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When Winning Isn’t Enough: A Story of Identity, Friendship, and Faith

When Winning Isn’t Enough: A Story of Identity, Friendship, and Faith

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In this episode of Unwritten, Trevor Barreca sits down with a former Division I athlete (Dylan LaNoue) whose life revolved around performance, medals, and winning — until everything he worked for stopped satisfying his heart.

Raised in a hyper-competitive, sports-centered family, his identity was built on success. Records, rankings, MVPs — all of it came true. But behind the accolades were broken relationships, family pain, loneliness, and a growing realization that achievement wasn’t enough.

What followed was a slow, profound transformation — not through trophies, but through authentic friendship, prayer, and learning what it actually means to be loved.


In This Episode You’ll Hear:
🏅 Growing up believing your worth is earned through success
🏀 A Division I athletic career that still left him empty
💔 Rock bottom moments: family turmoil, heartbreak, and loneliness
🤝 The friend who loved him when everything else fell apart
🕊️ A chapel moment that changed how he understood God — and himself
👨‍👦 A father-son relationship healed through small, faithful acts
✝️ A powerful full-circle moment sponsoring his own dad into the Church


This episode is a moving reminder that identity isn’t built on what you accomplish, but on who you’re loved by — and how God patiently renews the mind and heart over time.

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