What if I told you that business transition isn't just about changing ownership—it's about six fundamental transformations that happen to both the successor and the current owner?

In this solo episode, Andrea introduces the Six Metamorphoses of Business Transition, a framework that helps families and business teams understand the psychological and practical changes everyone experiences during leadership transitions.

From the apprentice-to-owner role shift that successors navigate to the identity changes owners face as they step back from their life's work, Andrea walks through each transformation with real examples from her own succession journey at The Transition Strategists.

Whether you're a successor feeling the weight of growing responsibility or an owner struggling with when and how to let go, this episode will help you understand what's normal, what's challenging, and why having conversations about these changes is essential for a successful transition.

Key topics covered:

• The six metamorphoses: role, vision, power, relationships, purpose, and legacy
• How successors move from apprentice to owner while managing anxiety and proving themselves
• Why owners struggle with staying relevant while giving successors space to grow
• The dance between respecting hierarchy and stepping into leadership
• How vision conflicts create tension between honoring the past and building the future
• Why relationships inside and outside the business shift for both parties
• The identity and purpose changes that affect owners and successors differently

Key takeaways:

• Transition involves fundamental changes for both successors and owners—expect this
• Different people need to move at different paces through these metamorphoses
• The sooner you start conversations about what everyone wants and needs, the better
• Understanding these changes helps normalize the challenges you're experiencing
• Designing the future together prevents assumptions and misalignment

Connect with Andrea Carpenter and Your Next Gen Friend:

• Website: https://yournextgenfriend.com/
• Your Next Gen Friend on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yournextgenfriend/
• Your Next Gen Friend on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@yournextgenfriend
• Andrea on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreashaver/

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Chapters in this episode:

00:00 Introduction: The Six Metamorphoses Framework

00:38 Metamorphosis #1: Role (Apprentice to Owner, Relevant to Beyond)

02:36 Metamorphosis #2: Vision (New Ideas vs. Proven Success)

03:57 Metamorphosis #3: Power (Authority, Control, and Letting Go)

05:39 Metamorphosis #4: Relationships (Networks, Dependencies, and Relevance)

07:05 Metamorphosis #5: Purpose (From Job to Identity to What's Next)

08:45 Metamorphosis #6: Legacy (Honoring the Past, Building the Future)

10:12 Key Takeaways and Next Steps

What goes through your mind when someone asks you to be their successor? For Andrea, it wasn't immediate excitement—it was a flood of very real fears and questions.

In this honest and relatable episode, Andrea takes you inside her thought process when Elizabeth first asked her to become the successor at The Transition Strategists. From meeting Elizabeth on what she thought was just a networking call to navigating the complex emotions of buying into someone else's life's work, Andrea shares the four major fears that almost every successor faces. Whether you're considering a family business succession, buying into a company as an employee, or exploring any leadership transition, Andrea's candid reflections will help you understand that feeling nervous doesn't mean you're not ready—it means you're taking it seriously.

Key topics covered:

• The four major fears every successor faces: readiness, money/affordability, legacy pressure, and relationship dynamics
• How to use the Objectives Matrix to evaluate if succession aligns with your personal goals
• Why feeling nervous about succession is actually healthy, not a red flag
• The importance of having real conversations about assumptions and expectations
• How transition happens gradually through small steps, not all at once

Key takeaways:

• Succession fears are valid and shared by most successors—you're not alone
• The things left unsaid create the biggest problems in transition
• Transition is a journey, not an event—it doesn't all have to happen at once
• Hard conversations about fears and expectations are essential for moving forward
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Connect with Andrea Carpenter and Your Next Gen Friend:

• Website: https://yournextgenfriend.com/
• Your Next Gen Friend on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yournextgenfriend/
• Your Next Gen Friend on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@yournextgenfriend
• Andrea on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreashaver/

Subscribe to "Your Next Gen Friend" on your favorite podcast player:

• Spotify: https://yournextgenfriend.com/open-spotify
• Apple Podcasts: https://yournextgenfriend.com/apple-podcast

Chapters in this episode:

00:00 Setting the Stage: When Elizabeth Asked Me to Be Her Successor

02:41 Using the Objectives Matrix to Evaluate the Opportunity

03:24 Fear #1: Am I Even Ready for This?

04:18 Fear #2: Money and Affordability Concerns

05:44 Fear #3: The Weight of Legacy Pressure

06:42 Fear #4: Relationships and Team Dynamics

07:39 Why Being Nervous Isn't a Red Flag

09:14 Transition as a Journey, Not an Event

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Andrea tackles one of the most loaded phrases in family business: "You're next." Whether it's taking over the family business, stepping into leadership alongside siblings, or inheriting family wealth responsibilities, being told you're next rarely comes with the clarity successors actually need.

In this vulnerable and practical episode, Andrea shares her own experience of first hearing about her role in her family's estate planning and how it felt both like a compliment and an overwhelming responsibility. She explores why "being next" often feels heavy and unclear, and what successors can do to take control of their own transition journey.

Key topics covered:

• Why "you're next" rarely comes with clarity or a roadmap
• Debunking succession myths and defining what you actually want
• The difference between inheriting a business and inheriting a leadership manual
• How to initiate transition conversations without seeming entitled

Key takeaways:

• Authenticity in leadership means being yourself, not a clone of who came before
• Successors can drive conversations about transition timelines and roadmaps
• You don't need permission to start planning your future

Connect with Andrea Carpenter and Your Next Gen Friend:

• Website: https://yournextgenfriend.com/
• Your Next Gen Friend on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yournextgenfriend/
• Your Next Gen Friend on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@yournextgenfriend
• Andrea on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreashaver/

Subscribe to "Your Next Gen Friend" on your favorite podcast player:

• Spotify: https://yournextgenfriend.com/open-spotify
• Apple Podcasts: https://yournextgenfriend.com/apple-podcast

Chapters:

00:00 Understanding the 'You're Next' Concept

04:45 Defining Personal Goals and Values

09:21 Taking Charge of Your Future

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