Sometimes staying in bed while awake makes everything worse.

Your body feels tense.

Your thoughts race.

Your heart feels loud.

You feel trapped between wanting sleep and fearing wakefulness.

In those moments, getting out of bed can help.

Not as a rule.

Not as a technique.

But as a reset.

Changing your physical position changes sensory input.

It gives your nervous system new information.

It interrupts subtle anxiety loops.

Even standing up briefly can shift your internal state.

When you get out of bed, keep things simple.

Low light.

Calm activity.

Nothing stimulating.

1. You might read.
2. You might listen to something.
3. You might watch something familiar.

There is no timer.

There is no deadline.

You return to bed when you feel sleepy or when you feel ready.

This is not about making sleep happen.

This is about making wakefulness more tolerable.

When you remove pressure, your nervous system calms.

Alongside this option, a few refinements make nights much easier:

1. Give up clock watching.

The clock turns uncertainty into pressure.

Pressure becomes panic.

Set your alarm once.

Then stop checking the time.

2. Let go of predictions.

You do not actually know how the night will go.

Expecting disaster creates the anxiety that causes it.

Stay open.

3. Make room for discomfort.

Being awake at night is uncomfortable.

That does not mean something is wrong.

Discomfort does not need to be eliminated.

It needs to be allowed.

4. Conserving energy.

Struggling all night drains you.

Resting while awake does not.

Less struggle means better days.

Better days reduce fear of nights.

Finally, remember that physical symptoms at night are signs of hyperarousal.

1. Racing heart.
2. Twitches.
3. Light sleep.
4. Sudden awakenings.

These are not dangerous.

They are expressions of a stressed nervous system.

When you react to them with alarm, they intensify.

When you respond with acceptance, they fade over time.

You cannot force sleep.

But you can stop making wakefulness worse.

And when you do that consistently, sleep begins to return.

Naturally. Quietly. Without effort.

Just like it always knew how to do.

If you're looking to recover from insomnia for good in as little as 8 weeks, schedule a Complimentary Sleep Consult to see if we can help.

To peaceful sleep,

Ivo at End Insomnia

Why should you listen to me?

I recovered from insomnia after 5 brutal years of suffering. I also wrote a book about it. I've now coached many on how to end their insomnia for good in 8 weeks.

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