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How to Be the Love You Seek
- Break Cycles, Find Peace + Heal Your Relationships
- Narrated by: Courtney Patterson
- Length: 10 hrs and 15 mins
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How to Meet Your Self
- The Workbook for Self-Discovery
- By: Dr Nicole LePera
- Narrated by: Courtney Pätterson
- Length: 5 hrs and 50 mins
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Within every human exists patterns and habits that bring us into cycles of misery, pain, and self-destruction. Yet within us all is also the ability to show up every day, leaving behind those patterns that no longer serve us, while stepping into the highest versions of ourselves. No matter where we are on our journey, in order to break undesirable patterns, we must be aware of what our own patterns actually are.
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- By Anonymous User on 23-01-2023
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How to Do the Work
- Recognise Your Patterns, Heal From Your Past and Create Your Self
- By: Dr Nicole LePera
- Narrated by: Courtney Patterson
- Length: 9 hrs and 42 mins
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As a clinical psychologist, Dr Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients—and for herself—she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical and spiritual health that equips people with the interdisciplinary tools necessary to heal themselves. After experiencing the life-changing results herself, she began to share what she'd learned with others—and soon The Holistic Psychologist was born. Now Dr LePera is ready to share her much-requested protocol with the world.
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- By Anon on 12-03-2021
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Workbook: How to Do the Work
- Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self by Nicole LePera
- By: Cosmic Publications
- Narrated by: Alene Sorensen
- Length: 1 hr and 47 mins
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This is an independent created unofficial workbook of Dr. Nicole LePera's book How to Do the Work and not the original book. Cosmic Publications is proud to offer all of our listeners our unofficial workbook of Dr. Nicole LePera's book How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self. This workbook explores the importance of using holistic psychology to change your life and heal from your trauma.
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The Myth of Normal
- Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture
- By: Gabor Maté, Daniel Maté
- Narrated by: Daniel Maté
- Length: 18 hrs and 12 mins
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We tend to believe that normality equals health. Yet what is the norm in the Western world? Mental illness is on an unstoppable rise. Some 45 percent of Europeans suffer high blood pressure, and nearly 70 percent of Americans take at least one prescription drug. Illness and trauma are defining how we live. In his new masterpiece, renowned physician, addiction expert and author Gabor Maté dissects the underlying causes of this malaise—physical and emotional, and connects the dots between our personal suffering and the pressures of modern-day living.
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I love this book. thankyou gabor and Daniel mate
- By Anonymous User on 13-09-2022
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The Woman in Me
- By: Britney Spears
- Narrated by: Michelle Williams, Britney Spears - introduction
- Length: 5 hrs and 31 mins
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In June 2021, the whole world was listening as Britney Spears spoke in open court. The impact of sharing her voice—her truth—was undeniable, and it changed the course of her life and the lives of countless others. The Woman in Me reveals for the first time her incredible journey—and the strength at the core of one of the greatest performers in pop music history.
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Finally we get to hear her side
- By Anonymous User on 28-10-2023
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The Body Keeps the Score
- Mind, Brain and Body in the Transformation of Trauma
- By: Bessel van der Kolk
- Narrated by: Sean Pratt
- Length: 16 hrs and 16 mins
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In this audiobook, Dr Bessel van der Kolk offers a new paradigm for effectively treating traumatic stress. Neither talking nor drug therapies have proven entirely satisfactory. With stories of his own work and those of specialists around the globe, The Body Keeps the Score sheds new light on the routes away from trauma - which lie in the regulation and syncing of body and mind, using sport, drama, yoga, mindfulness, meditation and other routes to equilibrium.
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Well worth the credit
- By Starbuck on 09-11-2019
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How to Meet Your Self
- The Workbook for Self-Discovery
- By: Dr Nicole LePera
- Narrated by: Courtney Pätterson
- Length: 5 hrs and 50 mins
- Unabridged
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Within every human exists patterns and habits that bring us into cycles of misery, pain, and self-destruction. Yet within us all is also the ability to show up every day, leaving behind those patterns that no longer serve us, while stepping into the highest versions of ourselves. No matter where we are on our journey, in order to break undesirable patterns, we must be aware of what our own patterns actually are.
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Get the workbook
- By Anonymous User on 23-01-2023
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How to Do the Work
- Recognise Your Patterns, Heal From Your Past and Create Your Self
- By: Dr Nicole LePera
- Narrated by: Courtney Patterson
- Length: 9 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
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As a clinical psychologist, Dr Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy. Wanting more for her patients—and for herself—she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical and spiritual health that equips people with the interdisciplinary tools necessary to heal themselves. After experiencing the life-changing results herself, she began to share what she'd learned with others—and soon The Holistic Psychologist was born. Now Dr LePera is ready to share her much-requested protocol with the world.
