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  • By: Faith G. Harper PhD LPC-S ACS ACN
  • Narrated by: Erin Bennett
  • Length: 2 hrs and 48 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (240 ratings)

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Unf*ck Your Boundaries: Build Better Relationships Through Consent, Communication, and Expressing Your Needs

By: Faith G. Harper PhD LPC-S ACS ACN
Narrated by: Erin Bennett
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Publisher's Summary

Boundaries are the ways we communicate our needs. They are what allow us to feel safe among strangers, in everyday interactions, and in our closest relationships. When we have healthy boundaries, we have a strong foundation in an uncertain world. And when someone crosses your boundaries, or you cross someone else’s, the result range from unsettling to catastrophic.

In this audiobook, best-selling author Dr. Faith Harper offers a full understanding of issues of boundaries and consent, how we can communicate and listen more effectively, and how to survive and move on from situations where our boundaries are violated. 

Along the way, you’ll learn when and how to effectively say “no” (and “yes”), troubleshoot conflict, and respect your own and others’ boundaries like a pro. You’ll be amazed at how much these skills improve your relationships with friends, strangers, coworkers, and loved ones.     

©2016 Dr. Faith Harper (P)2020 Blackstone Publishing

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Very helpful

I found this book extremely helpful. I like that it wasn't written in a way that only other theraists or intellects would understand. The strategies at the end are very practical. I appreciate the authors work.

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Great advice

Thank you for the insights.. I’m making positive changes moving forward. Life is great. Cheers

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awesome

loved this! I only wish it was longer. was over too soon : ( .

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Good for beginning boundaries

Narration was great! A little bit repetitive and drawn out in spots. Some lightbulb moments too! But overall good for self confidence and identifying where you need to do the work.

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Changing the world, one behaviour at a time

Fantastic insights into our inner beings and those we love and interact with through our lives.

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An excellent read

I always enjoy her books and especially enjoyed this one. Who doesnt need a reminder about how important it is to sort your boundaries in life. Great advice & even better delivery with her characteristic style of emphatic swearing😆

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fucking great read

Really helpful and relatable content. 100% recommend to those who have issues with boundaries. vibes.

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recognise the signs

Great book, easy to follow and lots of great points to learn and recognise when people are over stepping and when we are too

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Life changing

Read this book. I found this book an amazing help.
Reduce conflict by learning how to set boundaries.

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Yes! Get This Book

So much good stuff in here, I've done boundaries work before but this helped me look at it in a while different way. The author is very good at what she does and that comes across in the book. Her work is accessible as well and that makes it a huge winner for me.

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