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The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist
- Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse
- By: Debbie Mirza
- Narrated by: Debbie Mirza
- Length: 6 hrs and 42 mins
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The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist is the most comprehensive and helpful audiobook on the topic of covert narcissism. This type of narcissism is one of the most damaging forms because the abuse is so hidden and so insidious....
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absolutely awful
- By jaise on 09-01-2019
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If Only I'd Known!
- How to Outsmart Narcissists, Set Guilt-Free Boundaries, and Create Unshakeable Self-Worth
- By: Chelsey Brooke Cole
- Narrated by: Chelsey Brooke Cole
- Length: 6 hrs and 20 mins
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This therapist-written and recommended 3-part audiobook will help you understand the inner workings of a narcissist, heal from narcissistic abuse, and experience sustainable post-traumatic growth....
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Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 6 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
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When you said, “I do”, you entered marriage with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy. You never intended for it to be miserable....
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Outdated views
- By Anonymous User on 12-05-2023
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Trauma Bonding: Understanding and Overcoming the Trauma Bond in a Narcissistic Relationship
- Narcissistic Relationship Recovery, Book 1
- By: Lauren Kozlowski
- Narrated by: Stephanie Murphy
- Length: 1 hr and 37 mins
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If you're constantly feeling on edge, forever working to appease your spouse to little avail and feel like you're constantly being chipped away at with their abusive behavior, then I can understand how emotionally shattering it feels to live this way....
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Great but short
- By Christian on 18-07-2022
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Trauma and Recovery
- The Aftermath of Violence - from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror
- By: Judith Lewis Herman MD
- Narrated by: Alison Mathews, Xe Sands
- Length: 12 hrs and 30 mins
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Trauma and Recovery is revered as the seminal text on understanding trauma survivors. By placing individual experience in a broader political frame, Harvard psychiatrist Judith Herman argues that psychological trauma is inseparable from its social and political context....
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Well worth the listen
- By Rach on 26-11-2020
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Choices
- To the Hills and Back Again
- By: Audrina Patridge
- Narrated by: Audrina Patridge
- Length: 5 hrs and 37 mins
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If you know Audrina Patridge from one of the most successful reality shows ever, MTV’s The Hills, you know that she doesn’t pull punches. For years, she hid the challenges she faced, but now, she’s finally sharing her full story for the first time....
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Open, raw and real
- By Anonymous User on 15-03-2023
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The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist
- Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse
- By: Debbie Mirza
- Narrated by: Debbie Mirza
- Length: 6 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
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The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist is the most comprehensive and helpful audiobook on the topic of covert narcissism. This type of narcissism is one of the most damaging forms because the abuse is so hidden and so insidious....
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absolutely awful
- By jaise on 09-01-2019
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If Only I'd Known!
- How to Outsmart Narcissists, Set Guilt-Free Boundaries, and Create Unshakeable Self-Worth
- By: Chelsey Brooke Cole
- Narrated by: Chelsey Brooke Cole
- Length: 6 hrs and 20 mins
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This therapist-written and recommended 3-part audiobook will help you understand the inner workings of a narcissist, heal from narcissistic abuse, and experience sustainable post-traumatic growth....
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Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away
- By: Gary Chapman
- Narrated by: Chris Fabry
- Length: 6 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
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When you said, “I do”, you entered marriage with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy. You never intended for it to be miserable....
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Outdated views
- By Anonymous User on 12-05-2023
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Trauma Bonding: Understanding and Overcoming the Trauma Bond in a Narcissistic Relationship
- Narcissistic Relationship Recovery, Book 1
- By: Lauren Kozlowski
- Narrated by: Stephanie Murphy
- Length: 1 hr and 37 mins
- Unabridged
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If you're constantly feeling on edge, forever working to appease your spouse to little avail and feel like you're constantly being chipped away at with their abusive behavior, then I can understand how emotionally shattering it feels to live this way....
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Great but short
- By Christian on 18-07-2022
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Trauma and Recovery
- The Aftermath of Violence - from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror
- By: Judith Lewis Herman MD
- Narrated by: Alison Mathews, Xe Sands
- Length: 12 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
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Trauma and Recovery is revered as the seminal text on understanding trauma survivors. By placing individual experience in a broader political frame, Harvard psychiatrist Judith Herman argues that psychological trauma is inseparable from its social and political context....
