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Why Don't We Talk About This?

Why Don't We Talk About This?

By: Paula McMillan-Perez LCSW
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You already know that there are a bunch of things people talk about in pockets or completely avoid. Things that may be controversial or uncomfortable but we need to get them off our chest. During "Why Don’t We Talk About This?", licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist, Paula McMillan-Perez speaks with folks whose learned experiences and/or professions give way to a diverse knowledge of topics that we just aren't talking about...but should be!

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Episodes
  • Holiday Greetings & Gratitude
    Dec 16 2025

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    Hey y’all, hey 🤍

    However you move through this season—holiday, cultural, or just surviving it—I hope you’re giving yourself grace, permission to rest, reset, and to opt out/ tap out when needed.

    I’m endlessly grateful for this listening community and the way you continue to show up for these conversations. Truly, thank you for letting me into your ears and your hearts.

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    Drop it in our DMs —episodes return in January!

    Wishing you a gentle, grounding holiday season 🤎

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    Got a topic you want explored on a future episode? Please email us at whydontwetalkaboutthispod@gmail.com


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    2 mins
  • Talking about Bending Time with Michelle Niemeyer
    Dec 9 2025

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    Michelle discusses "The Art of Bending Time," which helps individuals optimize their time, leading to increased efficiency and personal growth. She shared her personal journey from burnout to health recovery through functional medicine and health coaching. Michelle emphasized the importance of finding activities that bring joy, maintaining physical and mental health, and avoiding multitasking. She highlights the significance of integrating personal and professional life for overall well-being and stresses the impact of small changes, such as turning off notifications and creating a supportive community, to enhance productivity and happiness.

    In this episode, you will hear:
    + journey from law to time management
    + discovery and recovery from liver disease
    + development of “the art of bending time”
    + practical tips for time management
    + importance of finding joy in work
    + role of community and support

    Guest Bio:

    Michelle is a speaker, coach, and former attorney who teaches professionals how to bend time so they can stay sharp, productive, and profitable – without burning out. After finding her way to burnout and back in her own high-performing legal career, Michelle created The Art of Bending Time, a framework that helps people connect the dots across work, life, and purpose to magnetize success and reclaim their joy. She helps businesses retain top talent, boost development, and keep their people energized and engaged – all while making the magic happen.

    Contact/Socials:
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-melin-niemeyer/

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    Got a topic you want explored on a future episode? Please email us at whydontwetalkaboutthispod@gmail.com


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    51 mins
  • Talking about ADHD and Addiction with Ron Souers III
    Dec 2 2025

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    Ron discusses his approach to helping males with ADHD, depression, and addiction. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and connecting with clients on a deep level, leveraging his own experiences. Ron and Paula explore the overlap between ADHD and addiction, the impact of cultural and societal norms on emotional expression, and the need for self-awareness and self-care. Ron stresses the importance of being authentic and embracing one's unique strengths, while Paula underscores the value of adaptive strategies and support systems.


    In this episode, you will hear:
    + challenges and strategies
    + understanding and managing multiple challenges
    + emotional intelligence and communication
    + the role of emotions in problem-solving
    + building resilience and self-awareness
    + power of vulnerability and connection


    Contact/Socials
    Email: snowball.pro81@gmail.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085316747632
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ron.solo1
    Website: https://www.youradhdguy.com

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    Got a topic you want explored on a future episode? Please email us at whydontwetalkaboutthispod@gmail.com


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    52 mins
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