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How Not to Be an *ss
- Essays on Becoming a Good & Safe Man
- Narrated by: Adam Naranjo
- Length: 2 hrs and 46 mins
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I am a recovering ass.
Of course, at times I still am one, but it's less often. I now recognize my “assness” more quickly, recalibrate, and take action to make amends for my poor behavior. It's important to acknowledge the truth of our mistakes without turning toward self-contempt, shame, or beating ourselves up for the harm we have caused to those we love. Yet, we must take full responsibility for our poor behavior and fully own what we have done and learn to live differently, becoming men who bring life rather than further heartache.
This audiobook is just as much for me as it is for you. I am in the process of learning to become a good and safe man, and writing out these truths in this book has helped me immensely. I hope it will help you on your journey to becoming the man you most desire to be.
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A blend of expertise and rich personal experience, confronting but compassionate, healing, transformative and hope-filled.
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