If you’ve ever felt a tiny nudge to write your story but immediately told yourself, “No one cares,” “My life isn’t interesting,” or “I wouldn’t even know where to start”… this episode is going to meet you right where you are.

In this week’s episode of I Mean This In The Nicest Way Possible, RAM makes a heartfelt — and slightly confrontational — case for one of the most unexpectedly healing things you can do for yourself: write the f—ing memoir.

And he doesn’t mean: quit your job, move to a cabin, and try to become the next great American author.
He means: pick up a pen and finally get honest with yourself.

This episode explores why writing your story isn’t about publishing, prestige, or perfection — it’s about meaning. It’s about clarity. It’s about reclaiming the pieces of your past that shaped you, and discovering what those moments have been trying to teach you.

You’ll hear about:
• Why storytelling calms your nervous system and rewires emotional memory
• How writing creates psychological integration and identity clarity
• Why your past feels different when you see it on the page instead of replaying it in your head
• How memoir becomes emotional excavation — and why that’s a good thing
• Why your “ordinary” story is more universal than you think

RAM shares his own unexpected entry into memoir writing — from a few casual childhood memories that cracked something open, to the writing class that reshaped his craft, to the emotional breakthroughs that only surfaced when he finally put his truth on paper. And he breaks down real-life examples from memoirists, therapists, psychologists, and storytellers whose lives changed the moment they wrote things down.

You’ll also learn:
• What neuroscience says about expressive writing
• How structure, scenes, themes, and fragments all serve different emotional purposes
• Why community and accountability make your writing stronger
• How writing groups become creative lifelines
• Why waiting “until you’re ready” is the biggest trap

And yes — there’s a challenge this week: The Past to Paper Challenge, a simple one-page practice designed to help you meet a memory with compassion, curiosity, and courage.

This isn’t about becoming an author.
This is about becoming whole.

If you’ve got 27 minutes, RAM means this in the nicest way possible: write the f—ing memoir.
Your future self might just thank you.