Why We’re So Quick to Tear Good Things Down
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Why We’re So Quick to Tear Good Things Down
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Why does it feel like every good idea, small win, or positive change is immediately met with skepticism or negativity?
In this episode of The Ordinary Effect, we explore the quiet ways jealousy shows up in everyday conversations — from tearing down new ideas, to resenting other people’s opportunities, to explaining why something “shouldn’t exist” instead of asking how it could be improved.
Using familiar examples like remote work, viral ideas, and even high-profile moments like the Taylor Swift Eras Tour ticket lottery, this episode looks at how frustration, comparison, and exhaustion often masquerade as criticism.
As a new year begins, this isn’t about blind optimism or ignoring flaws — it’s about noticing the reflex to tear things down, understanding where it comes from, and asking whether there’s a more generous way to respond.
Things we all notice — but rarely talk about.
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