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Polysecure

By: Jessica Fern
Narrated by: Jessica Fern,Eve Rickert,Nora Samaran
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Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if, like many people, you’re striving for secure, happy attachments with more than one partner?  

Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. Using her nested model of attachment and trauma, she expands our understanding of how emotional experiences can influence our relationships. Then, she sets out six specific strategies to help you move toward secure attachments in your multiple relationships.  

Polysecure is both a trailblazing theoretical treatise and a practical guide. It provides nonmonogamous people with a new set of tools to navigate the complexities of multiple loving relationships and offers radical new concepts that are sure to influence the conversation about attachment theory. 

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2020 Jessica Fern (P)2020 Thornapple Press

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Inspired toward security

Super clear roadmap to secure attachment for mono or poly relationships. I will listen again and take detailed notes.

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A great book to expand your thinking

A great book to expand your thinking. I found some of the definitions hard to follow not having a physical book but otherwise an excellent exploration on relationships and attachment.

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Definitely worth it! Will be a repeat listen!

Great book with a lot of useful attachment information - even if you are not exploring polyamory, worth listening to! Book provides good relationship advice and things to ponder!
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Amazing and practical

Really great and practical content. This book offer many insights and conversation guides/ questions to discuss with partners.

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Very good introduction to attachment theory and polyamory

The book was very easy to digest and laid out in a way that was easy to understand and take in all of the points made. I only wish I had a hard copy of the book to see the visuals included.

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Absolutely wonderful!

A thoroughly researched, thoughtful, compassionate and inspiring book. I've learned so much and have now ordered her HEARTS workbook to dive even deeper! Thank you Jessica 😊

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Wow.

I picked this book up as my long term partner and I opened our relationship and right now we’re going through the most difficult time we’ve faced, individually and collectively. To have the foundation of attachment theory, intersecting with trauma and how that relates to cnm has expanded my heart and mind. Whatever happens I know the work is about coming home to myself — and loving myself and my partner through it all. Jessica, thank you so much. Love 💛💛💛

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Everyone should ready this

Whether you are monogamous, contemplating CNM relationships or poly, this book is a must read.

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Just amazing! Absolute must if you are considering or find yourself in polyamory.

So insightful and has met me in a place where I really needed to hear what was said! I saw myself in these pages many times and this has given me a language to define what’s happening or happened and why things are sometimes they way they are. I also love how inclusive this is to all relationship styles.
Well done Jessica!! 🤗

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Excellent book

Recommend for anyone who is interested in polyamory, attachment theory, or trauma healing. Or all three.
Fantastic resource. Well researched and compassionate. Excellent narration too.

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