You’ve been sold fat loss like it’s a math equation.
“Eat less, move more.” “Track your calories.” “Cut carbs.”

But what happens when your body stops responding—and you're doing all the 'right things'?

cos truth be told… if you WERE eating 1200 calories… even 1400 for many of you… while doing all the other right things… youd be dropping fat

In this episode, we pull the curtain back on midlife metabolism and the real reasons your fat loss has stalled (and it’s not just about calories). We break down:

- common mistakes & beliefs that keep many women trapped

- why it is different in midlife… you feel it, your body feels it, we know it.

and jumping on the next set of diet rules, going harder + doing more only keeps you stuck in a deficit, not losing fat despite watching what you eat, being healthy and doing the work

so… if you’re a woman in your late 30s, 40s or 50s wondering why nothing is working, this is for you

we’re breaking down:

• why 1,200 calorie diets keep failing you

• why your scale is stuck even tho you’re tracking

• what metabolism really is (and how to build it) and why it is slowing down for you despite what research says

• the hidden cost of approaching cardio, calories + training the wrong way

• the truth about fat loss plateaus, menopause, and training intensity

• how to fix the all-or-nothing mindset that keeps sabotaging progress

you’ll walk away understanding:

• what your actual fat loss season should look like

• why training to failure > cardio marathons

• how to stop burning out and start building a lifestyle that sticks

💥 2 actionable takeaways:

• audit your deficit: is it working or just theoretical?

• choose your season for fat loss... then commit or GTFO

if you’ve ever said:

• “i’m eating clean but not losing fat”

• “i look the same even though i lift”

• “i keep starting over every few weeks”

👇 comment below if this hit home, and let us know: what’s been your biggest struggle with fat loss or metabolism?

ps…. this isn’t another “motivation” episode. this is the slap of truth most women need bc that’s what Aram is so good at

find me @transformxruby on instagram
aram @4weeks2thebeach

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you’re exhausted. you’ve been dieting for years, trying every plan

tracking, restricting,

yet, you’re still here, still doubting & stuck in that loop. this episode is your reset.

if you’ve wondered why women keep burning out while men seem to get away with dieting easier

id say its not willpower or discipline… but it sorta is…

it’s just applied to the wrong plan

or at least HAS been… and that’s where this podcast comes in.

we tear apart the myths you’ve swallowed (1,200 calories, adapted metabolism, needing more willpower) and rebuild from what actually works: trust, structure, and muscle. i share real strategies you can test immediately — no fluff, no shame.

the truth is that 1200 calories DOES work. so if it isnt working for you… something is up

in this episode, i unpack why your body fights back every time you try to get stricter. why you feel like you have to earn food. and why eating like your partner, or your past self, is what’s keeping you stuck in this loop.we’ll talk about the hormonal load women carry, the mental fatigue of constant restriction, and the emotional spiral that happens when you mistake exhaustion for discipline.

have you ever felt like you’re doing everything right

eating healthy, training hard, working your butt off…

and still screaming inside, “why isn’t this working?”

i know that voice. in this episode, we unpack how diet fatigue ruins your battery, why muscle is the freedom you’re avoiding, and how invisible progress is real progress.

mini wins to try today:

• a safe way to track imperfectly so you learn instead of shame

• one ritual to reclaim momentum on low days

• one simple question to pause when you feel like quitting

• how to rewire identity so consistency beats motivation

you’ll feel seen, understood, and ready to change the rules. this isn’t about perfection or even obsession

but you need to work with your body

find me @transformxruby on instagram

apply for a free consult:
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfqaxMDfbPYPYVui3BgSClnDXTj4BWjRvPkbBHuK5CP7SQsIw/viewform?usp=sf_link
Direct link to DM me on IG: https://ig.me/m/transformxruby

Direct link to DM me on IG: https://ig.me/m/transformxruby

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Notes from original transcript to include / follow up:

• “1,600 calories is not your maintenance” — myth to challenge

• “You can only say no to chocolate/fries for so long” — fatigue metaphor

• “Lose fat and build muscle at same time” myth

• The Christmas / body comment pressure example

• The “brick” metaphor — every session is a brick

• Whole vs processed food — thermic effect / digestion

• Deep vs long deficits — muscle loss point

• Motivation vs momentum — showing up even when nothing’s changing

· The 1200-calorie myth: if you’ve stopped losingon 1200, it’s not metabolism… because unless youre 40kg, you should be

· Building muscle during fat loss is oftenimpossible except for newbies — so build first.

· Discipline burnout: the more you restrict, themore your willpower drains.

· Invisible wins > mirror wins.

· Maintenance is not a pause — it’s integration.

· Rebuilding trust with food via imperfecttracking.

· Hormones and age: often misblamed when approachis flawed.