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How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair
- A Compact Manual for the Unfaithful
- Narrated by: Tamara Marston
- Length: 2 hrs and 7 mins
- Categories: Politics & Social Sciences, Social Sciences
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Publisher's Summary
Once an affair comes to light, many unfaithful persons "wake up" and want to save their marriages. Yet they usually make terrible mistakes in their bungled attempts to win back their partners' trust. Linda J. MacDonald, an infidelity specialist for 23 years, has identified behaviors and attitudes that determine unfaithful persons' success or failure to mend their marriages after the wrecking ball of an affair. How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair offers practical advice for those who've strayed and want a second chance.
It would take weeks of therapy to learn what Successful Rebuilders know:
- How to avoid the potholes that doom marriages after affairs
- Critical guidelines for the first hours after discovery
- Fifteen essential steps for repair after betrayal
- Skills to cope with your partner's obsessions and "triggers"
- Ways to undo the damage from your lies
- The keys to avoid prolonging your spouse's agony (and yours)
- The difference between helpful and harmful apologies
- How to rebuild your broken life, relationships, and integrity
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- Jane Steane
- 23-10-2018
Some good material but too religious for me.
Narrator good. Although I related to much of what was written, I found the tone very sanctimonious and judging. I didn't like the God and religion references at all. If I had known its strong religious undertones I would not have downloaded it.
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- Anonymous User
- 26-12-2020
a must have after and affair
im the betrayed spouse and I think this is a must have for both partners. as I wanted to listen to it before my husband does to make sure it would be helpful. I just hope unfaithful spouse's listen to this and put in the efforts needed to heal both sides and they stop the yelling at the faithful spouse's as that is one of the most hurtful things they do to us.
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- Jamie
- 21-04-2016
great book, very helpful!
I found out about my husband's infidelity around 6 months ago from the first woman and 5 months ago from the second. Since that time he has done little to prove he has changed and is remorseful but has been very adamant that he's done everything he could. This book normalized my feelings and the happenings currently going on in our marriage. I'm hoping that he will listen and take some pointers too. Thank you for this book
8 people found this helpful
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- Kimberly Frampton
- 16-10-2015
This is my life.
This audiobook described every ounce of emotion I was feeling after being cheated on. It felt like the author's words were mine. Give this to the person that betrayed you. The earlier the better...before he/she digs an even deeper hole that he/she can't get out of.
8 people found this helpful
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- Amazon Customer
- 29-05-2017
Reality is difficult at...
While I was listening to this book it was hard to hear the truth of the reality of the damage I caused. But it was helpful to know an hear how to help my spouse to heal from my selfish choices. This is a book that will help the new spouses that caused the hurt and damage to the other realize that the process is going to be a long time and hurt an painful. During that it is going to be worth the out come that can come if you do what is authentic to you an your spouse. Get this book!!!!!!!!!!!
4 people found this helpful
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- Peppertaz
- 04-03-2017
Very Helpful
I was so glad my husband listened to this book. After he told me about his affairs with prostitutes I was devastated and this book depicted how I was feeling to a T! She hits on everything I was thinking and feeling and even though I might have expressed this to my husband I think it helped him understand just how devastated I feel and gave him some insight knowing this is normal. Over all it helped me know he "heard" it but he never really GOT IT in the end so we divorced but maybe for couples that don't have a narcissistic sociopath for a spouse you'll have better luck healing.
4 people found this helpful
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- DT
- 22-12-2015
Every unfaithful needs to read this
very short and to the point. Very helpful short reasonable requests to help your betrayed heal. Excellent book overall and very recommended for anyone trying to repair and move on.
4 people found this helpful
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- Jennis
- 02-08-2016
good content for embarrassing subject matter
If you're reading this book it isn't because life is showing you it's grandest possibilities full of hope and goodness. This is a MUST READ for anyone going through the lowest lows in life by experiencing an affair. I was the cheated on spouse and it helped to know from a professional what the healing process should look like. it will be hard to hear if your the cheater, but if you want to save your marriage, or relationship it's a critical read to show you the path to recovery.
8 people found this helpful
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- Charise De Barros
- 19-04-2017
The topic speaks for itself
I read this book as the hurt spouse to see if these are things I'd like to hear from my spouse and it was very good advice. I needed to know if I had unreasonable expectations from him. I recommend this for anyone dealing with this topic to get it sooner than later. Maybe even before the bomb drops to avoid as much damage as possible from the get go. If you did wrong this is a good start to try and pick up the broken pieces.
3 people found this helpful
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- Susan Goodis
- 04-04-2017
essential reading for both parties
this book hit the nail on the head. the sooner you read it, the better the possibility to avoid serious mistakes and salvage the marriage.
2 people found this helpful
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- KP
- 12-08-2016
THE Text Book on how to rebuild
Wether you are the offended or the offender OR if you are tempted to be unfaithful this book must be read or listened to. I woke up this morning and listened, took notes and it changed my mind/perspective on how I saw the events that shaped my life.
8 people found this helpful
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- Daniel
- 17-09-2016
Really helped
This really helped me have a plan in place to help my wife. I highly recommend this to anyone who has been unfaithful.
4 people found this helpful
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- Anonymous User
- 21-03-2019
Helpful resource
Excellent and practical resource with classical examples. Answers all the why's, how's, where and when questions without forgetting to highlight the do's and never do's.
1 person found this helpful
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- Pepe
- 08-10-2014
Good for understanding the feelings of both sides
Would you say that listening to this book was time well-spent? Why or why not?
Yes, it was worth listening to this book because it has a fair account of the feelings of each side. Particularly of the betrayed partner.
What was the most interesting aspect of this story? The least interesting?
The emphasis on the pain of the betrayed person is the most important aspect for the betrayer to understand.
Any additional comments?
Although the title lacks scientific background for its assertions, most of it seems reasonable and interesting. There are some religious comments and views that should not be there but in general, this book can be read by religious and non religious people.
1 person found this helpful
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