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The Conscious Parent

Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children
Narrated by: Shefali Tsabary
Length: 9 hrs and 45 mins
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Turning the traditional notion of parenting on its head, Dr Tsabary shifts the epicentre of the parent-child relationship away from the standard parent-to-child 'know it all' approach to a mutual 'parent-with-child' relationship in which the parent learns alongside the child.

Parents unwittingly pass on an inheritance of psychological pain and emotional rigidity to their children. To handle the behaviour that results from this, traditional books on parenting abound with quick-fix techniques for control and behaviour management. In contrast, by following Shefali Tsabary's philosophy and the advice in The Conscious Parent, you will begin to learn from your child, accept who they are and not only feel closer to them, but also more in touch with yourself.

As you develop both emotionally and spiritually, so you will feel more confident in regard to raising well-adjusted, happy children.

©2015 Shefali Tsabary (P)2015 Namaste Publishing

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Be the change you want to see in your family

Had seen her interwiew on impact theory. Already seen improvements in my 2 year old thanks to Dr Shefali

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A transforming book, amazing

Possibly the most enlightening and meaningful book that I have ever read / listened to. Read this before all other tactical parenting book.. It's not about quick fixes or band aids.. It goes to the core of who we are and why we act the way that we do - challenging us to find our own authenticity and presence both as people and parents. Beautifully narrated by the author.

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Everyone should read this

This book is everything! Helps with spiritual & mental growth for everyone, especially parents ! So thorough and well worded!

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Enjoyable & enlightening

If you are open to non traditional parenting theories then this is a great book. Helps you see children’s frustration and your frustrations with them in a totally new light. The first part of the book lays all the foundations and theories which come together in the latter part of the book. This was my first Audible book which was recommended to me. Lovely that the author is the narrator.

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Must read for parents

A great insight into how your lack emotional awareness impacts your children's development.

Have you ever wondered why your kids behave they way they do, it's to do with you, good strategies and read life stories that give the book substance.

The audio is smooth and well read.

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Rewind.

Little bit hard to listen to with the narrator's voice.
I went back to relisten.
Digest.
There were some thought provoking moments and times when I felt assured I was doing a good job as a parent.
I appreciate the opportunities that glimmer like gold, those memories that are loving and warm with my son.
Make each moment count with your child and treat them like they have everything they need already..respect.

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eye opener

I really enjoyed listening to this book. the information in here opened my eyes to my childhood trauma and now I can move forward raising my child consciously as my mind is always brought back to to this book throughout my childs moments

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Must read!

This book will change you! It’s empowering, confronting and enlightening and full of applicable parenting strategies for any age. Essential reading for any parent or caregiver.

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Clarity at last

For years I’ve done so much of this instinctively. I needed to understand where I was going wrong and this book has clearly shown me where I’m going wrong and how to change it.

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Very Insightful

A wonderful book for parents everywhere. The main take away I got was to take a step back and look at my own self/responses/reactions/triggers/emotions in relation to my children. There was a lot of great insights, and I loved how many different examples she gave. It did feel at times as though things were maybe repeated a bit, and the book could’ve been condensed. But I suppose we need to hear things like this a few times before they permeate deep enough into our thinking. Overall a great book, and I would definitely recommend it to anyone who wants to be a better parent/person.

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  • Elina
  • 30-09-2016

I loved every minute of it!

I love how it's written and I have a better understanding now of how to parent consciously. Thank you for this lovely book!

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  • Jani
  • 12-07-2019

A must have for every parent!

I found this book filled with so much advice, I will have to listen to it again. I would say every parent must listen to this one if you want to give you kids the best future and heading towards right path.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 19-04-2019

Excellent Concepts

The scenarios presented are relatable and real life leaving you feel understood as a parent. While the concepts of conscious parenting seem idealistic they also feel daunting. As a parent I can see the many ways in which my own makeup has been imposed on my child unknowingly and its these aspects where I struggle the most as a parent. This book has opened my eyes and I suppose that is where we all need to start.

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  • T Kelly
  • 11-03-2018

Enjoyable and enlightening.

Really enjoyed listening to this book. The authors voice is so soothing and the tone of the book is unpatronizing and empowering. Certainly an eye opener with a few very relatable situations. Wish I had a book like this at the start of my parenting journey. It has made me think more before I react to a situation, asking myself why I feel the need to say/do/feel the way I do. I have already seen improvements in my own family life. Highly recommended book.

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  • Sorrel Hawkins
  • 12-12-2017

Love it!

This book is great as it’s supported my idea of letting my children grow up to be who their meant to be without me dumping my emotional baggage onto them.

I’m going to start listening to it again!

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  • Miss S.
  • 26-06-2019

Not Feeling it

I'm over half way through this book and so far there have been no suggestions on actually how to deal with a situation, only stories of happenings with other families that are usually quite negative. The author refers to 'sitting with your emotions' quite often which I fear may be the only advice given other than think before you speak. I am surprised to say that the author is also quite negative with her labelling of the parents in her stories. I'm not sure if she's merely trying to show that she empathises with us (by speaking the words that are often thought) but there appears to be a lot of placing the blame on the parents in a way that suggests we're all too wrapped up in materialism and ego and selfishness. Most parents do think about their childrens needs and often but they just don't know how to make things better in a fast paced world where society is constantly changing. I feel that this book is more of a reminder of what goes on in certain families and not really helpful in how to achieve mindful parenting, how to be more aware and how to quickly assess our children's needs. I suppose I still have half a book to get through, so that may change, but I'm struggling to hang on in their to see if that's the case! I would expect a book like this to make you feel empowered to make a big difference but so far I just feel deflated and confused as to what the book is trying to achieve.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 06-03-2019

must have parenting book!

Of all the books I read before having my children I wish I had this one!

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  • Alexandra Hill
  • 27-01-2020

Enlightening. A must read for every parent!

Absolutely loved this book. I feel I have gained so much knowledge, wisdom and growth and have seen a transformative effect on my parent/child relationships. Our children are our spiritual partners. Simply excellent.

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  • Ms. N. Smith
  • 13-12-2019

Amazing to start but then bit patronising and US leaning IMO

I found the first few chapters profound and very interesting. However as the book progresses i felt the author really assumed such a poor level of parenting and i can only assume this is based on a US parenting style rather than modern day UK parents who I certainly don’t think on the whole fall into the competitive high expectations style of parenting she continually references.

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  • SuziTHealth
  • 26-10-2019

Enlightened Parents

This book is brilliant! A MUST read for ANYONE who wants to learn about themselves, how to parent and how to create significant value and impact. It resonated throughout, expanding my already extensive experience with child development and parenting. As a Breakthrough Coach, Hypnotherapist, Mindfulness & Meditation Mentor, I will be integrating these insightful learnings into my practice immediately.

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  • Vicky Johnson
  • 15-10-2019

Absolutely wonderful

This has probably been one of the most beneficial books I have bought. I will use this approach in my own life as a parent and in my professional life supporting other parents. I would highly recommend!

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  • max whittle
  • 12-10-2019

Eye opening and heart warming

Thank you Dr Shefali, this book really helped me deepen my experience of parenting, wish I had understood it before having a child, but hey, we just have to work from where we are and thats OK. If you have children or are hoping to someday this book is so worth reading and more than once IMO. Its also easy to listen to and Dr Shefali does a great job of narrating. Five stars!

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  • sarah112233
  • 09-10-2019

Great book

Really well written Dr shefalis other book about discipline is great too and I was glad I got both