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Figuring Out Thirty

Decoding the decisive decade (and what really matters)

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Figuring Out Thirty

By: Bridget Hustwaite
Narrated by: Bridget Hustwaite
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 When Bridget Hustwaite blew out her thirtieth birthday candles, she had no idea of the profound changes that awaited her in this new decade. Instead of ticking off the traditional expectations (buy a house, get married, start a family), Bridget's list of early thirties life moments looked wildly different to what she anticipated. Her long-term relationship of five years had just ended, she said goodbye to her dream job, was diagnosed with ADHD and became a lockdown dog mum. And that was just the beginning . . .

Figuring Out Thirty covers the big questions we ask ourselves as the defining decade looms. How do we know the decisions we're making for our futures are the right ones for us, and not what society expects of us? Is marriage still relevant, and how do we decide if we want to have children - and when? Do our dream careers have expiration dates? And why do our friendships hit different now?

In her characteristically warm and relatable style, Bridget brings together collected wisdom from her hit podcast of the same name to deliver wide-ranging perspectives on crossing the threshold from our twenties to our thirties, and all that comes with it. Along the way she shares her frank, hard-earned lessons about what really matters at this time in our lives, and how we can navigate the ups and downs while staying true to ourselves. As you'll discover, there is magic to be found in things not going exactly to plan. Personal Development Personal Success Women Inspiring Mental Health Health
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As I listened, I felt truly seen and supported, especially because I could relate to my experience with Uncle Barry and Aunty Di. It resonates with me since I've got relatives who have come into my life later on. Turning 30 today has made me reflect on how it feels like life keeps throwing challenges my way—like a constant "yoo hoo!"

The biggest lesson I've learned through my upbringing and adult relationships, especially with children and the complexities of dating and separation, is that I often felt the need to fix everything for everyone. It’s a work in progress for me, as I've realized I need someone who can just be there for me at my lowest, someone I can lean on, without judgment.

my reality is best visually described as Bella and Edward in "New Moon," Anxious avoidant Edward bails Bella feels abandoned loses her self and denys genuine connection.. Uhh the whole Team Edward thing if only I have this level of EI then.
here's hoping that my daughters reflect back on mummy's hype sessions on them for more than vanity as more that funny but as quiet undertones when setting off to frollock their own paths out of my view.

Anyway, I’m going to continue reading and listening, working on lifting that heavy boulder off my chest. I've come to understand that I should only carry the expectations I set for myself. I want to shape my path based on my own beliefs and strengths, rather than burning myself out trying to meet other people's needs. I've experienced what it’s like to be alone in my darkest moments, feeling like a burden when seeking support, while watching others around me receive the help they need.

I've allowed others to expect more from me than is fair, all because my lack of boundaries made them feel entitled. But deep down, my love has always been genuine. It’s time to recognize my value and establish what I need from my relationships.

Thank you

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A fantastic read, Bridget has put so much research and care into writing a thoughtful, inclusive and nuanced representation of navigating the transition into your thirties. Not only that but her audio performance was engaging and kept me hooked in from start to finish! Highly recommend if you’re looking for a cover and insightful view on navigating aging and the pressures that can come with it!

Engaging and insightful

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A variety of experiences makes this so well rounded and covers so many aspects of turning 30. Great read!

So relatable

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