This episode is a little different.

It’s part reintroduction (the real me—high energy, no fluff, no filter), part parenting line-in-the-sand, and part raw grief.

I talk about something I’ve been seeing more and more: parents treating their kids like peers—like friends—pulling them into adult conversations, adult conflict, and adult emotional weight.

And then I share something that hit me hard: when I found out my cat, Onyx, died, it cracked me open in a way I didn’t expect. I used to be the guy who didn’t understand why people grieved pets. I get it now.

• Why your children are not your friends (and why that boundary protects them)
• The danger of making kids your confidant or “little ally”
• How the way you parent teaches your kids how to relate to authority (bosses, teachers, the real world)
• What losing Onyx taught me about attachment, emotional regulation, and grief
• Why pets can provide a kind of consistent, unconditional connection that many of us don’t experience often

• Parents: keep the boundary. Kids deserve to be kids.
• Grief: it’s not about “rank.” It’s about connection.
• Life: don’t keep re-harming yourself by replaying old pain—learn what you can, then let it go.

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And if you’ve ever been through pet loss: I’m genuinely sorry. I didn’t understand before… but I do now.

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