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You Can't Be the Prize and the Punishment

You Can't Be the Prize and the Punishment

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Episode 29: You Can't Be the Prize and the Punishment

Why This Episode Matters

This quick, power-packed episode is your reminder that peace isn’t power when you’re using it to punish. If you’ve ever pulled away to protect your heart or found yourself giving mixed signals in love, Lindsay helps you trade inconsistency for clarity — the Sunshine Way.

You can’t be the prize and the punishment, Sunshine.

In this episode, Lindsay Brown exposes the emotional hot-and-cold behavior that ruins connection and replaces peace with confusion. Using Proverbs 31:11–12 as her anchor, Lindsay helps you stop performing for love and start showing up with emotional steadiness, faith, and grace.

💬 “You’re not hard to love — you’re just hard to trust when your energy keeps changing.”
💬 “Peace attracts peace. Confusion attracts chaos. Choose your side.”

This 11-minute coaching episode is short, sharp, and spirit-led — a reminder that grace doesn’t play games.

📖 Faith Focus

“Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.”Proverbs 31:11–12 (NIV)

Faith-based femininity is about dependability, grace, and bringing good — not confusion — into every relationship.

🎙️Resources Mentioned:

💜 Relationship Red Flag Journal (RRFJ) by Lindsay Brown: your clarity companion for noticing patterns, setting boundaries, and choosing peace over confusion. Available now ➡️ Get Your Copy on Amazon

🎧 Listen to related episodes:

  • Episode 26 Standing in the Gap for Your Man: How to Support Your Husband Through Spiritual Battles
  • Episode 28 — Weaponizing Tears and Silence

💜Host Credit

Hosted and developed by Lindsay Brown for the Sunshine Why™ Program.
Written and produced by Lindsay Brown.

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