
So You've Been Publicly Shamed
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Narrated by:
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Jon Ronson
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By:
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Jon Ronson
About this listen
From the Sunday Times top ten best-selling author of The Psychopath Test, a captivating and brilliant exploration of one of our world's most underappreciated forces: shame.
"It's about the terror, isn't it?"
"The terror of what?" I said.
"The terror of being found out."
For the past three years, Jon Ronson has travelled the world, meeting recipients of high-profile public shamings. The shamed are people like us - people who, say, made jokes on social media that came out badly or made mistakes at work. Once their transgressions were revealed, collective outrage circled with the force of a hurricane, and the next thing they knew they were being torn apart by an angry mob, jeered, demonized, sometimes even fired from their jobs.
A great renaissance of public shaming is sweeping our land. Justice has been democratized. The silent majority are getting a voice. But what are we doing with our voice? We are mercilessly finding people's faults. We are defining the boundaries of normality by ruining the lives of those outside it. We are using shame as a form of social control.
Simultaneously powerful and hilarious in the way only Jon Ronson can be, So You've Been Publicly Shamed is a deeply honest book about modern life, full of eye-opening truths about the escalating war on human flaws - and the very scary part we all play in it.
Jon Ronson is an award-winning writer and documentary maker. He is the author of two best sellers, Them: Adventures with Extremists and The Men Who Stare at Goats, and two collections Out of the Ordinary: True Tales of Everyday Craziness and What I Do: More True Tales of Everyday Craziness. He lives in London.
This is an updated edition with new afterword, written and narrated by Jon Ronson.
©2015 Jon Ronson (P)2015 Audible LtdEditorial reviews
Critic Reviews
I’m kind of worried about publishing this review in case I should be publicly shamed or ridiculed but that’s the chance we all take when we share things with virtual strangers, people we know from pre-school and your cousin’s friend’s sister’s ex-boyfriend. Suddenly the world has become a much smaller place and everything on social media is there to be judged by others. Ronson starts with his name being taken over by a Tweetbot who likes strange food combinations. He feels like someone has taken his identity and he goes to reason with the perpetrators who see no issue with it. Ronson then goes on to discuss things with those who have been publicly shamed online, such as Jonah Lehrer (who invented/changes some lines in his book that were attributed to Bob Dylan), Justine Sacco (the infamous ‘hope I don’t get AIDS’ tweet which went viral while she was on a plane) and Lindsey Stone (photo next to a sign at a war cemetery saying ‘silence and respect’ while she’s doing the opposite). He interviews the person who was shamed and also if possible those who did/were involved in the outing.
It’s an interesting philosophy to see what those who shared the picture/retweeted the tweet have to say as is the shamed person’s reason for doing what they did. Pre internet, these photos and messages would have only been shared with a few people. Now everyone is the judge. I must admit that I hadn’t heard of most of the shamed people Ronson interviewed (most of this must explode on social media while I’m asleep) and those that ‘broke’ while I was online, I didn’t really follow. I actually thought Jonah Lehrer was ‘Joan Alhera’ or ‘Joe Nalhera’ for most of the audiobook. Ronson discusses with them how their life changed and how/if it getting back to normal. Justine Sacco went to volunteer in Africa. Lindsey Stone was aided by some digital media people to push down her results on Google by adding new blog posts.
The ending of the book is quite open. It didn’t really summarise or ask how (or if) public shaming can be controlled in the modern world. I felt it was a bit weak, more like a series of vignettes of people who had been shamed rather than examining human behaviour in general. Sure, Ronson does include some psychology in this field (like why you keep driving under the speed limit after one of those ‘Your speed is…’ signs) but it would have been good to include a deeper analysis.
Not for me, but a sound tale for the internet era
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Insightful, relevant and darkly funny
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memorable - responses to book on twitter so predicted by the discussions in the book (afterword). take the time to read all of it
important and challenging
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A must
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It's a tough listen at times. I found myself quite triggered by the stories, the language and content of the posts he shares. I could only listen to it is small bursts, a lot of it is just so ugly and distressing. But I think it is worthwhile and important.
I struggled with Jon's delivery at times and had to listen on x1.3 in the end. But how can you really argue about about the author reading his own book, particularly when it is non-fiction and recounting of his own stories?!
Thoughtful insights on an important topic
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A great topic and a great exploration
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I am ashamed to say that cannot remember if I have ever played party to piling on someone on social media.
This book discusses a cutting topic and delves into the darker side that I believe may be present in us all.
All of the cases described, regardless of the back story, are honest and worrying.
I believe that he does a great job of separating his opinion whilst describing the various events. He really asked a lot of questions of me during this, forcing me to rack my brain in order to see if I have been part of the problem.
The truth is, I don't remember and I think that is part of the reasons this problem is so pervasive in society.
The fact that i/we could dispose of some sort of flippant remark on someone, whether for notoriety or genuine outraged, and forget about it and move on without having the feedback loop to show the impact is a massive flaw in how we currently interact with each other.
I don't have a fix for that problem, but I think reading/listening to this will help people make people aware.
Get the book, this is the first non fiction work I have listened to in 3-4 years.
The five stars are for a reason.
Eye opening and genuinely thought provoking.
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People need to get off twitter and read this book
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I was surprised how much I got from this book
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Important book!
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