Are They Dead Yet?
The Art of the Obit
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Are They Dead Yet?
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Nathan Osgood
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Sam Roberts
"I almost died laughing." —ROZ CHAST
"My own departure would not be so bad if only Mr. Roberts could write the obit!" —KAI BIRD
From celebrated New York Times obituarist Sam Roberts, the art of the obit: Who we remember, how we forget, and where we find the true meaning in a life
After nearly a decade behind the obituaries desk at the paper of record, Roberts knows obits aren't really about deaths. In fact, they usually only mention dying once. Over the course of the nearly 1,500 obituaries he has written throughout his career, he has instead come to understand that they're about distilling an entire life lived—for someone whose name he may have learned that morning.
In Are They Dead Yet?, Roberts explores the major questions that arise from the task of producing a succinct yet record-defining account of a life. Who deserves an obituary, and how do we decide who gets one? How does an obituarist choose what to include—and to omit? What happens when embarrassing information, like a crime, affair, or wonky cause of death, makes itself known? What makes a legacy, a claim to fame? And what happens when that claim to fame, so important in death, isn’t what mattered in life at all?
With wit, wisdom, and behind-the-scenes intrigue, Roberts examines the practice of writing advance obituaries, of which there are more than 2,000 on hold and regularly updated at the New York Times, America's relationship to death in the wake of 9/11 and the pandemic, classic euphemistic language, and more. Through it all, Roberts brings his humor, shrewdness, and experience to prove what he has learned from a long career in death: There’s no such thing as an ordinary life.©2026 Sam Roberts (P)2026 Bloomsbury Publishing PLC
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Critic Reviews
A charmingly digressive history, part-time how-to and all-around appreciation of newspaper death notices, from a master of the form.
Lively, entertaining, deeply perceptive, and occasionally very funny...One of those books that gives us a new appreciation and greater understanding of something we thought we already knew.
[Roberts employs] adroit use of language, wit, and observation . . . Readers will revel in this lively book of the dead.
A brisk, witty look at writing about the dead.
The sad decline of local newspapers means the near-extinction of full-time obituary writers. Sam Roberts, one of the best, does a mordantly wonderful job of dissecting the delicate craft of summing up the dead. Next time you’re invited to a funeral, stay home and read this book instead. You’ll get the gist.
Sam Roberts makes death seem hilarious and positively endearing. A master of the mini-biography, Roberts reminds us of the pleasures of the obituary page. It is all about the life—and the thought occurs to me that my own departure would not be so bad if only Mr. Roberts could write the obit!
Sam Roberts's Are They Dead Yet? is a must for anyone who loves obituaries. I almost died laughing.
It can be hard to admit that obituaries are one of your favorite parts of a paper. Sam Roberts is a maestro composer of the form, and here he gives us a long, loving look into how obits are created. Oddly, this book is fun!
"Are They Dead Yet? is amusing, informative, anecdotal, revelatory, digressive, surprising—I could go on, but I'll end with this: Death has never been so much fun.
Writing obituaries calls for a finely balanced blend of sensitivity, truth-telling, decorum, boldness, humanity, and philosophy . . . Few know the challenges of the job better than Sam Roberts, a (the?) leading obituary writer at The New York Times . . . An engrossing voyage through the practice of his trade.
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