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Come Together

The Science (and Art) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections

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Come Together

By: Emily Nagoski
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What does it really take to create lasting sexual connections in long-term relationships?

Most couples struggle at some point to maintain their sexual connection. But a lot of the advice we are given on sex is either not very good or steeped in cultural assumptions and expectations that can end up hurting us.

In Come Together, leading sexual wellness educator, Dr Emily Nagoski, takes on one of the most misunderstood subjects of all time - good sex - and shows us that most of what we've been taught about enjoying sex is wrong.

Featuring inclusive stories and examples from a wide range of couples and individuals, you'll find out what great sex really looks like and the best way to overcome obstacles - including relationship conflicts, gendered beliefs about how sex 'should be' and body image worries.

With insight, humour and empathy, Come Together will radically transform the way you approach sex and desire, and empower you to create long-term, fulfilling sexual connections.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2024 Emily Nagoski (P)2024 Penguin Audio Human Sexuality Love, Dating & Attraction Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Relationships
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I love the way she explains and guides readers through difficult and sometimes emotionally sensitive situations.

Practical approach to repair common misunderstandings in relationships

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I loved the emotion and thought. inspiring to go forward. willing to work on these insights.

genuine knowledge

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A much needed exploration to a husky important topic. My eyes were opened and I need to start my journey from old self framing towards enjoying pleasure.

The first few chapters offered plenty to hear and think about. Then the grip loosened a lot in the middle and I started to have long breaks in between the listening sessions. But then chapters 10-11 were meaningful and kept me engaged. Perhaps the lull in the middle was just topics that didn't open to me in full.

The author reads the book themselves. The voice is lively, though sometimes feels over extended. It's like they'd added some extra drama with the hopes it keeps us with them. It certainly has more than you'd have when chatting with a friend when catching up.

I'd recommend the book for anyone who's on an intimate relationship. It things are great, you probably get wonderful validation on how you approach your partner. If you have questions or concerns, you'll get some great ideas for exploring. Best of all, the cultural shame of what's good or not is left at the door with this book. Fantastic!

A lot to take in

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I liked the central principle around focusing on pleasure rather than desire. However, I feel the book becomes repetitive after the first chapters with nothing else to add.

Some good tips, too repetitive

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Terrible book. Though it did bring my partner and I closer together in mutual eyeball rolling. This book is 100% not for straight heterosexual people in other words normal people. The author is going through a moment in her life and felt the need to preach and vomit justifications to remove herself from accountability in her own relationship and then masking it over with some good advice that often conflicts with her personal inputs. She even has the audacity that she selectively chose science papers based on her progressive ideology. Don't trust the introduction or sample, this is progressive vomit, and there are certainly better books to build a healthy and fun sex life with your partner.

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