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Modern Romance Audiobook

Modern Romance: An Investigation

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Publisher's Summary

At some point every one of us embarks on a journey to find love. We meet people, date, get into and out of relationships, all with the hope of finding someone with whom we share a deep connection. This seems standard now, but it's wildly different from what people did even just decades ago. Single people today have more romantic options than at any point in human history. With technology, our abilities to connect with and sort through these options are staggering. So why are so many people frustrated?

Some of our problems are unique to our time."Why did this guy just text me an emoji of a pizza?" "Should I go out with this girl even though she listed Combos as one of her favorite snack foods? Combos?!" "My girlfriend just got a message from some dude named Nathan. Who's Nathan? Did he just send her a photo of his penis? Should I check just to be sure?"

But the transformation of our romantic lives can't be explained by technology alone. In a short period of time, the whole culture of finding love has changed dramatically. A few decades ago, people would find a decent person who lived in their neighbourhood. Their families would meet and, after deciding neither party seemed like a murderer, they would get married and soon have a kid, all by the time they were 24. Today people marry later than ever and spend years of their lives on a quest to find the perfect person, a soul mate.

For years Aziz Ansari has been aiming his comic insight at modern romance, but for Modern Romance the book, he decided he needed to take things to another level. He teamed up with NYU sociologist Eric Klinenberg and designed a massive research project, including hundreds of interviews and focus groups conducted everywhere from Tokyo to Buenos Aires to Wichita. They analysed behavioural data and surveys and created their own online research forum on Reddit, which drew thousands of messages. They enlisted the world's leading social scientists, including Eli Finkel, Helen Fisher, Sheena Iyengar, Barry Schwartz, Sherry Turkle, and Robb Willer. The result is unlike any social science or humour book we've seen before.

In Modern Romance, Ansari combines his irreverent humour with cutting-edge social science to give us an unforgettable tour of our new romantic world.

©2015 Aziz Ansari (P)2015 Penguin Books Limited

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    Thomas 30/04/2016
    Thomas 30/04/2016
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    "Aziz as you'd expect"

    This book was forwarded to me by a friend as a gift. I'd seen some of Aziz on Netflix as well as listening to some on Spotify. I, being a relatively successful middle class single male really get a lot out of this dude. My friend I think feels I need to move into the dating scene a bit more seriously. Not that I can't get dates, just that I don't really try, or am quite happily occupied with what already goes on around me. After listening to this though I believe I probably avoid dating which is sad. I'm awesome and have a lot to offer. Aziz's book Modern Romance is very well researched and takes a look at modern and historical dating from a variety of cultures. The biggest thing I got out of it is not to expect to have met the perfect chick on the first or second date, but that like with anything, perfection takes time and that is the same with people. Meet them 5 or 6 or 10 times before moving on. Or not moving on. I know this sounds simple, and it's something I've known. But it was good to hear it from someone as cool as Aziz.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    bonnie 28/04/2016
    bonnie 28/04/2016 Member Since 2016
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    "Aziz is hilarious"

    So refreshing to read a celeb book about something other than themselves. This was interesting, relevant and hilarious. Highly recommend the audio book.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Nick 01/04/2016
    Nick 01/04/2016 Member Since 2016
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    "Excellent story that is both informative and funny"
    Where does Modern Romance rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    This is the first audio book I have bought and listened to. I was so pleased with the purchase that it is going to be difficult for other books to compete. Lots of information that I believe young and mature audiences can relate to. The fact that Aziz is narrating the story makes some of the facts and stories even funnier. Highly recommend. 10/10 would do again


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    Juzzarghh Melbourne 08/03/2016
    Juzzarghh Melbourne 08/03/2016
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    "Refreshing, entertaining and funny."

    Having Aziz read and commentate the book gave it that extra level of authenticity. I found this book to be insightful, entertaining and fun. I'd highly recommend it to anyone born mid 80s to mid 90s. This is exactly what we need in the age of technological advancement and cultural shifts. Well done Aziz.

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    Kaione 09/11/2016
    Kaione 09/11/2016 Member Since 2016
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    "A must listen for modern singles"

    I actually read this book, then upon discovering he narrates his own audiobook I decided to give this a whirl too. Funny it sounds outloud exactly like it does in your head when you read it.