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Computer generated/robotic reading of the book
- By Anon on 12-03-2021
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Workbook: How to Do the Work
- Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self by Nicole LePera
- By: Cosmic Publications
- Narrated by: Alene Sorensen
- Length: 1 hr and 47 mins
- Unabridged
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This is an independent created unofficial workbook of Dr. Nicole LePera's book How to Do the Work and not the original book. Cosmic Publications is proud to offer all of our listeners our unofficial workbook of Dr. Nicole LePera's book How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self. This workbook explores the importance of using holistic psychology to change your life and heal from your trauma.
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The Myth of Normal
- Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture
- By: Gabor Maté, Daniel Maté
- Narrated by: Daniel Maté
- Length: 18 hrs and 12 mins
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We tend to believe that normality equals health. Yet what is the norm in the Western world? Mental illness is on an unstoppable rise. Some 45 percent of Europeans suffer high blood pressure, and nearly 70 percent of Americans take at least one prescription drug. Illness and trauma are defining how we live. In his new masterpiece, renowned physician, addiction expert and author Gabor Maté dissects the underlying causes of this malaise—physical and emotional, and connects the dots between our personal suffering and the pressures of modern-day living.
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I love this book. thankyou gabor and Daniel mate
- By Anonymous User on 13-09-2022
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The Woman in Me
- By: Britney Spears
- Narrated by: Michelle Williams, Britney Spears - introduction
- Length: 5 hrs and 31 mins
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In June 2021, the whole world was listening as Britney Spears spoke in open court. The impact of sharing her voice—her truth—was undeniable, and it changed the course of her life and the lives of countless others. The Woman in Me reveals for the first time her incredible journey—and the strength at the core of one of the greatest performers in pop music history.
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Finally we get to hear her side
- By Anonymous User on 28-10-2023
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The Body Keeps the Score
- Mind, Brain and Body in the Transformation of Trauma
- By: Bessel van der Kolk
- Narrated by: Sean Pratt
- Length: 16 hrs and 16 mins
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In this audiobook, Dr Bessel van der Kolk offers a new paradigm for effectively treating traumatic stress. Neither talking nor drug therapies have proven entirely satisfactory. With stories of his own work and those of specialists around the globe, The Body Keeps the Score sheds new light on the routes away from trauma - which lie in the regulation and syncing of body and mind, using sport, drama, yoga, mindfulness, meditation and other routes to equilibrium.
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Well worth the credit
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Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself
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Change your life
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Body Aware
- Rediscover Your Mind-Body Connection, Stop Feeling Stuck and Improve Your Mental Health Through Simple Movement Practices
- By: Erica Hornthal, Nicole LePera PhD - foreword
- Narrated by: Erica Hornthal
- Length: 6 hrs and 58 mins
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When we talk about movement, most of us think "exercise." But the way we move our bodies—how we walk, roll, dance, stretch, connect, and take up space—is about so much more than physical fitness. Our movements impact our mental and emotional health . . . and when we change the way we move, we can change the way we live. Licensed clinical professional counselor and board-certified dance and movement therapist Erica Hornthal takes listeners on a step-by-step journey with a guide that is inclusive, non-prescriptive, and helps us discover the kind of movement that works best for us.
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The Courage to Be Disliked
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- Length: 6 hrs and 50 mins
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The Japanese phenomenon that teaches us the simple yet profound lessons required to liberate our real selves and find lasting happiness. The Courage to Be Disliked shows you how to unlock the power within yourself to become your best and truest self, change your future and find lasting happiness. Using the theories of Alfred Adler, one of the three giants of 19th-century psychology alongside Freud and Jung, the authors explain how we are all free to determine our own future.
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Shining a light on the here and now
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Atlas of the Heart
- Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience
- By: Brené Brown
- Narrated by: Brené Brown
- Length: 8 hrs and 29 mins
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Simply what I needed to hear & learn
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The beloved star of Friends takes us behind the scenes of the hit sitcom and his struggles with addiction in this candid, funny, and revelatory memoir that delivers a powerful message of hope and persistence. In an extraordinary story that only he could tell, Matthew Perry takes listeners onto the soundstage of the most successful sitcom of all time while opening up about his private struggles with addiction. Candid, self-aware, and told with his trademark humour, Perry vividly details his lifelong battle with the disease and what fuelled it despite seemingly having it all.
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Very self indulgent
- By Anonymous User on 03-11-2022
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It Didn't Start with You
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- By: Mark Wolynn
- Narrated by: Mark Wolynn
- Length: 8 hrs and 16 mins
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Depression. Anxiety. Chronic pain. Phobias. Obsessive thoughts. The evidence is compelling: the root of these difficulties may reside in the traumas of our parents, grandparents and even great-grandparents. The latest research affirms that traumatic experience is passed on to future generations and that this emotional inheritance, hidden in everything from our gene expression to everyday language, plays a greater role in our health than ever previously understood.
