Episodes

  • Ep 71: Start With Forgiveness

    Ep 71: Start With Forgiveness
    May 14 2024
    Forgiveness may sound simple, but it’s not easy. And it requires a tremendous range of self-awareness and deep connection to the heart. Self-forgiveness may be the access point to the peace, joy, fulfillment, creativity, and purpose we are all searching for. Therefore, it may be one of the most powerful practices for humans. Said this way, it doesn’t sound so simple anymore. Forgive and forget? Different levels of forgiveness Awareness of attachment to the past Head vs. heart Forgiving self before others Forgiveness is a process Expanding awareness around feelings of resentment, shame, and guilt Curiosity with internal triggers and judgment ------------------------- Connect with Jeff: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching Connect with Tatsu: Website: https://tatsuyafushimicoaching.carrd.co/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuya-fushimi-acc-0513a22/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    29 mins
  • Ep 70: Reframing Failure

    Ep 70: Reframing Failure
    May 7 2024
    We typically have a strong aversion to identifying as a failure. Many of us learned to fear failure at an early age because it meant an ocean of disempowering beliefs about ourselves. The word fail is laced with judgment and shame. And this has been passed down for generations. But what if we recreated our relationship to failure? How would our way of being shift? How much more could we grow? In this episode, we discuss nuances surrounding failure. Disempowering relationship to failure Failure defined early on including through public education Failing vs. being a failure Patience and failure Reframing relationship to words Pivoting Learning to accept paradox as a broader reframe ------------------------- Connect with Jeff: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching Connect with Tatsu: Website: https://tatsuyafushimicoaching.carrd.co/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuya-fushimi-acc-0513a22/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    32 mins
  • Ep 69: What Distracts You?

    Ep 69: What Distracts You?
    Apr 30 2024
    Distractions can help and hurt us. How aware are we of the distractions all around us? Are we making excuses for distractions to validate them? Are we using distractions to avoid commitments? It is important to periodically assess whether our activity and inactivity are in alignment with our commitments and goals. Distractions from what? Intention with choice Habits and distractions Commitments and your what for? Judgment of self and others can be a distraction Identifying priorities holistically Awareness of automatic behaviors and avoidance ------------------------- Connect with Jeff: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching Connect with Tatsu: Website: https://tatsuyafushimicoaching.carrd.co/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuya-fushimi-acc-0513a22/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    31 mins
  • Ep 68: What’s The Vulnerable Support You Need?

    Ep 68: What’s The Vulnerable Support You Need?
    Apr 23 2024
    How practiced are you at asking for support? How clear are you about the support you actually need? Many of us are conditioned to be good at giving help and offering it but not at receiving help or asking for it. Offering to give help and asking to receive help are doorways to deeper connection and intimacy. However, an overall imbalance in giving and receiving support can create depletion and stagnation of energy. Further, getting supported on a surface level is entirely different from on a deeper vulnerable level. Vulnerability in asking for support Being clear on what you need Costs of not being supported From fully supported in the womb to not needing full support afterwards Shame and support Expectations and independence Self-judgment and judgment from others Saying “Yes” to support Simply sharing what you’re up to can invite support ------------------------- Connect with Jeff: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching Connect with Tatsu: Website: https://tatsuyafushimicoaching.carrd.co/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuya-fushimi-acc-0513a22/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    30 mins
  • Ep 67: What’s Your Legacy?

    Ep 67: What’s Your Legacy?
    Apr 16 2024
    What do you want to create and leave for the world? We all make an impact in the world simply by being alive. But is your impact fulfilling to you adequately? What legacy do you want to leave while you’re alive? Exploring this can expand the level of purpose and fulfillment you create in your life. Why care about legacy? Living through personal core values What’s your agenda? Transparency with your agenda Creating your legacy and other people’s opinions What would you like your obituary to say? The legacy you want to leave can change as you evolve ------------------------- Connect with Jeff: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching Connect with Tatsu: Website: https://tatsuyafushimicoaching.carrd.co/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuya-fushimi-acc-0513a22/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    27 mins
  • Ep 66: Work Ethic Not Simply Good Or Bad

    Ep 66: Work Ethic Not Simply Good Or Bad
    Apr 9 2024
    It is important to be aware of what drives our work ethic. Is it fear, inspiration, or commitment? Maybe a combination of those or something else? Without awareness, we may be on a path to depletion, resentment, and disempowerment. Are we taking the appropriate aligned actions toward our desires and goals? In this episode, we discuss various nuances around work ethic. Just working hard is depleting Work ethic with intention Commitments and inspiration Fear driving work ethic Obligations tied to outcomes Grinding sustainably The importance of well-being with work ethic ------------------------- Connect with Jeff: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching Connect with Tatsu: Website: https://tatsuyafushimicoaching.carrd.co/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuya-fushimi-acc-0513a22/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    28 mins
  • Ep 65: Desire...Don't Get It Twisted

    Ep 65: Desire...Don't Get It Twisted
    Apr 2 2024
    Desire is a powerful driver that gets us moving in a certain direction. And we often attach an end goal to it to pursue. Therefore, it is understandable that desire can lead us to frustration, disappointment, or disempowerment if the goal was not reached or was anti-climactic. Desire is often misunderstood as true love and can point us to coping mechanisms that attempt to fill unmet needs. It can be a powerful practice to take an honest look at what we are desiring and what it is that we truly deeply want. Desire vs. true love Basic wants and deep wants Longing, lust, infatuation Chasing things that are outside of ourselves What do you desire now? The power of desire and vulnerability with the outcome ------------------------- Connect with Jeff: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching Connect with Tatsu: Website: https://tatsuyafushimicoaching.carrd.co/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuya-fushimi-acc-0513a22/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    30 mins
  • Ep 64: What's Your Life's Purpose?

    Ep 64: What's Your Life's Purpose?
    Mar 26 2024
    When we think about purpose, we typically think about what we are doing and an outcome or goal. It is typically externally focused. For example, raising kids, career choice, buying a house, exercising for good health, etc. But when we reach the goal, we often find ourselves asking “What’s next?” And the external chase continues. So, what is at the core of what we want in life? In other words, what is our unique quality of being that we most want to give to the world? In this episode, we discuss the importance of moving into deeper layers of our purpose. Purpose is like a 7-layer dip What are we choosing and why? Purpose as a quality of being vs. doing Transitioning to deeper layers of purpose Embodying what you actually want in life The spiritual journey is key Deeper purpose enhances everything you do in life ------------------------- Connect with Jeff: Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/ IG: @jeffmillercoaching FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965 Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching Connect with Tatsu: Website: https://tatsuyafushimicoaching.carrd.co/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuya-fushimi-acc-0513a22/ IG: @tatsuyafushimi FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/ Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
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    30 mins