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Well worth the listen
- By Rach on 26-11-2020
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Choices
- To the Hills and Back Again
- By: Audrina Patridge
- Narrated by: Audrina Patridge
- Length: 5 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
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If you know Audrina Patridge from one of the most successful reality shows ever, MTV’s The Hills, you know that she doesn’t pull punches. For years, she hid the challenges she faced, but now, she’s finally sharing her full story for the first time....
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Open, raw and real
- By Anonymous User on 15-03-2023
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The Phoenix Path: Rising from the Ashes of Narcissistic Abuse
- The Ultimate Recovery Guide from Narcissism, Gaslighting, and Codependency: Healing Trauma or PTSD as an Empath in a Toxic Relationship
- By: Emily Clark
- Narrated by: Emily Clark
- Length: 3 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
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Relationships with narcissists are turbulent, draining you of your essence while feeding their endless fire. Yet, like the phoenix, you possess the power to rise, reborn from the ashes, stronger and more radiant....
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Worthy of Love
- A Gentle and Restorative Path to Healing After Narcissistic Abuse (The Narcissism Series, Book 2)
- By: Debbie Mirza
- Narrated by: Debbie Mirza
- Length: 5 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
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Healing after narcissistic abuse is possible, and this book will show you how. Debbie Mirza shares her own personal story of healing after experiencing several narcissists throughout her life, as well as simple yet powerful techniques that she has learned through her own experience....
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A lifeline to safety, healing & Inner Peace
- By Anonymous User on 06-03-2022
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Manipulation: How to Defeat Powerful, Manipulative People at Work, Home, and in Social Circles
- Spot the Manipulation Before It Destroys You
- By: Wallace Foulds
- Narrated by: Michael Hatak
- Length: 1 hr and 31 mins
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This audiobook explores ways to spot master manipulators of all kinds and provides advice on how to manage every outcome when they cross your path in your social, family, and professional life....
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Covert Narcissism
- Signs of a Covert Narcissist, Ways to Protect Yourself from Their Manipulation and How to Deal with Their Narcissism
- By: Louisa Cox
- Narrated by: Heidi Baker
- Length: 1 hr and 44 mins
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Covert narcissism is a hidden and concealed form of narcissism, making it all the more difficult for the abuser to be confronted or "outed" for their behavior....
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The Narcissist's Playbook
- How to Identify, Disarm, and Protect Yourself from Narcissists, Sociopaths, Psychopaths, and Other Types of Manipulative and Abusive People
- By: Dana Morningstar
- Narrated by: Dana Morningstar
- Length: 7 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged
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Do you have a narcissist, sociopath, or psychopath in your life, or think that you might? Do you continually feel anxious around someone in your life, but can’t pinpoint why? Listen to find out more....
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amazing absolutely amazing
- By Anonymous User on 16-12-2020
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Co-Parenting with a Narcissistic Ex
- Strategies for Parallel Parenting When Your Toxic Ex Has Narcissism
- By: Kristen Thrasher
- Narrated by: Tanya Nakogee
- Length: 1 hr and 7 mins
- Unabridged
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Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental condition in which those affected have a deep need for excessive admiration and attention, a lack of empathy for others, an inflated sense of their own importance, and troubled relationships....
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Please Don't Take Mummy Away
- By: Maggie Hartley
- Narrated by: Penelope McDonald
- Length: 5 hrs and 38 mins
- Unabridged
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When police are called to a local supermarket late one evening, they find an angry shopkeeper and a silent young woman. It's the third time 24-year-old Zoe has been caught stealing in the past few days. Eyes filled with panic, Zoe has been hiding bread, milk, Calpol and nappies under her coat....
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Beautiful outcome
- By Amazon Customer on 01-03-2024
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Remembered Forever
- Our Family's Devastating Story of Domestic Abuse and Murder
- By: Luke Hart, Ryan Hart
- Narrated by: Joe Jameson
- Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
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A devastating story of coercive control and domestic homicide....
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strength and courage
- By Amazon Customer on 04-04-2024
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Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency and Complex PTSD (4 Books in 1)
- Workbook and Guide to Overcome Trauma, Toxic Relationships, ... and Recover from Unhealthy Relationships)
- By: Linda Hill
- Narrated by: S. L. Albert, Vicky David, Alene Sorensen
- Length: 12 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
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This groundbreaking book includes four books that will teach you from start to finish, everything you need to know about Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency and Complex PTSD, as well as how to recover from each one of them....