    The subject matter of this book is fresh and his perspective fresher, I feel like I learnt a lot about love and human interaction whilst it still being laugh out loudly funny.

    A must!

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    Amazon Customer 01/08/2016 Member Since 2016
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    "Quality"

    Big fan of Aziz and his stand up, so having him read the book was a must buy. Thoroughly researched, interesting & laugh out loud funny.
    Must read/ listen!

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    Sophie G 12/06/2016
    Sophie G 12/06/2016 Member Since 2016
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    "Aziz reading to us ruled"

    This is the best analysis of technology and modern dating around. So many great insights and hilarious observations. Thanks for taking the time to do this research.

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    Nick 05/06/2016
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    "Love Aziz? Buy this!"

    I can listen to Aziz all day long so of course I'm going to love this. Lots of stats about the predicament of present day dating. Sounds like I will die alone.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    David A Lescai 01/03/2016
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    "Aziz gives a lot of life to his research findings"

    Between calling you lazy for having him read to you, Aziz raises some interesting points about finding romance in the tech age. His voice and added commentary make for an interesting listen.

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    Nicola 19/02/2016
    Nicola 19/02/2016 Member Since 2015
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    "Great light read"

    Interesting and entertaining! Would recommend for fun light reading. Aziz is a great narrator fun and light-hearted.

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  • Ralph Clayton
    Moscow
    18/05/16
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    "Interesting ideas and research."
    Would you consider the audio edition of Modern Romance to be better than the print version?

    The author narrates the book which makes it a whole lot funnier. Considering he's a stand up comedian. He also adds a few jokes here and there as an extra.


    What did you like best about this story?

    The ideas and research presented in this book are quite interesting. Like, he talks about relationships and marriage in specific periods, like the 30s, 60s, 80s, 90s. Gives a lot of contrasts compared to modern life. He also talks about dating culture indifferent countries, like Japan and Argentina and the different attitudes of people there. Makes you think about different perspectives and points of view.


    Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

    I laughed a lot by the author's jokes, and the facts presented here did give me some serious forethought.


    Any additional comments?

    I'd highly recommend this as something funny and interesting. If the topic is something that you want to know more about, then definitely give this Audiobook a listen. It really makes you think about modern dating.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • SAMER G.
    26/01/16
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    "Great reading by Aziz, but expected deeper content"
    Would you consider the audio edition of Modern Romance to be better than the print version?

    Yes, love Aziz reading, so much fun.


    What was the most interesting aspect of this story? The least interesting?

    They did a research to write the book, great job, so much interesting facts, especially the first chapter.

    The least interesting is too much time describing how romance are built today, as we didn't know the dynamics. So it gets a bit boring in this way. Expected more of the first chapter rich content.


    What about Aziz Ansari’s performance did you like?

    Great job!


    Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

    No.


    Any additional comments?

    No.

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  • Ru
    23/12/15
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    "Loved it!"

    Loved it. I caught myself laughing out loud many times. Buy it! Interesting topic with hilarious stories and examples.

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  • Donal
    24/08/16
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    "Surprisingly entertaining"

    I didn't know of the author or any of his stand up work before purchasing this book. I just needed a break from thrillers, end of world Sci-fi stories, "chosen one" fantasy epics and unorthodox but unparalleled detectives.

    I bought this book purely based on the volume of 4 and 5 star reviews and the change or genre. I have to say I found it very refreshing. I laughed out loud in places and found a lot of the research and anecdotes to be fascinating.

    I highly recommend it as light entertainment with an educational/informative slant.

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  • Movie Girl.com
    23/07/16
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    "An eye opening and intriguing look at love & lust"

    I didn't want this to end. Going into this exploration I didn't know what I was in for. I was presently surprised, I learnt a lot and had a lot of personal fears calmed at a time when I needed it.

    The performance from Aziz was entertaining, informative and at times I laughed out loud. The level of in depth research was both refreshing and satisfying. I hope he creates further works.

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  • Fabulous Book Fiend
    England
    8/07/16
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    "Such a fun read!"

