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Tomboy Survival Guide
- Narrated by: Ivan Coyote
- Length: 5 hrs and 12 mins
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Publisher's Summary
Stonewall Book Award Honor Book winner
Ivan Coyote is a celebrated storyteller and the author of 10 previous books, including Gender Failure (with Rae Spoon) and One in Every Crowd, a collection for LGBT youth. Tomboy Survival Guide is a funny and moving memoir told in stories, in which Ivan recounts the pleasures and difficulties of growing up a tomboy in Canada's Yukon, and how they learned to embrace their tomboy past while carving out a space for those of us who don't fit neatly into boxes or identities or labels.
Ivan writes movingly about many firsts: the first time they were mistaken for a boy; the first time they purposely discarded their bikini top so they could join the boys at the local swimming pool; and the first time they were chastised for using the women's washroom. Ivan also explores their years as a young butch, dealing with new infatuations and old baggage, and life as a gender-box-defying adult, in which they offer advice to young people while seeking guidance from others. (And for tomboys in training, there are even directions on building your very own unicorn trap.)
Tomboy Survival Guide warmly recounts Ivan's adventures and mishaps as a diffident yet free-spirited tomboy, and maps their journey through treacherous gender landscapes and a maze of labels that don't quite stick, to a place of self-acceptance and an authentic and personal strength. These heartfelt, funny, and moving stories are about the culture of difference - a "guide" to being true to one's self.
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- Anonymous User
- 14-02-2024
Excellent collection of poignant snippets
Absolutely adored Ivan Coyote’s Tomboy Survival Guide—I think it might have changed my life. It breathed life into thoughts and feelings I’ve had about gender and sexuality that I haven’t otherwise been about to articulate. At first, I found Ivan’s voice grating and the rhythm that they read it in to be odd. Within 10 minutes I was hooked, my own internal monologue as I went about my day even started sounding a bit different… the stories themselves from Ivan’s life can be solemn, heartwarming, painful and leave you with a pang of hopes you have for the world. Creatively, it’s very inspiring, too. Ivan really captures a world that their readers might be quite distant from, while eerily close to. I’m going to buy a physical copy of this book and store it somewhere prominent on my bookshelf. Experiencing these words was a gift.
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- Alisha
- 15-02-2021
beautiful book
i laughed and cried. the narration is the author and you can feel the words and meaning
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- Nicolabee
- 17-03-2020
Wonderful experience
My definition of a great book is one that makes me feel and teaches me new things. This book absolutely did both of those things for me. I laughed and cried, felt furious on Ivan’s behalf and have spent time in between listening thinking about many of the stories. The writing itself is wonderful, hearing Ivan read it is perfect. I really really loved this book.
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- Geekstar
- 21-01-2020
Great story from start to finish
Loved every minute of this book. It was so refreshing to hear a story that resonated so much with me
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- Anonymous User
- 19-07-2019
Camia
Loved every second! I’m just wrestling with my own gender identity at 45, this was a breath of dread air. Sincerely thank you.
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- Anonymous User
- 08-05-2018
so much heart
loved every second. I laughed, cried, felt touched deep inside my queer self. Totally beautiful.
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- K. L. Joy
- 21-08-2017
Brilliant!
So happy I got this book, have wanted ti read it for a while. Just tried Audible for the first time, love it, I'll be back!
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