In this episode of Should We Unpack This, we’re diving into what it really looks like to move on and move forward after divorce. We unpack the lessons we had to unlearn, the surprising things we discovered about ourselves in our single era, and why neither of us felt ready—or interested—in jumping back into the dating world right away.

We also open up about where we’re at now: our current relationship status’, how our blended family dynamics are unfolding, and the biggest takeaways from our past relationships that are helping us show up as healthier, more self-aware partners today.

It’s honest, reflective, and full of the growth moments we wish someone had told us about sooner.

In part two, we’re unpacking the side of separation that doesn’t get talked about enough — the part where everyone else suddenly has feelings about your breakup.

We get into what it’s like navigating other people’s reactions, expectations, and projections… all while trying to rebuild your own life from the ground up. We talk about the moments of disassociation that show up when everything feels too big, becoming more self-aware in the aftermath, and how we slowly started piecing ourselves back together.

We also share the advice we wish people had given us — and the guidance we’d offer to anyone supporting a friend, sibling, or loved one going through a separation.

It’s honest, tender, and a reminder that the “after” is just as complicated as the goodbye.

What comes after goodbye? Part 1

In this episode, we’re unpacking the messy, emotional, and strangely quiet space that comes after a separation. The part no one really prepares you for.

We talk about the reality vs. the expectations of dividing a life you spent years building — from becoming “strangers” with someone who once felt like home, to navigating co-parenting, telling our families, and figuring out who keeps what (physically and emotionally).

It’s the in-between chapter where grief meets relief, logistics collide with feelings, and you’re learning how to move forward while still closing the door behind you.

If you’ve ever wondered what really comes after goodbye — this one’s for you.

Catch up here -- Episode 4: How did we know?

The moment we realized our marriages were over — and what it taught us about love, loss, and growth.

In this episode, we open up about the moment we knew it was time to end our marriages — and everything that led up to it. From the signs we ignored to the coping mechanisms that kept us in denial, we reflect on how our past shaped the way we loved. Now, as parents, we’re learning to model healthier relationships and redefine what love and partnership look like after divorce.

✨ Topics we unpack:

• Recognizing when a marriage is over

• Relationship patterns we learned growing up

• Modeling healthy love for our kids

• Growth, self-trust, and new beginnings

🎙️ Join us as we unpack the lessons, the reflections and the freedom that come with choosing yourself.

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From childhood dream jobs to unexpected detours — this episode is all about the twists that shaped our careers. ✨

We’re unpacking how our career dreams evolved through every stage of life — from what we wanted to be as kids and teenagers, to the realities (and surprises) of adulthood. From staying loyal to an organization, to navigating tricky workplace situations and making big pivots, we’re sharing the moments that changed everything.

Whether you’re questioning your next move, reinventing yourself, or just here for the relatable career chaos, this one’s for you.

💼 Listen in as we laugh, reflect, and unpack the plot twists that got us to where we are today.

We’re taking a trip down memory lane — meeting our younger selves and answering the questions she’d have for us now. From what we thought life would look like in our early 20s to what actually unfolded, this trend has us in our feels (in the best way).

In our very first episode, we’re taking it back to where it all began — the start of our friendship, and all the twists that brought us here. From long-distance besties to iPhone shared folders full of daily video updates, this is how we stayed connected through every season of life — and why we decided to finally hit record and invite you to unpack it all with us.