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The Course of Love Audiobook

The Course of Love

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Publisher's Summary

Penguin presents, the unabridged, downloadable audiobook edition of The Course of Love by Alain de Botton, read by Julian Rhind-Tutt.

Twenty years after his best-selling debut, Essays in Love, internationally acclaimed author Alain de Botton returns to fiction with a brilliant new novel about modern relationships.

What does it mean to live happily ever after?

At dinner parties and over coffee, Rabih and Kirsten's friends always ask them the same question: how did you meet? The answer comes easily - it's a happy story, one they both love to tell. But there is a second part to this story, the answer to a question their friends never ask: what happened next?

Rabih and Kirsten find each other, fall in love, get married. Society tells us this is the end of the story. In fact it is only the beginning. From the first thrill of lust to the joys and fears of real commitment to the deep problems that surface slowly over two shared lifetimes, this is the story of a marriage. It is the story of modern relationships and how to survive them.

Playful, wise and profoundly moving, The Course of Love is a delightful return to the novel by Alain de Botton, 20 years after his debut, Essays in Love.

©2016 Alain de Botton (P)2016 Penguin Books Limited

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    Victoria 22/07/2016
    Victoria 22/07/2016
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    "Prescribed pre-relationship reading"

    Alain de Botton has created a entertaining story that provides a realistic view of relationships & marriage.. We can all take something from this story & perhaps remove the pressure of trying to have the "perfect life". Highly recommended!

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Corne 22/07/2016
    Corne 22/07/2016 Member Since 2016
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    "enlightening"

    extremely good narrator, indifferent to taking sides, and reading so even the most illogical ideas become logical. The storyline goes through and sheds light on every aspect of marriage, shedding light on modern societal misconceptions. As a realist, I found this book helping me feel much more willing to open up and to give people a chance. An absolute must-read, just ignore the very few swear words.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Luke 21/07/2016
    Luke 21/07/2016 Member Since 2015
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    "Modern love primer"

    It may not be the only way to look at love, but it certainly is a valuable one. Very wise and quite ambitious in its scope, not to mention enjoyable, witty, elegantly expressed and not without some genuine suspense.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Tracey Toowong, Australia 03/09/2016
    Tracey Toowong, Australia 03/09/2016 Member Since 2015

    I'm a middle-aged career woman who has no time to read, the book must be intelligent and grab me straight away, love thrillers.

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    "Loved this"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Yes, Alain De Botton is an outstanding human being. If he decides to write about something, he makes sure he knows everything about the topic. He writes because he is genuinely passionate about helping people to live better lives. But instead of being preachy, he comes down to the heart level, and says, hey look, I've noticed these things and it's helped me live a better more aware life, maybe it could help you too, if you're interested. And far from being a part of the typical American style self-help guru, Alain does not set himself up on any kind pedestal, nor do you feel when listening, that you are being judged. It is simply an observation. Anyway, this book helped me understand my husband better. And for that, our relationship is better. Loved it to the end, and didn't want the story to end, I wanted to hear how they coped with the next stage of their lives - middle age, and then grandparenthood - Alain - are you listening?!


    Have you listened to any of Julian Rhind-Tutt’s other performances? How does this one compare?

    Beautiful voice, with ever so subtle intonations and ability to convey just the right amount of feeling into his voice.


    Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

    Yes, when the characters finally came to terms with each others shortcomings, and decided to move forward together anyway, just appreciating the other person and not trying to change them. Paradoxically, people will begin to change in an organic way once this happens.


    Any additional comments?

    I recommend all of Alain's writing, and even go to the website for the School of Life of which he is a co-founder. He is not a lofty self-help guru, just an extremely intelligent human being who is dedicated to using his talents to make people's lives better. I have devoured most of his books.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Adam 04/08/2016
    Adam 04/08/2016 Member Since 2015
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    "Everyone in a relationship needs to hear this"

    Disney has lied to you, romanticism makes for great stories and bad relationships. absolutely brilliant

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    Kevin 07/07/2016
    Kevin 07/07/2016 Member Since 2016
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    "A must for the study of love"

    I can't say enough how great this book is, as it provides a through mature look at what's in our hearts. Love.

