This week on The Phat Girl Chronicles, we're tackling a question that's been stirring up conversations online and offline: Where are the Black married men?We're not just talking about numbers or statistics...... we're digging into the heart of relationships, leadership, partnership, and what it truly means to show up in love. Too often we see the narrative of men wanting the position of leadership in relationships and marriage without actually doing the work to lead with integrity, responsibility, and love.This episode isn't about tearing anyone down...... it's about getting real about expectations, accountability, and the standards we set for each other in our community.We're asking the questions that matter: • Are men desiring marriage, or just the status that comes with being "husband"? • What does healthy leadership in a relationship actually look like? • Why do some men equate leadership with control instead of partnership? • And most importantly, what are we teaching the next generation about marriage, family, and partnership?This conversation gets raw, real, and maybe a little uncomfortable, but it's necessary. We're talking about shifting the blueprint, holding each other accountable, and building the kind of marriages and partnerships that reflect not only love but legacy.We love bringing the laughs, the healing, and the hard conversations—but we wanna hear from YOU too! Your voice matters in this community we've built together. So tap in, sound off, and come connect with us:Instagram: @thephatgirlchroniclesFacebook: facebook.com/thephatgirlchroniclesTwitter/X: @pgcpodcastYouTube: https://youtube.com/c/ThePhatGirlChroniclesYou42: https://www.you42.com/channel/1647Did this episode teach you something new, shift your perspective, or just give you a feel-good moment in your day? If so, do us a favor:💬 Share this episode with a friend⭐ Leave us a 5-star review🗣️ Drop a comment about how The Phat Girl Chronicles has shown up for youReview us here: https://www.facebook.com/thephatgirlchronicles/reviewsCatch the replay or binge past episodes on your favorite streaming platforms:🎧Apple🎧Google🎧Audible🎧Pandora🎧iHeartRadio🎧Amazon Music🎥Spotify🎥Youtube🎥You42🎥Facebook🎥leorachel.comWant to show love and support our growth? Sponsor or donate here:Venmo – @pgcpodcastPayPal – PayPal.me/pgcpodcastMusic featured in this episode is used for entertainment purposes only. We do not claim ownership of any songs played, and all rights belong to the respective artists.🎙️ New to streaming or looking to level up? Check out StreamYard and get $10 discount! 😍 https://streamyard.com/pal/d/5394166679339008