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Won't You Love Me?
- Unloved as a Girl, Abused as a Woman - the True Story of Ava’s Fight for Survival
- By: Ava Thomas, Toni Maguire
- Narrated by: Katy Sobey
- Length: 7 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
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Ava Thomas knew leaving was the right decision. Trapped and manipulated in her relationship, and after yet another violent beating whilst she was pregnant, Ava was helped to a women's refuge with her children....
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Well written harrowing memoir
- By Anonymous User on 07-09-2023
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Look What You Made Me Do
- A Powerful Memoir of Coercive Control
- By: Helen Walmsley-Johnson
- Narrated by: Helen Walmsley-Johnson
- Length: 10 hrs and 10 mins
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For more than two years, The Archers ran a disturbing storyline centred on abuse. As she listened to the unfolding story, Helen Walmsley-Johnson was forced to confront her own agonising past....
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An education we shouldn't but absolutely need.
- By Anonymous User on 10-02-2021
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Narcissistic Ex
- How to Get Over a Toxic Relationship, Deal With an Abusive Ex and Become Free of the Controlling Sociopath
- By: Lauren Kozlowski
- Narrated by: Stephanie Murphy
- Length: 2 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
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Narcissistic abuse is a form of abuse that ensures victims are left emotionally drained, mentally exhausted, and devoid of any self-worth or self-esteem...ending a relationship with a narcissist isn’t that easy....
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Logical and succinct
- By G. Wang on 19-11-2019
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Learning How to Leave: A Practical Guide to Stepping Away from Narcissistic & Toxic Relationships
- By: Michael Padraig Acton
- Narrated by: Dr. Michael Padraig Acton
- Length: 8 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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Power of You: Learning How To Leave is dedicated to freeing those stuck within toxic relationships including codependent victims of narcissistic abuse....
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Why Do We Stay?
- How My Toxic Relationship Can Help You Find Freedom
- By: Stephanie Quayle, W. Keith Campbell
- Narrated by: Stephanie Quayle, W. Keith Campbell
- Length: 3 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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You or someone you love may be in a toxic relationship, but it doesn't have to stay that way. In this compassionate and practical resource, Stephanie Quayle shares her powerful story alongside psychologist Dr. W. Keith Campbell's professional insights.
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The Verbally Abusive Relationship, Expanded Third Edition
- By: Patricia Evans
- Narrated by: Annette Romano
- Length: 9 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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In this fully expanded and updated third edition of the best-selling classic, you learn why verbal abuse is more widespread than ever, and how you can deal with it....
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The Bible
- By Andrew on 14-12-2019
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Gaslighting and Narcissism 4 Book Series
- Gaslighting in Relationships, Gaslighting Abuse, Narcissistic Relationships, Co-Parenting with a Narcissistic Ex
- By: Kristen Thrasher
- Narrated by: John B. Jenkins, Matthew Longmire, Tanya Nakogee
- Length: 4 hrs and 39 mins
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Gaslighting and narcissism go hand in hand, as most narcissists use gaslighting as a form of abuse....
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How to Leave a Narcissist for Good
- Moving on from Abusive and Toxic Relationships
- By: Dr Sarah Davies
- Narrated by: Fiona Boylan
- Length: 8 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
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You cannot change a narcissist. But you can change how you deal with one. Psychologist Dr Sarah Davies offers this practical guide to understanding and healing from a relationship with a narcissist....
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Nowhere to Hide
- By: Hannah Morgan
- Narrated by: Una Byrne
- Length: 10 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
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A shocking true story that reveals how one woman was tormented to the very depths of despair by her husband through coercive control and continual physical and sexual abuse....
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amazing story
- By Anonymous User on 07-04-2024
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Jane Doe #9
- How I Survived R. Kelly
- By: Lizzette Martinez, Keelin MacGregor
- Narrated by: Tamika Katon-Donegal
- Length: 9 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
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In 1995, 17-year-old Lizzette Martinez met Grammy-winning musician and record producer R. Kelly at Aventura Mall in Florida where he was performing. At first, it seemed that her hopes of becoming a professional singer were about to come true when he offered to help boost her career....
