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When Survival Mode Becomes Identity: Reclaiming Inner Safety with Cindy Costley

When Survival Mode Becomes Identity: Reclaiming Inner Safety with Cindy Costley

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 What if your strength was actually a survival pattern? In Healing Mindset, hosted by Nazish, Cindy Costley shares how living in constant fight-or-flight can quietly become who we believe we are.This episode is for anyone who feels exhausted from always being “the strong one.” Cindy reveals how trauma reshapes the nervous system, how identity forms around survival responses, and how healing begins by restoring safety in the body—not forcing positivity.About the Guest:Cindy Costley is the founder of Underlying Answers and creator of the Electromagnetic Body Desensitization Technique (EBDT). After decades of severe environmental and food reactions, she discovered her symptoms were rooted in survival responses and now helps others address nervous system dysregulation.Episode Chapters:00:00 – When coping becomes identity04:15 – Survival mode beyond stress08:40 – The “allergic to the world” identity13:55 – Trauma, nervous system loops & protection19:10 – Why willpower doesn’t heal biology23:45 – The power of purposeful pause27:30 – Rest and safety as rights, not rewardsKey Takeaways:Survival mode is a biological safety response—not a personality trait.Trauma can lock fight-flight-freeze into long-term patterns.Identity often forms around protective coping mechanisms.Healing requires restoring nervous system safety, not forcing positivity.Curiosity and emotional acknowledgment begin regulation.How to Connect With the Guest:Website: https://theunderlyinganswers.com/ InstagramFacebookTikTokWant to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatchDM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avikDisclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer.Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it’s become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate.With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters.👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey.Contact:💼 Brand: Healthy Mind By Avik™📧 Email: podcast@podhub.club🌐 Website: https://www.podhub.club/📍 Based in: India & USA🎧 Listen to all podcast shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik🤝 Be a guest: https://www.healthymindbyavik.com/beaguest📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/🎙️ Want to Be a Guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?Send me a direct message on PodMatch.👉 DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik📌 DisclaimerThis episode is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not necessarily reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media remains the property of their respective owners and is used under fair use for informational purposes. By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer.🌱 About Healthy Mind By Avik™️Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it has become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate the platform now reaches 200K+ global listeners across 6000+ episodes, uniting voices, breaking stigma, and reminding us that every story matters.👉 Subscribe and be part of this healing journey.📬 Contact & LinksBrand: Healthy Mind By Avik™️Email: avik@podhealth.clubWebsite: https://www.podhub.club/Based in: India & USA🎧 All Podcast Shows: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavik🤝 Be a Guest: https://www.podhub.club/beaguest📩 Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/🤝 Join Our LinkedIn CommunityConnect with a global community focused on mental health, wellness, and personal growth. Join meaningful conversations, discover insights from experts, and grow alongside like-minded individuals.👉 Join the LinkedIn Community: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/14498362/#podmatch #healthymindbyavik #podhub.club #HealingJourney #TraumaRecovery #NervousSystemHealing #EmotionalWellness #SelfTrust #InnerSafety #MentalHealthMatters #MindBodyConnection #TraumaInformed ...
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