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The Will to Change

Men, Masculinity, and Love

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The Will to Change

By: bell hooks, Ross Gay - introduction
Narrated by: Janina Edwards
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 From New York Times bestselling author, feminist pioneer, and cultural icon bell hooks, an evergreen treatise on how patriarchy and toxic masculinity hurts us all.

Feminist writing did not tell us about the deep inner misery of men.

Everyone needs to love and be loved—including men. But to know love, men must be able to look at the ways in which patriarchal culture keeps them from understanding themselves. In The Will to Change, bell hooks provides a compassionate guide for men of all ages and identities to understand how to be in touch with their feelings, and how to express versus repress the emotions that are a fundamental part of who we are.

With trademark candor and fierce intelligence, hooks addresses the most common concerns of men, such as fear of intimacy and loss of their patriarchal place in society, in new and challenging ways. The Will to Change “creates space for men to acknowledge their traumas and heal—not only for their sake, but for the sake of everyone in their lives” (BuzzFeed). Anthropology Gender Studies Social Sciences Emotions Discrimination
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bell hooks is a well credited author who has study her field for many years. she includes her personal experience like a good author should in modesty. another good read is Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men. Lundy Bancroft - was written by a man, but both have personal experience and scientific bases. I find bell hook book to be balanced and offer a solution for the society to change. lundy bancroft is to hold violent men more accountable,

a well credited author.

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I love how bell manages to get across to men how much they are loved, and how patriarchy hurts all of us.

My husband and I listened to it together and learned a lot.

a fantastic book for men and women

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clearly drills the point to the reader and invites the reader to self reflect upon their own biases.

exceptionally effective

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great speaking voice. all men and all women supporting men should read this. valuable information

everyone should listen

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Really great read for all men, there are soo many unconscious biases we hold that I didn’t even recognise til I heard this. Some of them are hard to hear and stomach, but they’re right and necessary
Will definitely be listening again

Great read for all men

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