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In this episode of the ABC's of Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes Robert C. Delena to discuss the transformative journey of his son, Ryan. The conversation delves into the challenges Ryan faced in therapeutic schools, the impact of skiing on his development, and the importance of finding passion in unconventional paths. Robert shares insights on parenting, challenging traditional methods, and the power of nature in emotional growth.

Keywords

parenting, adult children, unconventional paths, skiing, emotional growth, therapeutic schools, passion, nature, Robert C. Delena, Ryan Delena

Takeaways

• Robert Delena shares his son's journey through therapeutic schools.
• Skiing played a pivotal role in Ryan's emotional development.
• The importance of finding passion in unconventional paths.
• Challenging traditional parenting methods can lead to growth.
• The power of nature in emotional healing.
• Ryan's transformation from a troubled child to a thriving outdoorsman.
• The role of adventure in personal development.
• Insights into embracing creativity and resilience in parenting.
• The impact of skiing on Ryan's life and family.
• Encouragement for parents to explore unique paths for their children.

Sound bites

Transformative power of skiing Challenging traditional parenting Nature's role in healing Ryan's journey to success Passion in unconventional paths Embracing creativity in parenting Skiing changed our lives Adventure and emotional growth Parenting with resilience Exploring unique paths

Chapters

00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

• 00:00:00 Robert Delena's Background
• 00:00:00 The Boston Marathon Incident
• 00:00:00 Ryan's Challenges and Therapeutic Schools
• 00:00:01 The Impact of Skiing
• 00:00:01 Ryan's Transformation and Current Life
• 00:00:01 Parenting Insights and Advice

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In this episode of ABC's Parenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt welcomes back Dr. David Marcus, a clinical psychologist specializing in families under stress. Dr. Marcus discusses the concept of a 'soothing presence' and the process of 'emptying out' emotions, emphasizing the importance of understanding emotional communication with children. He explains the three levels of emotional intensity: the logical here-and-now, the history level, and the tapped-into level, and how these need to be addressed for effective communication. The conversation also touches on the cultural and familial influences on emotional intelligence and the importance of validating feelings in relationships.

Keywords

parenting, emotional communication, soothing presence, emptying out, emotional intelligence, family stress, Dr. David Marcus, James Moffitt, podcast, relationships

Takeaways

• A soothing presence is someone who is okay when you're not.
• Emotional communication involves understanding three levels: logical, history, and tapped-into.
• Emptying out emotions requires addressing all three levels for effective communication.
• Cultural and familial influences shape emotional intelligence.
• Validating feelings is crucial in relationships.
• Men often struggle with emotional expression due to cultural norms.
• Parents should avoid trying to 'make' children feel better, instead allowing them to express emotions.
• Children learn emotional resilience by observing adult interactions.
• Opposites attract in relationships, allowing partners to soothe each other.
• Effective communication involves both partners feeling heard and understood.

Sound bites

• A soothing presence is key.
• Emptying out emotions is essential.
• Validate feelings for better relationships.
• Men struggle with emotional expression.
• Children learn from adult interactions.
• Opposites attract in soothing relationships.
• Cultural norms shape emotional intelligence.
• Effective communication needs understanding.
• Parents shouldn't force emotions.
• Emotional resilience starts young.

Chapters

• 00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
• 00:00:00 Understanding Soothing Presence
• 00:00:00 Emptying Out Process
• 00:00:00 Cultural and Familial Influences
• 00:00:01 Validating Feelings in Relationships
• 00:00:01 Conclusion and Book Promotion

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In this episode of ABC's Apparenting Adult Children podcast, host James Moffitt talks with John Hankins, a certified financial therapist and licensed social worker. They discuss the importance of financial literacy for young adults, the emotional connections to money, and the challenges parents face when supporting adult children financially. John shares insights on budgeting, saving, and managing credit, while James reflects on his own financial journey and the lessons learned from his parents.

Keywords

financial literacy, adult children, budgeting, saving, credit management, financial therapy, emotional connections, retirement planning, financial stress, financial education

Takeaways

• Financial literacy is crucial for young adults to manage their future effectively.
• Parents should lead by example in teaching financial management to their children.
• Understanding emotional connections to money can improve financial decision-making.
• Budgeting and saving are foundational skills for financial stability.
• Credit management is essential to avoid long-term debt issues.
• Parents often face challenges when financially supporting adult children.
• Retirement planning requires careful consideration of long-term financial needs.
• Financial therapy can help individuals and couples manage financial stress.
• The financial markets' volatility requires a balanced and informed approach.
• Open communication about money can strengthen family relationships.

Sound bites

• "Financial literacy is crucial for young adults."
• "Lead by example in financial management."
• "Emotional connections to money matter."
• "Budgeting is a foundational skill."
• "Credit management is essential."
• "Supporting adult children is challenging."
• "Plan carefully for retirement needs."
• "Financial therapy can ease stress."
• "Market volatility requires balance."
• "Communication strengthens family ties."

Chapters

• 00:00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
• 00:00:00 Understanding Financial Therapy
• 00:00:00 Financial Literacy for Young Adults
• 00:00:00 Challenges of Supporting Adult Children
• 00:00:01 Retirement Planning and Market Volatility
• 00:00:01 Emotional Connections to Money

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