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The Ethical Slut

A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, & Other Adventures

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The Ethical Slut

By: Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
Narrated by: Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton
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For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle - from self-reflection and honest communication to practicing safe sex and raising a family. Individuals and their partners will learn how to discuss and honor boundaries, resolve conflicts, and define relationships on their own terms.

©1994 Celestial Arts (P)2012 Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
Ethics & Morality Love, Dating & Attraction Philosophy Relationships Thought-Provoking

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"I couldn't stop reading it, and I for one identify as an ethical slut. This is a book for anyone interested in creating more pleasure in their lives...a complete guide to improving any style of relating, from going steady to having an extended family of sexual friends." (Betty Dodson, PhD, author of Sex for One)

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inspirational and enlightening, thankyou

I have waited so long to find these beautiful women and their knowledge. I embrace their values as my own

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Life-changing

This book began improving my life before I had even finished reading it. I'd recommend it to anyone- poly, mono or in between. Amazing lessons on communication and practical exercises you can do around jealousy were standouts.

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Thought provoking

This book challenged my thinking and feelings which I loved. Good advice for any relationship styles on communication. I have plenty to think about and become aware of my biases.

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Wowwww

Absolutely amazing. Must read or listen for everyone who would like to find out more about all sorts of different relationship styles!

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life changing

This book is a great place to start. It also opened my mind about other important matters within the LGBTQA+ world 🙂

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I recommend this for EVERYONE

Whether you are single, coupled, open or poly. this book is invaluable for the insight in to self care, negotiation, communication and intimacy in every aspect of life.

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Fantastic guide but narration could be better

This book is a fantastic source of information for those interested in non-monogamy, polyamory or just wanting to improve relationship skills. The narrator was good, except she has a very annoying habit of undulating her voice from normal to an imperceptible whisper, making it hard to hear some parts of a sentence while in anything but a perfectly quiet environment.

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Should be mandatory reading

Much of the content of this book should be mandatory reading for ANYONE in ANY kind of relationship, monogamous or otherwise. The way the authors convey ideas around communication, boundaries, and building and maintaining connection is something many “traditional” (hetero-monogamous) relationships could really benefit from as much as anyone. The content on polyamory/ENM and other more progressive relationships and sex is even more helpful for those interested in these lifestyles.

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Meaningful Advice for alternative relationships.

This book will be re read and I would not hesitate to recommend to anyone looking for real advice on relationships of any kind.

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Great for any relationship

Loved it, completely amazing information on dealing with jealousy and opening up communications that can be used in any and all circumstances.

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