Traditionally, speeches have always followed the wedding breakfast, but that doesn’t mean you have to stick to that! In this episode, I’ll share why timing matters, different options for when speeches can happen, and some practical tips to make them flow smoothly into your day.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💍 The tradition of speeches after the wedding breakfast (and why it can be stressful for speakers)

🕒 Why timing matters and how it affects the flow of your day

🍾 Alternative timings — during your ceremony, drinks reception, staggered throughout, or even in the evening

🙅‍♀️ Why it’s okay to have no speeches at all

📝 How to decide what works best for your vision, nerves, and guest experience

🎤 Extra tips for making speeches impactful (and not painfully long!)

Speeches are such a lovely part of a wedding day — with a little thought and intention, they can really elevate the atmosphere and create beautiful memories.

✨ I want to know — when are you doing speeches on your wedding day?

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It’s so easy to get swept up in Pinterest boards, TikToks, and styled shoots – suddenly your “dream wedding” feels more like a shopping list than a celebration of love 💕. But what if you realise the wedding vision in your head is out of budget? Don’t panic – this episode is here to help.

As a UK wedding planner based in Dorset, I’ve supported couples with budgets big and small, and I know how to reframe your dream wedding so it still feels personal, magical, and totally you – without overspending. Whether you’re planning a UK countryside celebration or an intimate Dorset wedding, these tips will help you focus on what truly matters.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 Why it’s normal to feel like your dream wedding is slipping out of budget

🌸 How to reframe your “dream” and pinpoint the elements that matter most

📌 Prioritising details that tell your love story without trying to do it all

💷 The importance of knowing your wedding budget inside and out (and keeping a backup fund!)

🌿 Creative alternatives – from venues and outfits to décor hacks and guest lists

🏰 What to do if your dream venue feels out of reach (and how styling can transform a space)

🧘 Mindset shifts that remind you your day is about love, not perfection

Your wedding will always be what you make it – and with the right mindset and priorities, even a smaller budget won’t stop you from having the day of your dreams. If you’re planning a UK wedding and feeling overwhelmed by costs, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you feel back in control.

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In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, Abby chats with celebrant Ellis McGill about how celebrants bring couples’ love stories to life through personalised wedding ceremonies. They explore the freedom of stepping away from rigid traditions, the importance of managing family expectations, and why the ceremony is the true heart of the wedding day.

In this episode, Abby and Ellis cover:

• The difference between celebrants and registrars
• How to create a ceremony that reflects your values and personality
• Why building a rapport with your celebrant is so important
• Ways celebrants help couples manage family dynamics
• Adding unique touches like music, children, pets, and personal vows
• Why love should always be at the centre of your wedding decisions

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There’s still a lot of mystery around what a wedding planner actually does—and it’s no surprise when there are so many roles that sound similar: venue coordinators, wedding coordinators, event planners… it’s easy to get confused.

In this episode, I walk you through the full process of what it looks like to work with a wedding planner (me!), from that very first enquiry, through planning, the big day itself, and even what happens after the wedding.

Whether you’re undecided about hiring a planner or just curious what we actually do, this one’s for you!

In this episode, Abby covers:

💌 What happens when you first enquire

📝 What the planning process really involves

📊 Budget support and supplier research

📋 How she runs your day from behind the scenes

💖 What support looks like after the wedding too

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Do I really need a wedding planner?”—this episode might just shift your perspective.

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Choosing your venue is one of the biggest decisions you will make for your wedding. It’s not just about what the venue looks like – it’s about what it offers behind the scenes too.

There are different types of wedding venues – and today, we’re breaking down the difference between dry hire and full service venues to help you decide what’s right for your day.

In this episode, Abby covers:

🏛️ The difference between dry hire and full service wedding venues

🪵 What’s actually included with dry hire venues (and what’s not!)

🛎️ What you can expect from full service venues

✅ The pros and cons of both venue types

🤔 How to decide which option is right for your wedding

💡 A key reminder if you’re going for a dry hire space

📋 Why confirming exactly what’s included is essential — for any venue

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Your ceremony is done, you're officially married... and then what? The drinks reception is one of the most overlooked parts of a wedding day - but it shouldn't be. This is your first real party moment and the perfect time for guests to relax, connect, and celebrate your love story.

In this episode, I’m sharing how to avoid the awkward “standing around waiting” energy and instead create a drinks reception that flows, feels joyful, and reflects you.

In this episode, Abby covers:

🍹 Why your drinks reception deserves more love

🎶 Ways to create a vibe that feels fun and welcoming

🍕 Food and drink essentials (no one wants hangry guests)

🎨 Creative extras to make it memorable – from live music to tattoo artists

📸 How to balance mingling, photos, and guest experience

💡 Fun twists on tradition like doing speeches or cake-cutting early

What are you planning for your drinks reception?

I’d love to hear your ideas - message me on Instagram or email in your stories!

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Guest outfits might not be the first thing on your planning list — but they can influence the vibe, look, and feel of your day. And when it comes to things like white dresses, practical footwear, or someone wanting to match your bridesmaids... it’s worth thinking about it early.

In this episode, Abby covers:

👗 Whether you can or should ask guests to dress a certain way

🎨 How to use colour palettes to guide outfit choices without being restrictive

🙅‍♀️ Why it’s okay to ask people not to wear white (yes, still!)

💬 What to do when someone wants to match your wedding party

❌ The big “don’ts” when it comes to dress codes

💖 How to make kind outfit suggestions while still holding your vision

Whether you're planning a barefoot beach day or a formal black-tie affair, this episode gives you tips on how to approach outfit requests kindly but clearly — without becoming a wedding dictator 👀

✨ The takeaway? You can have opinions on your guests' outfits... but flexibility, visuals, and thoughtful language go a long way.

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Before you fall in love with the aesthetic or book based on vibes alone, there are a lot of important questions to ask your venue. From what’s actually included in the hire price to noise restrictions and contingency plans - these are the things that can make or break your wedding day behind the scenes.

In this episode of Your Wedding Unlimited, I’m sharing essential questions to ask before you book your wedding venue, especially the ones you might not have even considered yet.

Asking the right questions upfront isn’t being “difficult” - it’s smart, and it saves you from stress (and surprise costs) later down the line.

In this episode, Abby covers:

💭 What’s usually included in your venue hire - and what’s not

📋 Why you need to understand supplier rules and styling restrictions

🕐 Access times, setup allowances, and exclusive-use options

🏡 Venue accommodation and nearby guest options

🧑‍💼 The difference between venue coordinators and planners

🌧️ What to ask about contingency plans (hello, British weather)

🔇 Sound curfews, children, pets, renovations, and more

✨ Remember: your venue is likely the biggest cost in your wedding budget - you deserve to have all the information.

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