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Worst book ever absolute rubbish
- By Jennifer on 30-12-2021
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Enough Is Enough
- A Step-By-Step Plan to Leave an Abusive Relationship with God's Help
- By: David E Clarke PhD
- Narrated by: Ann Kimberly
- Length: 4 hrs and 33 mins
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Dr. David Clarke, a licensed psychologist specializing in marital therapy for more than 30 years, wants to help you make the break from your abusive relationship. Whether or not divorce is on the horizon is beside the point. You need to get out, so you can sort it out....
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Great Steps
- By Adriana on 17-01-2023
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Blame Changer
- Understanding Domestic Violence
- By: Carmel O'Brien
- Narrated by: Carmel O'Brien
- Length: 4 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
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Blame Changer provides straight forward answers to common questions and aims to debunk pervasive myths around what Prime Minister Malcolm Turnbull last year called "one of Australia's greatest shames" domestic violence.
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Narcissistic Relationships
- The Most Powerful Tactics on How to Endure, Escape and Take Back Your Life with Supreme Confidence
- By: Jackie Stringer
- Narrated by: Jim D. Johnston
- Length: 1 hr and 53 mins
- Unabridged
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Dealing with narcissism and borderline personality disorder isn't easy, but at the same time, it's not impossible for you to feel healthy, happy, and liberated....
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Prepare to Be Tortured
- The Price You Will Pay for Dating a Narcissist
- By: A B Jamieson
- Narrated by: Anna Butterworth
- Length: 6 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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This easy-to-understand book explains the standard process from start to finish - through being completely bowled over and convinced that one has found their true soul mate to the games and tests narcissists play once the partner has been successfully seduced....
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When Dating Hurts
- What We Learned About Dating Violence After Our Daughter's Tragic Death
- By: Bill Mitchell
- Narrated by: Bill Mitchell
- Length: 9 hrs and 33 mins
- Unabridged
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In June 2005, Kristin Mitchell was killed by her ex-boyfriend 20 days after her college graduation. Kristin’s family was faced with a decision: Concentrate on healing themselves - or take their experience and help others who might face a similar situation....
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Free to Soar
- My Journey Out of Abuse to Freedom
- By: Rebecca Adams
- Narrated by: Rebecca Adams
- Length: 5 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
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Within twenty-four hours after her wedding, Rebecca knew she had married the wrong man. Her husband, who had been kind and caring, suddenly became distant. Over time she began to see his true character—he was an abuser. In the years that followed, Rebecca and her children continuously endured all types of abuse. Although she attempted to deny and ignore it, things got progressively worse each year. When Rebecca's life suddenly came crashing down and she finally acknowledged the truth about what her husband had become, she had to make a choice.
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Blame Changer
- Understanding Domestic Violence
- By: Carmel O'Brien
- Narrated by: Carmel O'Brien
- Length: 4 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
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Blame Changer by psychologist Carmel O'Brien, former head of Clinical Services at Victoria's Doncare, provides straight forward answers to common questions and aims to debunk pervasive myths around what Prime Minister Malcolm Turnbull last year called "one of Australia's greatest shames" domestic violence. But Blame Changer is much more than the definitive rebuttal of some of society's most damaging, ill-informed and pervasive attitudes about domestic violence.
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Why Do We Stay?
- How My Toxic Relationship Can Help You Find Freedom
- By: Stephanie Quayle, W. Keith Campbell
- Narrated by: Stephanie Quayle, W. Keith Campbell
- Length: 3 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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You or someone you love may be in a toxic relationship, but it doesn't have to stay that way. In this compassionate and practical resource, Stephanie Quayle shares her powerful story alongside psychologist Dr. W. Keith Campbell's professional insights to give you the help and hope you need—and remind you that you are not alone.
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Hope
- By: Rosie Batty
- Narrated by: Rosie Batty
- Length: 8 hrs and 17 mins
- Unabridged
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On a warm summer's evening in February 2014, eleven-year-old Luke Batty was killed by his father at cricket practice. It was a horrific act of family violence that shocked Australia. The next morning, his mother Rosie bravely stood before the media. Her powerful and gut-wrenching words about family violence galvanized the nation and catapulted her into the spotlight. From that day on, Rosie Batty campaigned tirelessly to protect women and children, winning hearts and minds with her courage and compassion, singlehandedly changing the conversation around domestic violence in this country.