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    michael padden 01/12/2016
    michael padden 01/12/2016 Member Since 2016
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    "Loved the accents!"

    A life affirming book with heaps of food for thought. Glad I can re listen to certain chapters!

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    Angela 13/11/2016
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    "wonderfully insightful"

    I love alain and this book didn't fail to meet his usual standard. Brilliantly illustrates common differences and struggles in relationships in a way that almost anyone can relate to at some point or another in their life.

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    nick 12/10/2016
    nick 12/10/2016
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    "Essential for yourng married men"

    im 26 and just recently married. This book opened up all the fears i had about life going forward and offered some pretty practical insights into how to handle myself, my wife and what marriage means over a lifetime.

    The narrative is entertaining and by the end of it you see how its possible to come full circle with your emotions and still want to make a life together.

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    Lauren Nelson 30/09/2016
    Lauren Nelson 30/09/2016 Member Since 2016
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    "I learnt that I am normal and a little crazy"

    I learnt that I am normal as we are all a little crazy. A fabulous exploration of relationships which has given me great food for much thought.

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  • Ben
    27/09/16
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    "Every couple should read/listen to this book."

    Want to stay together? Have a listen and have a look at yourself. Unlock the skill of love.

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  • warwick jackson
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    27/07/16
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    "a book for anyone aspires to be in a relationship"

    Brilliant simply brilliant. so sorry when it ended but all good thibgs must. i wish i had heard this before i made early and wrong assumptions about coupledom.

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  • Hester
    22/05/16
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    "Views that can't be argued"

    Loved it. Recognizable yet insightful. Most engaging and selfevident writing on non-monogamy I've read yet.

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  • Leo Gopal
    2/05/16
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    "A brilliant thought provoking book on what love really is"

    This book has no plot it builds up to, no climax it tries to achieve. It merely does an amazing job at telling a truthful account of life and love. It will make you think, feel, and above all, learn. A fiction that speaks more truth than any self help book out here.

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  • Mrs
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    "Sublime"

    A beautiful, gentle, deeply insightful telling of love and its complications which left me feeling hopeful about relationships and the possibilities of understanding (and forgiving) ourselves and others. A must to all who want to have eyes open when committing to another.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
  • viviann tuong
    30/08/16
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    "Brilliant insights into love"

    Best relationship themed book I've picked up in years and so well told, lots of laugh out loud moments

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
  • Rutger
    14/09/16
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    "Great lessons "

    Great story. Only bad point is that some parts are whispered really soft followed by loud narrative

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • oliver
    Wallingford, United Kingdom
    2/09/16
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    "A sublime little book."

    This book can in my mind, be considered as a bright light in the darkness.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • katie
    26/07/16
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    "Invigorating and grounding all at once"

    I'm extremely grateful for this humbling narrative, I feel educated, inspired and hopeful. A comedically astute text.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • Dr. M. A. Edwards
    England
    2/07/16
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    "sensitive and wonderful, if a little male-biased"

    I'm a little biased as, for me, De Botton can do no wrong, but I loved this little book.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • Ke Donn
    godalming, u.k
    25/05/16
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    "Everyone should listen to this book"

    This book is wonderfully written and a real insight to the highs and lows of relationships. so much information presented in a heartwarming story made even better by the narrators beautiful voice

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • Meldorf
    England
    19/05/16
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    "Not for me"

    The story is sparse and the narrator is the main voice - rather like a social education teacher with a class of twelve-year-olds (apart from the frequent sexual violent language).
    The main message of the book seems to be that women should accept the flaws in their partner with saint - like patience whilst accepting adultery as normal and not be hurt by it.
    The performance will be fine if you aren't actually Scottish or been to Scotland. The pronunciation of place names is sometimes awkward and simply wrong at other times

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful

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