On today's show, we sit down with Dennis Harhalakis, a Certified Money Coach and founder of Cambridge Money Coaching. After 30 years in corporate financial services, Dennis realized that while he knew everything about the math of money, he knew very little about the behavior behind it.

In this episode, we dive deep into why money is the #1 source of conflict for couples. Dennis explains that we aren't actually fighting about dollars and cents; we are fighting about values, safety, and childhood programming. We discuss how to move from judgment to curiosity, why "connection must come before solution," and the three specific pillars that make up your relationship with money.

If you have ever felt shame around your finances or struggle to communicate with your spouse about the budget, this episode will give you the compassion and tools you need to heal that relationship.

Key Takeaways-

✅ Money is a Story: A $100 bill is just paper; the value is a narrative. Similarly, your financial life is driven by the stories and beliefs you inherited from your parents.

✅ The Couples Trap: Arguments usually stem from one partner seeking Safety (Saving) and the other seeking Pleasure/Life (Spending). Both are valid psychological needs.

✅ Connection Before Solution: You cannot fix a budget problem until you understand the emotional need behind your partner's behavior.

✅ The 3 Parts of Money: Your relationship with money is actually: 1) What you believe about yourself, 2) What you believe about money, and 3) What you believe about money in yourself.

✅ The Tennis Analogy: If you want to get better at tennis, you hire a coach. Money is the one tool we use every day, yet we rarely seek coaching for the behavioral side of it.

Question for you: Be honest: When you think about your childhood, what is the main "money message" you received from your parents? (e.g., "Money is scarce," or "Don't talk about money"). Let us know in the comments!

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