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What if the most powerful thing you did this year was stop trying to be “soft enough” and started speaking with clean, direct honesty? That’s the energy we bring to a wide-ranging conversation with Lani Gonzales—former attorney turned hypnotherapist—on women’s intuition, subconscious healing, and boundaries that actually hold.

We trace Lani’s journey from high-achiever to embodied guide, and unpack a big mental health insight: talk therapy helps us name and cope, while hypnotherapy can locate root causes and rewrite the story beneath the surface. Lani breaks down the difference between meditation’s awareness and hypnosis’s agenda, and explains why not every nervous system needs the same approach. You’ll hear why some clients need activation before calm, how self-hypnosis works in daily life, and what changed after decades of cyclical suicidal ideation.

We also confront the myth that directness is “masculine.” Confidence is an embodied trait. Through archetypes—queen, warrior, sage, mystic—Lani invites women to claim a fuller range of power, including the season where leadership and wisdom become our primary contribution. Along the way, we talk sisterhood, co-regulation, and why being “triggering” can mean you’re modeling what’s possible.

Practical takeaways land hard and kind: don’t rush forgiveness; anger is a teacher of injustice. Use two simple phrases to stop mental gymnastics and invite repair: “That didn’t sit well with me” and “Help me understand.” If a line is crossed again, you don’t owe a speech—let your exit be the consequence. Emotional maturity doesn’t mean feeling less; it means noticing faster and choosing your response with integrity.

Lani shares how she works in focused three-session packages with integration homework, plus upcoming retreats and women’s groups designed to build resilience, purpose, and conscious business. If you’re craving clarity, community, and tools that reach deeper than willpower, this one meets you where you are—and walks with you to where you’re going.

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Lani Gonzales is a clinical hypnotherapist, former attorney, author, and subconscious performance expert who helps high-achieving women and leaders rewire limiting beliefs, regulate their nervous systems, and live more aligned, fulfilled lives. After leaving a 13-year legal career as a law firm partner, Lani now blends neuroscience, subconscious reprogramming, trauma-informed practices, and spirituality to support deep personal transformation.

Links:

www.LaniGonzales.com

https://www.instagram.com/lanigonzales.unlimited

https://www.facebook.com/gonzaleslani/

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