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Great book
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Bright Shining
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- Narrated by: Julia Baird
- Length: 7 hrs and 55 mins
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Grace is both mysterious and hard to define. It can be found when we create ways to find meaning and dignity in connection with each other, building on our shared humanity, being kinder, bigger, better with each other. If, in its crudest interpretation, karma is getting what you deserve, then grace is the opposite: forgiving the unforgivable, favouring the undeserving, loving the unlovable. But we live in an era when grace is an increasingly rare currency. So what does grace look like in our world, and how do we recognize it, nurture it in ourselves and express it?
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Wonderful
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Letting Go describes a simple and effective means by which to let go of the obstacles to enlightenment and become free of negativity. During the many decades of the author's clinical psychiatric practice, the primary aim was to seek the most effective ways to relieve human suffering in all of its many forms. The inner mechanism of surrender was found to be of great practical benefit and is described in this book.
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I’ve listened to this more than 50 times
- By Sharam on 17-02-2019
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- Length: 5 hrs and 44 mins
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Kept holding out for some wisdom… didn’t find any
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The Year I Met My Brain
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Matilda Boseley's adult ADHD diagnosis was a massive, earth-shattering event. She was given a prescription but had no idea what ADHD meant for her identity, her relationships or her future. Twelve months of confusion later, journalist Matilda embarked on an epic voyage to figure out what's really happening in the stormy seas of the ADHD brain and write the guide she wished she'd had. The Year I Met My Brain is the ultimate travel companion for navigating and enjoying life as an ADHD adult
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A Brilliant Mind.
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Becoming the One
- Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns and Come Home to Yourself
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- Narrated by: Sheleana Aiyana
- Length: 7 hrs and 12 mins
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Relationships have the ability to infuse our lives with the magic of intimacy and connection. But often we can find ourselves chasing unavailable love, putting other's needs before our own all the while abandoning the one who needs us most—ourselves. From Sheleana Aiyana, spiritual writer and founder of Rising Woman, comes a transformational inner-work journey to heal lifelong relationship patterns and reclaim power over your life.
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Hide N seak, I found you and your beautiful
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Believing Me
- Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma
- By: Ingrid Clayton
- Narrated by: Ingrid Clayton PhD
- Length: 7 hrs and 15 mins
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What if emotional abuse is so hidden that its effects remain unchallenged for decades, masquerading as personal failings? Believing Me is an emotionally gripping memoir that gives language to the hidden and ineffable nature of childhood trauma and how it can imprint on a person, resulting in fractured self-esteem, addictions, perfectionism, and a string of abusive relationships.
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Insightful
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Publisher's Summary
A radical new path to revolutionise your relationships
Why are our closest relationships so often a source of more stress than solace? Whether the relationship is with a romantic partner, a parent, child, friend or colleague, the dynamic is frequently the same - you'd like the relationship to change for the better, yet nothing you try seems to work.
Author of international bestseller How to Do the Work, Dr Nicole LePera has heard these frustrating patterns of loneliness, disconnection, and resentment described time and again, both from patients in her clinical practice and from her global online community @the.holistic.psychologist. In this groundbreaking book she offers a new path to healing our relationships by tapping into the power of the heart.
How to Be the Love You Seek harnesses the latest scientific research to teach us how to recognise our dysfunctional patterns, identify their roots in our earliest relationships, break painful cycles, build security and share compassion with ourselves and others.
Through stories, exercises, journal prompts, and other practical tools, Dr LePera empowers us first to strengthen our foundation of self-love, paving the way for deeper, more harmonious connections with those around us.
When you become the love you seek, you have the power to transform every relationship, from your most intimate partnerships to the bonds that hold our communities together.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
Critic Reviews
'I love Dr Nicole LePera. She helps me a lot.' GWYNETH PALTROW
'A practical and inspiring primer on how to extend true connection and love to others and to our hurting world.' DR GABOR MATE
'A loving, patient, and powerful guide to creating happy, fulfilling life relationships of all kinds. How to Be the Love You Seek is a masterwork of awareness and compassion.' JAY SHETTY
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- Catherine
- 07-12-2023
Good, but strangely individualistic
Like her other books, the author places self responsibility at the centre of healing, and has her own original combination of ideas from psychology and alternative healing to help you get there, especially nervous system regulation and living in the heart. But it didn’t feel as empowering as her other books, and I was surprised that there is almost nothing about relating, or relationship dynamics. It seemed very individualistic for a book about love. But I still liked it, and I’ll listen again in the future
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- emerald city
- 07-12-2023
Basic
I found myself becoming increasingly disengaged with this book.
Very basic and repetitive information, with a slightly annoying abrasive reader. I. I. I. Me, Me. Me.
I am sorry but I had to abandon this book when I noticed there were still 8 hours of self absorbed sharing to be endured.
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