    Review: I so enjoyed this book, it is such fun! I listened to this book on audiobook and I actually listened to it with my other half. It was so interesting and thought provoking that it took us ages to listen to because we had to keep stopping it to talk about the observation that had just been made! I think the whole concept of the book is something that should be explored nowadays, the way we date and the way we meet people in general is so different now, so reliant on technology that it is something really interesting to sit down and actually think about. One of the observations towards the end of the book is to do with the fact that we wouldn't speak to someone in real life the way we speak to them on a dating app.

    Ansari obviously adds his own humour into this book and that's what really tipped it from a four star into a five star read for me. I was laughing the whole way through. Obviously you can have some Hilarius stories stemming from any kind of dating scenario but particularly online dating and so the subject is funny anyway. When you add Ansari's brand of dry quick witt into there, you've got a match made in heaven! Some of the things he was saying were a little risque and definitely not for the most sensitive of souls, but his brutal honesty was what made it for me really.

    I really liked the way the book was structured as well, It is always difficult knowing what to expect with a non-fiction title and this book just had it all for me. I liked the fact that we dealt with one subject matter after another. There were scientific studies, comments from anthropologist, results from surveys and observations from people who are actually living in this age of modern romance from online and in real life interviews. I thought it was a really good way to bring the whole subject together. Of course, because i listened to this on audiobook, I got to hear it read by Aziz Ansari and that added another level to the whole thing but I think I would still like to own a hard copy of the book so that I can see the charts and graphs and studies that lie within.

    This was such a fun read but also though-provoking and definitely something that it needed in today's society. Add it to you TBR now!

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Alex
    3/07/16
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    "A fun and interesting look at modern romance."

    First off, Aziz is an excellent narrator. He has the kind of voice and delivery that makes you want to listen for just a little longer than you intended. As for the book itself, I found it very informative, interesting and funny. It was enjoyable to hear about all the research and people's stories, some of which many of us including myself will be able to relate to due to the overwhelming amount of ways to meet, talk to and date people.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Mr
    26/06/16
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    "AZIZ IS GREAT."

    It was really interesting. I got the book as I love me a bit of Aziz. And I'm also interested in sociology so I thought I'd give it a go. I hadn't realise it was going to be so insit

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Anastasia
    8/04/16
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    "A must read!"

    A great book, lighthearted, hilarious while staying factual and reflective of relationships in a technology era! Honestly one of my favourite reads you will laugh aloud!

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Anonymous
    6/04/16
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    "AZIZ IS SO GREAT!"

    Interesting book and concept ...lots of different perspectives. All presented in Aziz's wonderful, unique and relatable style.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Anni S.
    29/03/16
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    "Very interesting"

    I basically bought this as I'm a big fan of Aziz, he doesn't disappoint in this hilarious insight into modern romance.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Alexandra
    2/01/16
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    "Aziz does it again!"
    If you could sum up Modern Romance in three words, what would they be?

    Funny, intelligent, worryingly true!


    What other book might you compare Modern Romance to, and why?

    If you've read Aziz's other books, you'll love this. It's even funnier that Aziz reads it for you, and calls you a lazy arse at the same time


    Which scene did you most enjoy?

    All of them!


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    Absolutely! Did it in 2 as it was over Christmas


    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Joel Kelly
    Lancashire, UK
    5/12/15
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    "Terribly funny, interesting and inspiring!"
    What made the experience of listening to Modern Romance the most enjoyable?

    Aziz really went all out on the narration for this audiobook. He included lots of tidbits just for the audiobook, little ad-libs, distinct voices for any new "character" he might have introduced. It's just an all-round classic Aziz Ansari performance, if you're a fan of his standup, you'll love the book.


    What did you like best about this story?

    It gives a fantastic insight into modern romance and is very enlightening into how much things have changed in such a short space of time. Whilst we all kind of accept the fact of "this is how we date now", I think most of us (myself included) have never really sat and thought about how damn stupid some of the things we all do are. It really gives some insight into romantic life and has genuinely changed my perspective on the way some things should be treated and how we should act in certain parts of a relationship.


    What about Aziz Ansari’s performance did you like?

    It's classic Aziz. If you love his standup, you'll love it. He's mad, eccentric and fun as always.


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    I kept craving for more, but just didn't have the time. I usually listen to audiobooks on my runs and this has definitely helped to extend a few runs.


    0 of 0 people found this review helpful

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