply “extend grace” or “forgive as Christ forgave,” without accountability for the abuser or protection from further abuse. But what if that’s a distorted view of grace—one that actually enables further abuse?

Paul and Rebecca unpack how a false understanding of grace has been used to silence victims, protect abusers, and fracture families. Through Scripture, they reveal how true grace—God’s transforming, truth-filled grace—never excuses sin or overlooks harm.

The episode concludes with the wisdom of Psalm 101, where David models healthy biblical boundaries: protecting himself from abusers, guarding his own heart from becoming abusive, and surrounding himself with faithful, trustworthy people.

This is a must-listen for anyone seeking healing, spiritual clarity, and stronger, grace-filled relationships. Learn how to stand firm in truth, walk in real grace, and build a home rooted in God’s righteousness and safety.

In this episode of the All-Consuming Grace Podcast, Paul and Rebecca Turner continue their eye-opening series, Weaponized Grace. Drawing from the honesty of Psalm 41 and Psalm 56, they reveal the most common tactics abusers use—tactics that often show up in homes, marriages, friendships, and even churches.

Understanding how abusers operate is the first step toward protecting your family, strengthening your relationships, and breaking unhealthy cycles. But Paul and Rebecca get more pointed: they invite you to honestly examine your own life to ensure you’re not unintentionally using these destructive patterns with the people you love most.

If you care about healthy families, safe relationships, and living out God’s grace in practical ways, this episode will equip and encourage you. Don’t miss this important conversation on recognizing abuse, guarding your home, and choosing grace-driven love over manipulation and control.