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You're Doing Great

You're Doing Great

By: Ruby & Kate
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 The Duality Project is empowerment from the inside. We seek to live life on purpose so that we can more intentionally and intimately show up in our relationships, and our communities. With a healthier perspective on self-development, we offer the Self Study Program, one-on-one Self Study coaching, this podcast, and the My Self Study Practice Guided Workbook and Journal that support you in bridging the gap between who you want to be and how you actually show up. Through exploration and awareness you’ll discover a deeper understanding of yourself to become happier, healthier, and more grounded. We’re so glad you’re here - Something that goes along with this podcast is the curriculum we have put together called the Self Study Program. Hosted by: Kate Moore @moore_kate and Ruby Chandler @life.with.ruby Website: www.thedualityproject.com Instagram: @thedualityproject© 2025 the Duality Project Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • #1 Are We Hypocrites?!

    #1 Are We Hypocrites?!
    Oct 6 2025

    In this first episode of the You're Doing Great Podcast (formally known as the "Self Study Podcast,") Ruby and Kate roast the shamey, hustle-glossed corners of the self-help world (“wake up at 3am and cold plunge your way to enlightenment!”), then re-center what real growth looks like: honesty, community, sustainability, and treating your life like a gentle science experiment instead of a never-ending improvement project. It’s spicy, thoughtful, and very “you’re enough already.”

    The Duality Project is Ruby & Kate’s umbrella for their work in honest, community-rooted growth. Think: real-talk education, coaching, and community that refuse shame and quick-fix hustle. It’s about holding both/and: your tenderness and your power, discipline and rest, individuality and interdependence... so you can choose what actually serves you.

    Where to go next:

    • Heartland (their online community): monthly group calls, optional 1:1 coaching, and friendly 30-day micro-challenges to practice self-study in five minutes a day. aka: low-pressure reps for real life.

    • Follow along: @thedualityproject (plus @life.with.ruby and @moore_kate).

    • Get the book: My Self Study Practice Guided Workbook and Journal
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    36 mins
  • #1 Are We Hypocrites?!

    #1 Are We Hypocrites?!
    Oct 7 2025

    The Duality Project is Ruby & Kate’s umbrella for their work in honest, community-rooted growth. Think: real-talk education, coaching, and community that refuse shame and quick-fix hustle. It’s about holding both/and: your tenderness and your power, discipline and rest, individuality and interdependence... so you can choose what actually serves you.

    In this first episode of the You're doing Great Podcast (formally known as the "Self Study Podcast,") Ruby and Kate roast the shamey, hustle-glossed corners of the self-help world (“wake up at 3am and cold plunge your way to enlightenment!”), then re-center what real growth looks like: honesty, community, sustainability, and treating your life like a gentle science experiment instead of a never-ending improvement project. It’s spicy, thoughtful, and very “you’re enough already.”

    Where to go next:

    • Heartland (their online community): monthly group calls, optional 1:1 coaching, and friendly 30-day micro-challenges to practice self-study in five minutes a day. aka: low-pressure reps for real life.

    • Follow along: @thedualityproject (plus @life.with.ruby and @moore_kate).

    • Get the book: My Self Study Practice Guided Workbook and Journal
    Show More Show Less
    36 mins
  • #2 Respectfully, Fuck Love Languages

    #2 Respectfully, Fuck Love Languages
    Oct 21 2025

    Ruby and Kate suggest there's a better way to *make love* than by taking a bunch of self-help quizzes and trying to perform love. It can be better. They turn their (loving but not blind) gaze to one of pop-psychology’s favorite tools: “The 5 Love Languages.” While they acknowledge that frameworks can be useful, they also name the very real ways these ideas can be oversimplified, commercialized, and weaponized in relationships.

    The Duality Project is Ruby & Kate’s umbrella for their work in honest, community-rooted growth. Think: real-talk education, coaching, and community that refuse shame and quick-fix hustle. It’s about holding both/and: your tenderness and your power, discipline and rest, individuality and interdependence... so you can choose what actually serves you.

    Where to go next:

    • Heartland (their online community): monthly group calls, optional 1:1 coaching, and friendly 30-day micro-challenges to practice self-study in five minutes a day. aka: low-pressure reps for real life.

    • Follow along: @thedualityproject (plus @life.with.ruby and @moore_kate).

    • Get the book: My Self Study Practice Guided Workbook and Journal
    Show More Show Less
    37 mins
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