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Your Secret Is Safe With Me

Your Secret Is Safe With Me

By: Dr. Marie Murphy
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Dr. Marie Murphy talks about infidelity and other challenging relationship situations from a non-judgmental perspective. She shares practical tools and advice from her own coaching practice to help you make changes in your love life, and interviews professionals with complementary expertise, such as family law attorneys, mediators, non-violent communication specialists, and more. In addition, Marie discusses the social and historical context of romantic relationships to provide perspective on our taken-for-granted assumptions about how relationships are supposed to be. To learn more, visit mariemurphyphd.com.© 2025 MARIE MURPHY, PH.D. Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • 214: What If You Make the “Wrong Decision” About Your Relationship(s)?
    Aug 14 2025

    Have you ever been paralyzed by the fear of making the "wrong" decision about your relationship(s)?

    Maybe you're considering leaving your marriage, ending an affair, or making another significant change in your relationship status. And maybe the fear of regret is keeping you stuck.

    Making major relationship decisions can feel like standing at the edge of a cliff, knowing that once you jump, there's no going back.

    In this episode, I break down exactly what to do when you find yourself living with relationship decisions you don't like, and share practical steps for addressing your dissatisfaction without spiraling into panic.

    Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/214

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    32 mins
  • 213: Beginnings and Endings
    Apr 10 2025

    Is it really okay to end something that's working well?

    After much consideration, I've decided to pause production of Your Secret is Safe With Me indefinitely while I pursue new creative endeavors.

    This decision wasn't made because anything is wrong—quite the opposite.

    My experience with this transition mirrors what many of my clients face in their relationships and life choices. There's often a belief that we shouldn't end something that's "good enough" or that we must finish everything we've started. But what if the most faithful act to ourselves is allowing evolution, even when it means leaving something valuable behind?

    This final episode explores the legitimacy of change and the permission we all deserve to give ourselves when moving in new directions.

    Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/213

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    23 mins
  • 212: Choosing Between Two Good Things
    Mar 27 2025

    Have you ever felt stuck between two good choices?

    Through my personal story of leaving a life I loved to join the Peace Corps, I illustrate how choosing between two good things - while challenging - can lead to profound growth and fulfillment.

    If you're struggling with a decision that feels impossible because both options have value, this episode is for you.

    Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.mariemurphyphd.com/212

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    46 mins
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