Continuing our series on frustration and type 4.

— (2:23) 3w2 interpersonal availability / we’re reacting to 3w2 not bashing it — (9:17) Aesthetic preferences for 4 as an expression of hidden personal selfhood — (14:40) 4 staying in the realm where things can only be seen in the dark — (18:12) The role of 4 for the collective heart in giving voice to personal brokenness and hell — (21:48) Rejection types setting the scene before getting personal — (25:21) The vast differences of Bermuda overlays — (29:45) To lead with frustration risks pain and disappointment — (33:45) What shame really means / why people start thinking they’re a 4 / beauty and art in 4ness — (45:55) 3 upholding beauty more functionally than 4 can — (49:42) Imageyness of 4w3 vs 4w5 — (54:58) 4w3 is the fussy aesthete — (1:03:10) The role of 2 in collective generosity

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it’s the spice of life.

— (1:25) Frustration is the aesthetic of each center — (6:10) Frustration as the basis of human suffering and expression of personality — (7:56) Bermuda Overlays and frustration as personalized flavor / rejection as the elemental substrate of each center — (14:25) Frustration doesn’t give up on their needs but unwilling to work with how to get its needs met / the knot of not having — (16:58) Rejection cut off vs frustration in relationships — (24:13) Everyone’s shitting on the thing they most want — (31:57) Rejection and attachment both have a self-erasing quality / ‘attachment as exposition, frustration as rising action, rejection as conclusion’ — (39:27) The social engagement of the world is low on frustration / you’re not a person if you don’t hate something — (42:16) 2 vs 4 love is not the same / frustration is essential to seeing someone’s personhood — (52:57) Attachment-rejection vs attachment-frustration strategies — (55:13) To be aesthetic means prioritizing your preferences over maintaining connection / 4 seeing people as aesthetic holograms — (1:00:50) Universal bread people attraction vs personal specific attraction

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Alejohndra are back with tales of their Egypt trip.

— (1:25) John and Alexandra recap their retreat to Egypt — (9:05) What about the aliens? / the construction of the pyramids had to be an exercise in presence and intention — (16:23) The femininity of Egypt — (21:04) Egypt peaked early and then fell off hard — (31:06) Special John the mystical guide / the inner quality of the group — (37:50) The descent down into the deep chambers — (45:22) The acoustics of the pyramids — (52:55) A sacred culture that honors the divine and human animal nature — (58:48) Egypt activates something in you that values the sacred — (1:13:05) Hexad conversion therapy

Enneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seeing types clearly. Watch recent classes on Princess Diana, P-Diddy, and the Bermuda Overlays and get typed at: https://www.enneagrammer.com/

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Rediscover the centers of intelligence and object relations with John and Josh’s 6-part class https://www.theenneagramschool.com/developmental-centers

Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T

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