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Paula discusses the importance of boundaries in various aspects of life, emphasizing their role in self-care and mental health. She highlights the challenges of setting and maintaining boundaries, noting cultural and generational influences. Paula suggests practical steps, such as starting with setting setting one specific boundary. She stresses that boundaries are essential for protecting personal energy and promoting meaningful self-care. In addition, Paula speaks on the fear of conflict and the need for self-reflection to identify and address feelings of shame and guilt associated with setting boundaries.

In this episode, you will hear:

• impact of boundaries on self-care and mental health
• cultural and generational influences on boundaries
• practical steps for boundary setting
• normalizing discomfort and progress

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Paula discusses the challenges and realities of starting a private practice for new graduates in the mental health field. She emphasizes the importance of realistic expectations, noting some New York specific themes that pre-licensed clinicians often face. Paula highlights the need for business acumen, financial literacy, and networking to name a few core themes in addition to strong clinical skills. She advises against jumping into full-time private practice immediately post-graduation, citing legal restrictions, financial instability, and the necessity of appropriate supervision. Paula also stresses the importance of self-advocacy, setting boundaries, and continuous learning to avoid burnout and ensure sustainable practice.

In this episode, you will hear:
+ challenges of starting a private practice
+ legal and financial considerations
+ operational and administrative challenges
+ impact of external factors on private practice
+ personal and professional growth

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Paula examines the concept of acceptance, emphasizing it as an action rather than a belief. She differentiates acceptance from approval, noting that acceptance is a verb and requires active participation. Paula highlights the challenges of acceptance, including confusion with giving up and the fear of judgment. She shares some personal experiences and the importance of self-compassion and accessing community support. Paula encourages listeners to practice acceptance by meeting reality, setting boundaries, and seeking rest. She stresses that acceptance is not surrender but a courageous acknowledgment of one's circumstances.

In this episode, you will hear:
+ defining acceptance
+ personal and collective challenges
+ cultural and religious influences
+ overcoming avoidance and embracing discomfort
+ the role of control and the “fix-it” energy

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