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Ep 356: From IT to Erotica: Rupert Ramgate's Journey and His Naughty Alter Ego Belem Knight. Dual Identities and Erotic Storytelling with Rupert Ramsgate
In this captivating episode, Ruan Willow sits down with British-born erotica author Rupert Ramsgate. Rupert shares his journey from a seaside town in England to becoming a knowledge worker in IT, and eventually moving to the United States. He discusses his plan for a transition to full-time writing, the challenges and joys of crafting erotic fiction, and his unique approach to storytelling.

Rupert reveals his alter ego, Belem Knight, who writes even more explicit content, and how the interplay between his two identities influences his work. They delve into the complexities of writing erotica, the stigma attached to the genre, and the importance of vulnerability in intimate scenes.

Listeners will also hear about Rupert’s ongoing projects, including his series "Books of Loukas," set in a fictional town influenced by Norse and Greek mythology, and his thought experiment series exploring a world where a pandemic has drastically reduced the male population.

Join Ruan and Rupert for a thought-provoking conversation about the art of erotica, the writing process, and navigating the publishing industry. Learn more about Rupert: https://linktr.ee/rupertramsgate

Other topics addresses: writing fiction, self publishing, relationships, author life, erotica, sexuality, writing under a pen name and all that goes with that, and writing for entertainment.

00:08:08" When humans are up, they're most vulnerable
00:11:10" When we write about sex, it opens up whole range of reactions
00:19:23" Every so often, somebody somewhere will whip up a storm about something despicable
00:29:11" The biggest problem with all small businesses is cash flow
00:31:18" Let's talk about story writing. Yes, we do need to talk about that
00:38:23" I back up everything I've ever written. I have, like, several backups
00:38:46" Some erotica writers fall into a phenomenon called thesaurus writing
00:42:13" Ramsgate talks about what's going on with his novel writing
00:51:44" Well, thank you so much for coming on and sharing all this fun

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Ep 455: MMMMMF Servicing the College Fence Builders, An Age Gap Hotwife Story, Chapter 4 of 6, a hotwife erotic romance audiobook...Join today to get this audiobook and others included in your subscription: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe

In this MMMMMF, John continues to lead his wife through sharing events with work men who come to the house, and the big surprise of the day is she's helping the work men work this time! She gets a special 'uniform', which is skimpier than one would expect anyone to do work in, but that's not the biggest shocker of the day. When the workers arrive, Laney's jaw drops as she had expected one man, but it's a crew! Not just any crew, this is a band of five sexy strong male college students who build, repair, and paint fences.

As John dictates the rules for the day, and for the spicy event that will be the hot delicious finale, all the men and Laney are ready to tear into the day with lusty excited hopes. They are all ecstatic about all the potential dreamy flirty pitstops along the way as they do their duty to get the fence job done, but with much more salacious edging than any of them had expected. Being the female in the group, Laney is looking forward to so many high riding peaks, her highest count ever will surely be achieved with a full beefy crew like this.

John's certainly not left out of the fun though! He has outdone himself this time in delivering a scheme for one of Laney's topmost unmet fantasies, and his beaming smile tells all. He's not only overindulgent with his wife, but he's going to reap all the steamy benefits once the guys head home, and for years and years to come thereafter. He's no dummy!

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Ep 454: From Law Enforcement to Adult Film Actress: Bella Lexi's Bold Journey to Empowerment. In this riveting NSFW episode, Ruan Willow sits down with Bella Lexi, a former police lieutenant who made a sensational, & challenging, transition from law enforcement to becoming an adult content creator. Bella shares her incredible journey and personal insights, from starting an OnlyFans page during the pandemic with her partner to negotiating an early retirement after being outed by a former friend, to adult star. Her story went viral, but she turned the chaos into a thriving career.

Join us as Bella discusses the challenges & triumphs of her new career, the societal stigmas around sex, and the empowerment she feels expressing her sexuality. This episode is packed with insights, from Bella’s advice for women exploring their sexuality to her experiences in the porn industry. Bella also shares her favorite sex toys, her thoughts on MILF content, the importance of mental health awareness, & sexual health relationships tips, plus female empowerment.

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Quotes from Bella:
"Only you can decide for yourself. First and foremost, it's about you. It's not about anyone else."
"You want to leave the job with your soul; you don't want the job to take your soul."
"I love working and doing what I do now. So in the long run, I think I came out the winner in the deal."
"I always tell women, the more you know about yourself and your body, the better your sexual experiences are gonna be."
"We all have to own our mistakes and things, and, you know, it is what it is."

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