Whether you’re brand new to the lifestyle or a seasoned veteran, knowing the language makes all the difference. In this episode, we break down the most common terms and labels you’ll hear in the swinging and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) community. From “soft swap” to “full swap,” “unicorns”, and everything in between, we’ll explore what these words mean and why understanding them can help you communicate your boundaries and desires more clearly. Join us for a fun, judgment-free conversation that makes the lifestyle lingo feel approachable, inclusive, and easy to navigate.

Hosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby

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In this episode, we sit down with Janet W. Hardy, co-author of the groundbreaking book The Ethical Slut, which has sold over 200,000 copies and redefined how we think about non-monogamy, consent, and sexual freedom.

We explore Janet’s journey from a traditional marriage to becoming a leading voice in sex education and ethical non-monogamy. She shares insights on the importance of community, communication, navigating jealousy, and reclaiming the word “slut” as a symbol of empowered, consensual sexuality.

Whether you’re curious about open relationships or a longtime member of the poly or BDSM community, this conversation offers thoughtful, real-world guidance from one of the movement’s pioneers.

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Host and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby

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Join us while we indulge with some familiar and new voices as we record from the final Pooled Pleasures pool party every!

Hosts and Producers: Cali, Fox, and Ruby

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