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Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I lost two sons to suicide due to DMV
- By lindylou on 09-05-2024
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The Mind Games He Played
- By: Nya Kumari
- Narrated by: Nya Kumari
- Length: 3 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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"There's a fine line between love and hate. Sometimes there's no line at all." Nya Kumari tells all in her autobiography, a searing exposé of passionate sex and equally passionate abuse. A relationship that will have many wondering, "Why doesn't she just leave him?" Anyone who has felt trapped in such a relationship can empathize and learn from Nya's story. The wrong person sweeps her off her feet. She thinks he is only single because his wife passed away. However, she soon learns there are plenty of other reasons.
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Forgiveness After Trauma
- A Path to Find Healing and Empowerment
- By: Susannah Griffith
- Narrated by: Suzie Althens
- Length: 6 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
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Susannah Griffith wishes she had spent less time thinking about forgiveness. But as a Christian minister, a biblical scholar, and a survivor of abuse, she has learned a lot about it.
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Free to Soar
- My Journey Out of Abuse to Freedom
- By: Rebecca Adams
- Narrated by: Rebecca Adams
- Length: 5 hrs and 26 mins
- Unabridged
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Within twenty-four hours after her wedding, Rebecca knew she had married the wrong man. Her husband, who had been kind and caring, suddenly became distant. Over time she began to see his true character—he was an abuser. In the years that followed, Rebecca and her children continuously endured all types of abuse. Although she attempted to deny and ignore it, things got progressively worse each year. When Rebecca's life suddenly came crashing down and she finally acknowledged the truth about what her husband had become, she had to make a choice.
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Blame Changer
- Understanding Domestic Violence
- By: Carmel O'Brien
- Narrated by: Carmel O'Brien
- Length: 4 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
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Blame Changer by psychologist Carmel O'Brien, former head of Clinical Services at Victoria's Doncare, provides straight forward answers to common questions and aims to debunk pervasive myths around what Prime Minister Malcolm Turnbull last year called "one of Australia's greatest shames" domestic violence. But Blame Changer is much more than the definitive rebuttal of some of society's most damaging, ill-informed and pervasive attitudes about domestic violence.
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Why Do We Stay?
- How My Toxic Relationship Can Help You Find Freedom
- By: Stephanie Quayle, W. Keith Campbell
- Narrated by: Stephanie Quayle, W. Keith Campbell
- Length: 3 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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You or someone you love may be in a toxic relationship, but it doesn't have to stay that way. In this compassionate and practical resource, Stephanie Quayle shares her powerful story alongside psychologist Dr. W. Keith Campbell's professional insights to give you the help and hope you need—and remind you that you are not alone.
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Hope
- By: Rosie Batty
- Narrated by: Rosie Batty
- Length: 8 hrs and 17 mins
- Unabridged
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On a warm summer's evening in February 2014, eleven-year-old Luke Batty was killed by his father at cricket practice. It was a horrific act of family violence that shocked Australia. The next morning, his mother Rosie bravely stood before the media. Her powerful and gut-wrenching words about family violence galvanized the nation and catapulted her into the spotlight. From that day on, Rosie Batty campaigned tirelessly to protect women and children, winning hearts and minds with her courage and compassion, singlehandedly changing the conversation around domestic violence in this country.
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Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I lost two sons to suicide due to DMV
- By lindylou on 09-05-2024
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The Mind Games He Played
- By: Nya Kumari
- Narrated by: Nya Kumari
- Length: 3 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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"There's a fine line between love and hate. Sometimes there's no line at all." Nya Kumari tells all in her autobiography, a searing exposé of passionate sex and equally passionate abuse. A relationship that will have many wondering, "Why doesn't she just leave him?" Anyone who has felt trapped in such a relationship can empathize and learn from Nya's story. The wrong person sweeps her off her feet. She thinks he is only single because his wife passed away. However, she soon learns there are plenty of other reasons.
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Forgiveness After Trauma
- A Path to Find Healing and Empowerment
- By: Susannah Griffith
- Narrated by: Suzie Althens
- Length: 6 hrs and 21 mins
- Unabridged
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Susannah Griffith wishes she had spent less time thinking about forgiveness. But as a Christian minister, a biblical scholar, and a survivor of abuse, she has learned a lot about it.