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Why We Got In: Joining the Lifestyle

Why We Got In: Joining the Lifestyle

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We’re getting personal in this one. In Episode 3, we talk about what brought us — and so many others — into the lifestyle in the first place. From major life changes and divorce to simple curiosity sparked by friends or media, we open up about the moments that led us here.

We also explore how expectations evolve, what boundaries mean in practice, and how staying self-aware keeps everything grounded. Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode is about growth, communication, and community.


Key Topics Covered:

✔️ Why people join the lifestyle — personal stories and common reasons

✔️ Life after big transitions (divorce, breakups, rediscovery)

✔️ Learning boundaries, consent, and etiquette

✔️ How expectations evolve with experience

✔️ The importance of self-reflection and communication

✔️ Community, connection, and ongoing personal growth

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